College is an important life stage for many people. However, some people are ignorant of the hard work of college students and even provoke them with their words. The college students were annoyed by this because they thought that those people didn't have a backache when they stood and talked. Many people mistakenly think that college students should be omniscient, but in fact, the significance of college lies in the Xi of learning in different disciplines and majors. Therefore, for college students, no one person can know everything. Others think that going to college is easy, simply because there are only two classes in the morning, which makes college students even angrier. The reason for their anger is that although each class is only two hours, they have to concentrate on their Xi, accept the pressure of the course assignments, and face the troubles of growing up. In addition, college students have to face competition and pressure from their peers. For example, failing an exam, failing a make-up exam, or even missing a point to get a chance to retake the exam are enough to irritate college students. And some interactions with school teachers are often frustrating for college students. Teachers sometimes announce that they are not focusing a week before the final exam, or make it difficult to announce the scope of the exam. Such a move caused the blood pressure and heart rate of college students to rise sharply. In addition, announcements in universities often convey strong emotions through concise text. For example, the class schedule that starts at 8 a.m. every day, or the important professional classes at 2 p.m., or even self-study in the morning and evening, etc., make college students feel that the world is separated from them. None of these conversations have caused psychological damage to college students. Whether it is pressure from peers or family, the most important thing for college students is the tolerance and understanding of parents. They are facing pressures from academics, career planning, and relationships, and may feel lost and frustrated. At this stage, college students need the understanding and support of their parents, rather than excessive anxiety and excessive expectations. College students are in a critical period of self-awareness and development, and they need space to explore, Xi, and grow. Therefore, respecting the independence and adult status of university students, and providing necessary support and advice, is an important role that parents can play in the college years.
University students are angry that some people don't understand and misunderstand them. They feel stressed that some people have high expectations of the knowledge and abilities that college students should have. In fact, everyone has their own interests and talents, and the meaning of university is not to be omniscient, but to cultivate professional ability through professional and detailed Xi. A university is not a place of recreation, and students have to complete assignments, research projects, etc., in addition to attending classes. The time of college students is filled and intensely scheduled, and it is by no means easy to compare. Having only two classes a day does not mean that they have a lot of free time, each class has up to two hours of teaching time, and college students must follow the teacher's learning Xi with full attention, actively participate in discussions, and carry a huge academic pressure. Moreover, college students often have to face complex social environments and interpersonal relationships, and need to find a balance between academics and socialization. There are also some misconceptions about the academic Xi grades of college students. Sometimes college students will not achieve satisfactory results in a certain course for various reasons, but this does not represent their ability and level of effort. Sometimes a water class may get worse grades than others, but that doesn't mean college students can relax on the course, because even water classes require a certain amount of effort to get a good grade. In addition, some university teachers also reveal that they do not pay attention to or ridicule college students, which will further affect students' enthusiasm and dedication to Xi. For example, a week before the final exam, teachers announce that they will not mark the focus, or change the content of the exam when the scope of the exam is announced, which is irresponsible behavior for students.
In addition to misconceptions from the outside world, college students often face pressure from their families. Parents often expect too much from them, hoping that they will become famous in one fell swoop. Some parents will require their children to prepare for both the civil service and the graduate school entrance exam while they are in college, which places a heavy burden on college students and sometimes even takes a toll on their physical and mental health. Sometimes the financial support of parents also makes college students resentful. They believe that the 800 yuan provided by their parents is far from enough to cover their daily expenses, which makes it difficult for them to maintain a normal standard of living. College students sometimes need to buy necessities, but they are limited to the economy. This makes them feel anxious and helpless. Sometimes for some emergencies, such as the theft of takeaways, the failure to enter test scores, etc., the understanding and support of parents is not enough. These situations can make college students feel powerless and distressed.
Even though college students are adults, they still need understanding and support from their parents. College students at this stage face many challenges and pressures, including academics, career planning, and interpersonal relationships. They need understanding, encouragement, and support from their parents, not excessive anxiety and high expectations. College students are in a critical period of self-awareness and development, and they need space to explore, Xi, and grow. Parents should respect the independence and adulthood of university students and provide necessary help and advice to play a positive role. Parental support is essential for the mental health of college students. Parents' tolerance and understanding can alleviate the stress and confusion faced by college students and help them better adjust their state.
To sum up, college students face many challenges and distresses, misunderstandings and expectations from the outside world, as well as pressure from their families, which make them feel helpless and frustrated. At this stage, what college students need most is support and understanding from their parents and those around them. Parents should respect their independence and adulthood and give them the necessary support and advice. Only in this way will university students be better able to cope with challenges and achieve their goals in life.