When it comes to intimate relationships, women often fall into some misunderstandings, especially when it comes to controlling men. This kind of control will not only not win the love of men, but will consume their feelings for you. Really smart women don't force men in their relationships, and they don't impose their ideas on men. They know how to control their emotions and make men understand that they are more focused on self-actualization.
Really smart women don't stare at men all the time, and they don't be too enthusiastic or too cold to men. Instead, they maintain a certain distance and space to make men feel free and respected. They don't tie their lives completely to men, but have their own hobbies and career pursuits. Such women are more independent and confident, as well as more attractive.
At the same time, really smart women will also give men face and make them feel understood and supported. They will learn to show weakness and grasp the big and let go of the small. Showing weakness can make women more pliable and men more protective;And grasping the big and letting go of the small can make women more tolerant and understanding of men, and make men more grateful and love them.
In addition to this, really intelligent women also influence men through their subconscious. They will use positive words to encourage and support men, so that men will be recognized and supported. At the same time, they will also influence men through their behavior, so that men can be understood and accepted. This subconscious influence can allow women to gain a deeper understanding of men's inner worlds and thus gain greater control over men.
In conclusion, a truly intelligent woman will not try to completely control the man in her relationship, but will control the man through self-actualization, giving him face, and subconscious influence. Doing so can make women more confident and attractive, and it can also make men love them more. At the same time, this way of getting along can also make both parties more free and happy, and make love more beautiful.