Time slipped away inadvertently, and in the blink of an eye, it was already five. As a post-70s generation, when I reached this age of knowing the destiny of heaven, I felt a lot of emotion, and the ups and downs of life finally made me see through a lot of things. Liang Qiu once said that the fun of middle age lies in having a good understanding of life and oneself, so as to live a profound and mature life. Maybe it's the years of Ben Wu that tell me to do my best and live the best rest of my life. The second half of life, live in the moment, simply enjoy life, don't have to make life complicated, and do your best to live a simple and happy life.
Ben Wu I saw through the gains and losses, tried my best to do what I liked, calmly faced all the gains and losses, no longer complained, no longer competed, and lived the rest of my life at my own pace. The first half of my life was full of bumps, but it was these ups and downs that made me see through the truth of life. Gains and losses, success and failure, just see through. What belongs to you, you will get it sooner or later;What doesn't belong to you can't be fought for. After running five, learn to face life calmly, no longer care too much about gains and losses, learn to give up, learn to see open, and want to open up a little bit of everything, and the mood will become open-minded.
Ben Wu, I have seen through people's hearts. At the age of fifty, half a life has passed, and through rich experiences, I have seen through people's hearts. In this world, there are two things that cannot be looked at, one is the sun and the other is the human heart. There is a warm side to the human heart, and there is also a dark side. After going through a lot, I have come to understand that there are sincere and false encounters in life. After Ben Wu, I saw it clearly, I saw it through, I didn't want to be in the company of people who were uncomfortable with me anymore, I didn't want to be fooled anymore, and I didn't want to deal with hypocritical people anymore. At this age, I have removed the immaturity of the past, and I also have the ability to re-examine life. Seeing through people's hearts, I chose not to please others, but to be myself and please myself.
I understand the value of true friends, and I know that it is enough to get one or two true friends. Therefore, some social circles were cleaned up in a timely manner, useless interactions were reduced, and some social interactions were abandoned. In the years to come, I don't want to waste any more time on people who don't deserve it. I cherish the people around me, talk to my true friends, and spend time with people who love me. Give up greed, live contentedly, and cherish the time with family and good friends. Life is short, the rest of my life is precious, I choose to stay away from people who will only consume me, cherish those who treat me sincerely, stay away from intrigue, and become a quiet bystander.
Ben Wu I know how to go with the flow and follow the circumstances. At this age of knowing the destiny of heaven, many things are no longer extravagant, and I gradually understand that everything in life is arranged by fate. As Feng Zikai said: "Don't mess with your heart, don't be trapped in love, don't be afraid of the future, don't think about the past, so, it's fine." "Fifty years old, I have experienced ups and downs, and I have seen strong winds and waves. However, if you can maintain a normal heart, have a calm heart, and live a simple and happy life, you can feel happiness even if your life is ordinary. What you can't do, learn to be indifferent;What can't be changed, learn to accept it. When the heart becomes simpler, life becomes happy. The world is impermanent, go with the flow, run five, hope that the future life can be content, treat yourself, and live the rest of your life comfortably.