What are you doing at my house, go to your parents, I don't have anything for you to eat.
This is me leaving my daughter at a relative's house, and I was at the door when I went to pick it up and heard what the relative said to my daughter.
At that time, the family was very poor, and many relatives looked down on it, so they had no choice but to use labor in exchange for a little help from them. I remember that year, we husband and wife, went to help a relative's house to help him harvest rice, in order to borrow his threshing machine, to harvest his own rice, we husband and wife went to help him for three whole days, it was our turn to harvest the day, he said that his son-in-law was in a hurry, so he took the threshing machine, no way we can only wait, and dare not say anything.
My daughter was still young at that time, so we went to harvest the rice, put her in his house, and showed him ...... dry the rice at home
When I went to pick it up, I heard the opening conversation. I came back again, and only a dozen meters away from his house did I shout for my daughter to come home ......
Every time their family has any wine to drink, or kill New Year's pigs or something, they will come to call me in the middle of the meal, many times I don't go, sometimes I go, there is no way not to tear my face, after all, there is still a need for him in the future, their family sometimes calls in advance, but every time they only call me alone, they have not called my daughter-in-law and children ......
Every time I go to eat, I feel very uncomfortable, people are dragging their families, a table of people are happy, I am the only one, I don't call your family, I feel uncomfortable, embarrassed, and I am not in the mood to eat at all.
I remember one year, on July 14, my daughter went to his house for dinner, and was scolded halfway through. We have a Xi there, for the holidays, we take turns to go to each family to eat, that day his daughter came to call our family, called very warmly, and invited the whole family, I was still killing ducks at that time, so I arranged for my daughter to go up with her first, and after a few minutes my daughter came back, I asked her why she came back
The daughter said: Dad and aunt she didn't let me go, halfway to the road she stared at me and told me not to go, I hugged my daughter, sad and said it's okay, our family's dishes are also ready, and you can eat it immediately. Although my daughter was still young at the time, she also knew that and my daughter didn't go to his house to play ...... since she was a childInstead, I got close to a grandmother in the village, who went to herd cattle and would always bring some wild fruits to my daughter when she came back.
Since then, I slowly didn't have much contact, I didn't like to go to their house, and then it became popular to go to Guangdong to work, and my wife's cousin introduced us to work in Guangdong, and slowly our lives have improved a lot.
In 2003, we built a large bungalow ...... in the villageLife is slowly getting better, my daughter graduated from college, and I have bought a car over the years!Slowly, these relatives who used to look down on us have also been in contact with each other recently, and they have called for a little bit of wine several times, and if they don't go, they are afraid that they will say that they look down on us, so I feel a little sad ...... when I goMost of the time I don't go.
But my daughter always persuaded me: Daddy looks away, everyone has to look forward, isn't it okay now?
After my daughter graduated from college, she opened a computer consumables company with a friend, and the business is still very good......I bought a house and a car in the city, which is also my greatest comfort, and it is also the most successful thing I have done in my life, sometimes my daughter says, I really have to listen to it, after all, people are college students, I want to listen to her, it's always right, people are now a big boss, the pattern is much more than me, and slowly I am relieved ......