A kindergarten in Xiantao, Hubei Province staged a ridiculous farce. A grandfather went to kindergarten to take his little granddaughter away, but mistook another girl for his own daughter and took her home. The old man only went to kindergarten after the lunch break, and because he was confused, he didn't realize that he had mistaken the child. What surprised me even more was that when the little girl came home, she was still crying, and her grandfather didn't even know it. It wasn't until he picked up a ** that he realized he had made a mistake and quickly took the child back to the kindergarten. This scene scares both teachers and parents silly.
However, this mistake is not just an old man's problem, it is a huge risk for the whole school. It would be terrible if this girl had been abducted. Kindergarten is the first Xi place for children to learn and live in contact with the outside world, so ensuring the safety of children is the top priority of kindergarten work. Therefore, when picking up children, it is generally the parents themselves who pick them up, and they need to be notified and confirmed in advance. It can be seen from the phenomenon of "picking up the wrong person" that "picking up the wrong person" is not only a lax management of children's education, but also a hidden danger to parents and children.
The various challenges and challenges of male parenting.
Male child-raising is a topic that often causes debate and controversy. Despite the fact that gender equality between men and women is advocated in today's world, women still have to take on the responsibility of caring for children at home. Many mothers often complain that they are too tired from work, but it is not that they don't want to push the work on their husbands, but that their husbands' behaviors make them feel uneasy. The scene of "grandfather" and others in this news is actually a typical case of an adult man raising a child.
Raising children for men faces many difficulties and challenges. First of all, there is the limitation of human understanding. Compared to women, men are generally worse in terms of subtleties and responses to children. That's why he admits his mistakes. Secondly, men do not have enough experience in parenting and cannot understand children's needs and emotions well. In addition, due to the current stresses of life, many men do not have time to take care of the development of their children. This makes raising children a dilemma for men.
Kindergarten rate and parental responsibility.
It's a big responsibility for parents to go back and forth every day. In the northeastern United States, whether it is kindergarten or elementary school, pick-up is a very important thing for parents. Even in secondary school, parents still insist on their responsibilities and put their children's safety first.
Driving your son sounds easy, but in reality, it's not an easy task. Many parents have to deal with the contradiction between work and school, both to ensure that they can go to school on time and not to delay work. This is a big problem for many single fathers or parents who have irregular jobs.
In addition, parents are also very worried about the safety of their children. The accident has made many parents realize that there are many problems in the transportation of kindergartens. They ask schools to improve the quality of education for each student and guarantee the health of each student.
Kindergarten teachers face dilemmas and pressures.
Teachers play a very crucial role in kindergarten. Not only do they have to take care of the children, but they also have to take an active role in educating and guiding them. However, preschool teachers often face great difficulties and pressures.
The first is that the salary is too small. Kindergarten teachers are generally paid very little, but they are responsible for raising children and meeting the various needs and expectations of parents. As a result, it is very difficult for the industry to attract good teachers and experienced and responsible staff. The salary is too low and the work pressure is too great, and many kindergarten teachers either quit or quit.
Secondly, kindergarten teachers have to deal with the various needs of parents. Parents have high expectations for their children's safety and the quality of teaching, and often demand perfection and 100% satisfaction from teachers. However, the number of preschool teachers is also small, and there are multiple responsibilities to take into account the safety and academic development of young children.
Male parenting misconceptions and experiences.
Although there are many things that go out of the ordinary in raising children, we can't put the blame on them. Taking care of children is an experienced and patient thing, and men should also know how to take care of children. Therefore, there are several ways for men to take better care of their children.
First of all, men should be more involved in the growth and life of their children, so as to enhance their knowledge and understanding of their children. Parents can improve their parenthood by understanding their needs and emotions by participating in their daily lifestyles such as play, communicating, and learning Xi together.
Secondly, men can also share parenting responsibilities with their spouses and discuss and develop parenting plans together. Taking care of children at home is a common thing, and men can discuss with their spouses how to better divide their work and create a good community atmosphere.
In addition, families and kindergartens should provide more support and support to male parents to help them take responsibility for parenting. For example, parenting training should be strengthened to provide children with parenting knowledge and skills. At the same time, a more complete nursery management system can be built to ensure the safety and smoothness of picking up and dropping off children.
In short, men may have a lot of outrageous behaviors when raising children, but we can't put them all together. We firmly believe that men can also do a better job of parenting and take on the responsibility of parenting.