In recent years, the countryside has undergone earth-shaking changes, and it is gratifying to see that the countryside has taken on a new look. However, there are some strange phenomena that are difficult to understand. This article will describe and ** from 6 aspects.
In the past, rural men were unable to marry wives mainly because of their poor family background. However, in today's rural areas where they are generally affluent, why is it still difficult to marry a daughter-in-law?In recent years, the number of singles among young men in rural areas has been increasing, which has become a difficult problem to solve. The possible reason is that young men nowadays pay more attention to their careers and pursuits, and have higher requirements for finding a partner. In addition, the process of informatization in modern society and the changes in lifestyles brought about by urbanization have also caused a certain gap and estrangement between young men in rural areas and women in urban areas.
As it became more difficult for rural men to marry daughters-in-law, once they did, these women were treated as "young grandmothers" and were supported at home. They don't have to do housework or labor, but live a pampered life. This phenomenon is not uncommon in rural areas, and the lifestyle of these "young grandmothers" has changed dramatically compared to the traditional rural women of the past. However, whether this phenomenon of "less grandmother" is really in line with the values of contemporary society still needs to be considered and **.
In the past, rural people lived a very tiring life and had little time for recreation and relaxation. Nowadays, the change in rural production methods has made life easier for farmers, and rural people can enjoy more leisure time. They can get together to chat, play chess, play cards, or sing and dance. Therefore, the phenomenon of rural people having leisure and entertainment all day long is becoming more and more prominent. However, whether such a way of life will make rural people slack off and lose their motivation to struggle is worthy of our deep consideration and vigilance.
In recent years, with the increase in the number of rural people going out to work, many rural families have built beautiful new houses in their hometowns. However, many of the new houses sit idle for long periods of time because few rural people who have gone out to work live in these new houses. This hollowing out is prominent in the countryside, and these new houses become a strange existence. How to make rational use of these building resources in rural areas has become a question for us to think about.
Today, many young rural people have gone out to work, leaving the elderly with children and daughters at home to take care of the farmland. These elderly people only have a pension of a few hundred yuan a month, and their lives are very difficult. In contrast, the lonely and widowed elderly do enjoy the five guarantees provided by the state, and can get more than 1,000 yuan per month, living a carefree life and enjoying life to the fullest. This makes some elderly people with children and daughters envious of the life of lonely and widowed old people, forming a very strange phenomenon.
In recent years, the divorce rate among young couples in rural areas has been on the rise. A few minor contradictions and disputes are enough to lead to the separation of rural couples. This situation is markedly different from the past, and the stability of the marriage has been severely impacted. This phenomenon may be related to changes in social values, the rise of individual freedom consciousness, and cultural shocks. In view of this phenomenon, we need to think about how to effectively protect the stability and happiness of rural families.
Although the countryside has undergone earth-shaking changes, its strange phenomenon reminds us that we cannot ignore the diverse changes in rural society. These phenomena may be related to factors such as the process of modernization, changes in the social structure, and the gap between rural and urban areas. We should have an in-depth understanding of the reasons behind these phenomena and find solutions to ensure the stable development of rural society and the happy life of the people.