Modern blind dates often have such a situation: while holding the rice bowl, the other party must hold the meat. In fact, be pragmatic, everyone has rice and porridge, and they can also work together in harmony, and then work together to buy some meat. However, in reality, people who drink porridge often want to steal your rice bowl and then enjoy your meat to themselves.
My friends, both men and women, if they are single when they are older, some will choose to lower the standard, and some will decide to remain celibate. Some women after the age of 35 make it clear that they will no longer consider getting married, because this age is already embarrassing for them, and it is better not to look for it.
Similarly, some men over the age of 40 declare celibacy and ask relatives and friends not to introduce them to any more partners. In fact, when they no longer consider the option of getting married and having children, their lives become happier.
This is the case in the blind date market, where men of the same age usually look down on older women, and they are more inclined to look for younger women with financial conditions. Older women, on the other hand, look down on them, and they feel inferior because of their age and status, and are unwilling to lower their posture.
So, although they say they want to be single for the rest of their lives, in reality it is very difficult to do. This is what is really going on in the blind date market.
I don't force the other party to add my name to the property before I get married, but I hope that after I have a child after marriage, I can take a paternity test and add the child's name to the real estate deed.
After all, now illegitimate children can inherit property, and I don't want my children to be treated unfairly. I want my children to enjoy the rights and protections they deserve, so I insist that my child's name be added to the title deed.
There is a girl in the system, with a master's degree, good looks, housework and cooking, and a very good person, with a straightforward personality. She met me when I was working on a project before, when she had just graduated and entered the unit, and she was about 26 years old.
Since then, she has not found a suitable match, and is now an older young woman in her 30s. Now she is introduced to people over 40 years old, second marriage, divorced, and unmarried young men, who are okay and normal, are difficult to meet.
It's not that she is demanding, it's just that her circle is relatively small, and she doesn't want to go out to expand her circle, her life is to go to work, get off work, and live her own life.
Do you know why I'm called an older leftover girl by you?When I was at my poorest, I grew up with him, gave up my own life, left my own city, went to his city, and fought against my parents for ten years, unless he didn't marry.
Then he made money, grew up, bought a house and a car, turned around and married someone else. Many people will question that there must be something wrong with me, otherwise why didn't they marry me for ten years.
My friends around me all felt worthless for me, there were so many excellent people who pursued me back then, and my family introduced me to so many high-quality objects, but I just didn't listen, I just wanted to find someone I liked, just to be good to me.
I remember telling my mom that I had broken up, and she taunted me: This is the love you want, does it hurt?So you know why I'd rather be single than look for love anymore.
After returning to being single, my mental state is much better and I have more time to spend with my parents, friends, and live my own life.
Please don't try to deceive any woman, young or old. Everyone should be respected and valued, not used to achieve their own ends.