In a relationship, a woman is generally more involved. In reality, there are many women who are very disgusted with ambiguous relationships, bravely stay together if they like it, and break up decisively if they don't like it, without dragging their feet. But there are always men who like to play some personal thoughts. Generally speaking, men neither delete you nor contact you, and often have these intentions.
1.Afraid of being complained, I want to take the initiative to let you say break up.
When a woman breaks up with a man, she usually puts on an attitude of not getting along with each other. But men often feel that even if they are not together, there is no need to be strangers, and they can be friends after a breakup.
They feel that it is not appropriate for two people to be together, and they want to break up but are embarrassed to say it, so they simply stop contacting the woman, and slowly distance themselves, making her feel that something is wrong between you. After all, if a man takes the initiative to break up, he will think that he is the wrong party no matter what. They will try to get the woman to take the initiative to break up, so that they can feel at ease.
In fact, women are more sensitive in their hearts, and if you don't love her anymore, she will feel it. Deliberately alienating him will only make him more sad and disappointed.
2.is angry with you, so that you take the initiative to improve the relationship.
If a man doesn't contact you, he doesn't necessarily don't love you. It is possible that he is awkward with himself, but he actually loves you in his heart, but he deliberately pretends to be indifferent, screwing you and torturing himself.
In fact, he doesn't contact you, and he is trying his best to endure it in his heart, but he is in a haughty heart, and he would rather be uncomfortable than take the initiative to contact you, and he always feels that this kind of love is fair, and he feels humble if he takes the initiative a little.
So if a man doesn't take the initiative to contact you, it's not necessarily that he has changed his mind, but that he has been wronged in your relationship, is angry with you, and wants you to see and make changes.
3.Thinking of the love of the past.
The way men deal with feelings is completely different from women, especially when two people break up, women generally decide to become strangers after the breakup, but for men, they feel that they don't necessarily have to be strangers after a breakup, but they still want to be friends with you.
Therefore, women should be clear that if a man does not contact you, he does not still have feelings for you, but he remembers his former affection, and he does not delete it out of politeness.
Therefore, if a woman is facing the above situation, she must sort out your feelings, improve the relationship if she loves, and let go bravely if she doesn't love.