In "Parental Love",Dehua and Ge Meixia both had a rough marriage, and they got married at an older age, one married to Lao Ding, and the other married to Commissar Wang.
However, married for many years,Why is it only Dehua who has a child?
At first, I thought it was a physical cause, but later I found out that it was much more than thatGe Meixia's situation is much more complicated than Dehua's.
Lao Ding's previous wife, Wang Xiu'e, gave birth to four sons in one go.
When An Jie just gave birth to the second child, Jiang Defu had a headache about the child's name, Lao Ding saw that he was so distressed, and directly told him that since the eldest is called National Day, the second child is called Junqing, and the third child is called Minqing.
I don't know if Jiang Defu really doesn't want to use his brains anymore, the names of these sons in his family are really decided because of Lao Ding's casual words.
Jiang Defu is a student who beats gongs and drums, and Lao Ding is the same life.
This time,Lao Ding told Jiang Defu that if he wanted to have another daughter, he wouldn't give birth, and even the name was chosen and called a sample, but it's a pity that the fourth Wang Xiu'e still gave birth to a son for him.
After Lao Ding and Dehua got married, this task naturally fell to her.
Wang Zhenbiao and his wife have been married for so many yearsWang Haiyang has a son, his official position is higher than Jiang Defu, there should be no reason why he can't afford to raise it, not to mention that the cost of raising children in that era was already low.
Wang Zhenbiao is not a person who likes children, middle-aged children are too tossed.
I have to say that Wang Zhenbiao's ideological consciousness is really high, and he realized the importance of eugenics at that timeLao Ding gave birth to four sons, but none of them had a better son than Wang Haiyang.
It seems that the child is fine but not more, and it is useless if the quality is not good.
Compared with the old Ding family, the children have long been accustomed to the life of a group of brothers, Wang Haiyang has always had only one child in his family, and he is used to living the life of an only child.
How could he be willing to have another child to distract his father's attention.
It is said that if you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfatherHe is away from home all the year round, and he has no biological mother to maintain his relationship with his father, if the stepmother has her own son again,The center of gravity of the family is inevitably tilted
Moreover, a family like theirs should pay more attention to these, even if there is no throne to inherit in the family.
Although Ge Meixia is Wang Haiyang's teacher,but looked down on her very much, and once said bad things about her at the dinner table.
In and out of the words, there is a dislike for the "daughter of the fish bully".even thinks that Ge Meixia is an old girl who can't get married
But now this old girl was married by her father not long after her mother died, Wang Haiyang probably hated her to death in his heart.
No child can accept his father to change his mother so quicklyNot to mention Wang Haiyang, a somewhat rebellious "gentleman".
When Ge Meixia and Wang Zhenbiao first got married, their relationship was unstable, and Wang Haiyang didn't like Ge Meixia in the first place, and if he touched his head in this matter again, the gains outweighed the losses.
After all, if you want to live well in the future, you have to rely on this stepson.
When Ge Meixia planned to marry Wang Zhenbiao, Dehua had children for several yearsThinking about it this way, Ge Meixia at this time is probably not young.
Needless to say, the danger of giving birth to a child in an elderly woman is naturalGe Meixia is not someone who wants to take this risk.
And Wang Zhenbiao has been married for so many years, and there is only one child Wang Haiyang, heWhether the body can give birth or not is still two words, after all, they all came down from the battlefield, and they were injured later.
Teckwah has shown her amazing physical qualities in the early stages, When I took the island on a boat for the first time, An Xin vomited and didn't vomit, but Dehua didn't do anything at all, which made An Xin very envious.
Ge Meixia was punished to do hard work because of her background, and her body is estimated to be exhausted.
And although Dehua often works at home, there is still an An Jie to help her, and the work at home can be heavy, and it will definitely not damage the bodyHer brother and sister-in-law are not real capitalists
From Dehua to Anjie brought up so many children,You can see how much she loves her children.
When he first started in Qingdao, Dehua had no face to stay at the Jiang family because of breastfeeding, and before leaving, Dehua was reluctant to give up on his eldest nephew, and even wanted to take him back to his hometown.
Ge Meixia doesn't like children to a large extent, If the child is very important in Ge Meixia's heart, then she will not be picking and choosing at her best age, and she is unwilling to find someone to work with.
It can be seen from some of the plotsThe children on the island are very unpleasant, they are too deeply influenced by their parents, and they look down on people like Ge Meixia.
Even An Jie when he first came to the island,I was also "teased" by these children
This is still when things are goodLater, Ge Meixia really had an accident and went to pick up dung, and she must have been ridiculed more.
Adults are okay, they have to take care of each other's faces, children can't manage so much, and they can't care about them.
is different from people like Anjie and Ge Meixia who pursue quality of lifeBringing up children is the most enjoyable way for Teckwah to find his own pleasure
She was able to find her sense of fulfillment in these menial chores.
Ge Meixia married Wang ZhenbiaoIn order to be able to live a life where Mrs. Shangguan doesn't have to care about anything like An Jie, how happy she was that the days she longed for were ruined by a child.
In his later years, An Jie and Ge Meixia seemed to be completely swappedBecause An Jie has to worry about her children, she has different worries every day, and she doesn't know how long she hasn't had a leisurely cup of coffee.
On the contrary, Ge Meixia has no children, and even when her grandson comes to her, she is past the age of needing to be taken care of.
This gives her plenty of time to enjoy her life, drink coffee, apply **, and decorate your own small courtyard, just like An Jie at the beginning.
Even Angel gave birth to so many children that she didn't volunteerIf it weren't for Dehua, An Jie would have become a resentful woman long ago.
The reason why Ge Meixia was happy in her last years was that she knew what she wanted, there is a give-and-take.
We all know that Dehua likes Lao Ding, but does Ge Meixia really have feelings for Wang Zhenbiao?
Ge Meixia's favorite person must be herselfWang Zhenbiao is a reliance for her, to provide her with high-quality living conditions, so that she is equal to An Jie in status.
In fact, although An Jie and Ge Meixia are friendsBut An Jie has never understood Ge Meixia
When she went to ask Ge Meixia if she was willing to marry Wang Zhenbiao, she was full of apprehension, in her consciousness, Ge Meixia was still the person who pursued the same as herself.
In An Jie's opinion, being a stepmother is a very humiliating thing.
But,For Ge Meixia at that time, Wang Zhenbiao was her best choice, she married Wang Zhenbiao and had nothing to do with love.
Different people have different situations, and happiness is always varied, can't say that Dehua who has a child must be happy, and don't say that Ge Meixia who has no child must be unhappy, it still depends on what they think