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Wen Feiyu. 
See a post like this:
The nephew said that his uncle was fifty years old and was going to be eliminated by society, because in the eyes of the nephew, the uncle basically had a line for two days a day, zero socialization, did not participate in class reunions, did not go to relatives, and would not take the initiative to find others to play.
Uncle doesn't post on Moments, rarely appears in the likes of Moments, and rarely gets involved in some things between colleagues, let alone flattering the leader and flattering the leader, but does what he should do.
Uncle is usually at home, just watch TV, brush his mobile phone, and eat and sleep at the end of the day.
Such a middle-aged life, without friends, is it eliminated?
In fact, it is not eliminated by society, but a manifestation of maturity and a realm of living through.
When people reach middle age, they have no friends, and the reason is actually that they have seen through the world and understood the hot and cold world. There's no need to be flattering, there's no need to slap the horse. Enjoy the joy of being alone, away from the crowd partying. Disdain ineffective socialization, and do not succumb to the same stream. Knowing the world but not the world, the history is sleek and naïve.
When people reach middle age, they don't need friends.
The highest state of life is solitude.
When people go through a lot of things, they actually begin to learn to be silent, and they don't want to talk too much, they don't want to argue so much with others, and they don't want to talk to anyone, and they don't want to please anyone.
In such a state of life, in fact, you are not very interested in making friends, nor are you interested in parties, but you are becoming more and more silent, and you don't even bother to pretend to be on the spot, but you like to be alone, like to be quiet, and like to be alone, which means that you have understood human nature.
After people understand human nature, they begin to go their own way, live their own life, find their own way of life, and find the most comfortable state for themselves, even if they have no contact with friends, they do not go to the social circle, but within the scope of their own activities, let themselves do what they like freely, start the fun of being alone, and they don't need friends.
When people reach middle age, they can live as they like.
In fact, many people have a stable job, a quiet life, a little savings, and can provide a stable and not rich life for their families, but their hearts are rich, contented, and they work hard when they go to work.
When people reach middle age, there is nothing wrong with having friends or not.
Some people like to be lively, some people like to be quiet, some people like to be alone, in fact, how they live depends on themselves, there is no right or wrong.
Middle-aged you, your work is smooth and smooth, your family is harmonious, your love is sweet, and your children are sensible and cute, so no matter what way you live your life, it doesn't matter.
In this life, the most important thing is to live happily, to live the life you want in the way you like, and you don't need to compare what people are sophisticated, but just live happily.
It's actually good to be middle-aged and have no friends.
Think about yourself in the past is a sensual person, very emotional, but you don't get anything, treat you sincerely, you don't have to eat and drink with him all the time, he will do his best to help you when you encounter problems, hypocritical people, usually close to each other, avoid things, so the most important thing is to live comfortably, follow your own heart, is the best state.
On the contrary, some people always live in the eyes of others, resulting in a bad life for themselves. In the end, we are all a speck of dust in this society, all diseases start from the heart, maintain a good mood, and live as you like.
When I started to reject ineffective social interactions, I could be very happy.
When I reached middle age, I unconsciously lived the life of an uncle, no socializing, no comparison, no internal friction, working hard, and living simply.
At present, ordinary people have to live an ordinary life on the right track, think clearly about who they are, what they really need, choose from the heart whether they are social or not, never deliberately be a person, never do things carefully, live a healthy and happy life, and live well!
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