In everyone's heart, there is a person who loves it.
However, many times, we don't know each other's minds.
Although you can feel his kindness to you, it doesn't necessarily mean that he really loves you.
In relationships, many women always blindly believe what men say, and finally lead to themselves being deceived.
In fact, when a man says he loves you, he doesn't say it casually;It's not for nothing that a man says he doesn't love you.
Therefore, when a woman is in a relationship with a man, she must keep her eyes open. Only in this way can you avoid being deceived by men.
Treat you like the most important person
If a person has you in his heart, then he will treat you as the most important person."
That's true. His love for you may only be superficial, because he will be good to the people he cares about. Instead of really treating you as the most important person, that's why he will keep giving for you.
Just like the TV series "Do You Know, Do You Know?".It should be the same as Gu Tingye in "Green, Fat, Red and Thin". Although he is very good to Minglan , he likes Minglan too much, so he will pay for Minglan . Even if Gu Tingye has a lot of women, he only has Minglan in his heart. Because Gu Tingye regarded Minglan as his most important person, he chose to believe her after Gu Tingye betrayed Minglan . Therefore, when a man treats you as the most important person, then he will definitely be good to you wholeheartedly. Even the best woman has a certain status in the hearts of men. Therefore, when a man behaves like this to you, it means that he has regarded you as the most important person. 
I won't have an affair with other members of the opposite sex.
Many women will have such doubts, why have they been with their boyfriends for so long, but the other party is still so good to other people of the opposite sex?Actually, this is because once a man likes a woman, he puts all his thoughts on her. And at this time, the most common mistake men make is to spend their hearts. Because, he always can't help but have an affair with other members of the opposite sex. Because he wants the other party to be kind to him and wants the other party to see his sincerity. And as a result of this, the woman is hurt emotionally. Because, once a man becomes ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex, he will take this behavior for granted. Although he will promise you "we are just friends", in fact, he doesn't want you to know what he really thinks at all. Therefore, if a man really loves you, he will not be ambiguous with other members of the opposite sex. Because he doesn't want you to be sad. 
He will give you promises
Commitment is a good thing. Because, it represents a kind of trust and affirmation. Therefore, what a man says to you is his greatest recognition and affirmation of you. Of course, commitment is not a one-person decision, but needs to be agreed upon by both parties. So, when a man truly loves you, he will give you promises. Only then will he feel comfortable handing you over to him. Because he knows that what he says will be fulfilled. It's like those men who keep saying they love you, how can they promise you after dating you?On the contrary, when a man says something sweet to you, he never delivers on it. Because he doesn't love you enough, that's why he makes those false promises to you. On the contrary, if a man does not love you at all, it is useless to coax you, talk nonsense, and swear by you. Because he doesn't put you at the top of his heart at all. So: women should remember: only a man who truly loves you will give you promises!
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