When I first got married, my mother-in-law separated from us, and a house was half-planked and they lived next door.
When we parted ways, we got a water tank, a stove, and a wooden cabinet (for grain), which were worth a little money, and these things were ......
One day I drank corn porridge at noon, and went to my mother-in-law's house next door to get one, pickled lemon, and my mother-in-law said: If you want to eat yourself, won't you pickle?Always come to me to get ......Since then, I have not dared to take anything from their house to eat.
After the farm was busy, with everyone, my husband and I also went to the ore vein, digging coal for some living expenses, one day when my husband went down the mine, just halfway down accidentally fell down, I watched my husband motionless below. I ran back and called it, my father-in-law and a few relatives, went to carry my husband back, and sent him to the hospital, fortunately, it was fine, but I had to lie in bed for half a month.
My father-in-law gave me the money in the hospital, and when I got home, my father-in-law caught a hen and told me to kill it for my husband. Make up for nutrition, and then my mother-in-law found out and caught the chickens back, she said that they had paid for the medical expenses, and they had to catch their chickens to eat, scolding us for always taking advantage of their family. From that time on, I knew that my mother-in-law was not stingy, but looked down on us, I didn't say anything, and the next day, I went back to my parents' house and borrowed some money, so I survived that hard time.
A year later, my daughter was born, and just a few days after she was born, she knew that I had given birth to a girl, and she didn't even come to see her, and told people everywhere that I wouldn't have a son, and that she couldn't even raise her head in the village when she gave birth to a girl. Later, the people in the village were talking about her, saying that she was snobbish and probably under pressure, so she came to help me for a few days, and my mother came to take care ......of me a few days later, and she never came back after thatShe never gave me a penny for giving birth to my daughter, and she didn't kill a ...... for meThink back to this kind of old days!I always want to tell my daughter about it, but think about it, I don't want to pass on this kind of grudge to the next generation......
Later, we were introduced to the city to learn from people to collect old things, maybe it was lucky, and after a few years, we returned to the village to build a two-story building, and then my mother-in-law's attitude towards me began to change ......
In 2000, my mother-in-law went to the mountains to pick wild grapes to make wine, and broke her foot. After paying the fee, I turned around and left, leaving my husband there to take care of her, and within a day my husband told me that he wanted me to take care of it, and he said that he was a little inconvenient for a big man But I didn't go, my husband was a little angry, but he also knew why I didn't take care of his ......There is no way, my husband called ** to my mother's house to sue ......I was scolded by my dad and said that I would set a bad example for my children. Later, I reluctantly took care of her for more than ten days......On the day she was discharged from the hospital, she said that she was so sorry for me all these years, and thanked me for not caring about taking care of her, but in fact, I didn't listen to a word ......I still can't let go of it.
Soon after her daughter graduated from college and joined the workforce, she opened a company, took her grandparents to travel everywhere every year, and bought them various ......In fact, I have some diaphragms in my heart, thinking back to the past, when the children were young, they didn't help take a day, but in exchange for my daughter as a treasure, caring for them, filial piety to them, but let it pass in the past......Be a man and look forward.