For a long time, the character of Song Siming's wife in "Snail House" has given me a very complicated impression and impression.
Its hatefulness lies in her role as a corrupt, tiger-fighting, and vested interest in Song Siming, and at the same time she became a direct victim of Song Siming's cheating affair in marriage.
During this period, Mrs. Song cheated on Song Siming and took advantage of it, although she also tried to resist and struggle, but whenever she talked about divorce, "when she came home, her waist was sore" Song would soften, and Song Siming, who was always hanging on her child, deceived her before the East Window incident, and even Tuo Gu had to tell her, which was quite pitiful.
The saddest thing is that Song Siming, in order to perfunctory himself, actually used the blue pill suggested by the students, and completely ripped off the fig leaf of the sexless marriage of middle-aged couples!
Since Song Siming hooked up with Haizao, every time he came home to see his wife, he either had backache or backache.
Thinking about it, I just explored the mystery of flesh and spirit with seaweed, and I rushed home non-stop to order it, isn't it strange that my back hurts?
But when Mrs. Song knew that the two had been adulterous for a long time.
After all, the married life of the Song family and his wife has long been close to a sexless state.
The heat of marriage has changed from boiling strong coffee to warm milk, and then to now cold and white. ”
The two can't even remember the last time they lived as husband and wife, and the diary of their new marriage gradually turned into a weekly newspaper, a semi-monthly talk, a monthly magazine, and they were middle-aged until the end of the year.
Therefore, when Song Siming returned to Mrs. Song intact the 60,000 yuan lent to Seaweed, even though she was a little suspicious of the circle argument that Song Siming said, she didn't think about whether her husband was cheating.
At that time, she was very worried about how to deal with her husband's greed and not cause trouble, and at the same time, she had to solve problems for the elders in the family and her daughters.
If it weren't for the reminders of her friends, Mrs. Song might never have had a sense of crisis in her marriage.
Over the years, the husband and wife have formed an inseparable bond, that is, the bed and the bed do not exist, she also has contract protection, flesh and blood, and family affection that shares weal and woe.
Moreover, Song Siming, who has always reassured his wife, is known for his cleanliness and self-preservation at work and in his circle of friends, and he also despises his erosive private life.
However, just when she thought that her husband was prematurely aging, Song Siming finally made a mistake that most men would make - blatantly taking seaweed to an alternative class reunion without a wife.
As soon as Mrs. Song met, she became the last person to understand.
In fact, he did not have premature aging, but he had no feelings for her, in Song's words, that is: "The desire to be a man cannot be satisfied by his wife." ”
If you don't love it, it's more heart-wrenching than betrayal!
However, even though Song Siming's extramarital affair has reached a semi-public level, Mrs. Song also has illusions about it.
She didn't even get angry when she was angry, but used masochistic hard work to vent it, and in this way, Song Siming had the opportunity to clear her name.
Such a cheating incident that shook the foundation of marriage was argued by Song Siming like a lotus flower, but it became a last resort for him to learn to be flexible and cater to the low-level interests of others in order to avoid being excluded and marginalized by the circle.
In the dispute between his good officials and clean officials, compared with a lonely and self-appreciating Qing official like Hai Rui, it is much more difficult for him to be a "good official" who is at ease with his encounters.
Therefore, his fresh and natural interpretation of himself is: he collects ** money, never greedy for money, greedy for women, just to be able to comply with and follow the unspoken rules of officialdom, and to be able to unhindered and down-to-earth truth.
Regarding Mrs. Song's forced question about whether the two had a substantive relationship, Mrs. Song not only said against her will that the two were just acting on the spot, but also asked Mrs. Song not to ask more
Knowing what kind of benefits she can bring to you, will you scold others?Did you hit someone?..In my heart, there has never been a person who can replace you. Why would you want to be angry at an irrelevant man?”
At this time, Mrs. Song finally got entangled, and actually asked Song if she had no interest in her at all, which was really speechless.
At this critical juncture, husband and wife life has become a fire extinguishing agent for stabilizing the rear - Song Siming can only sigh, so he has to stand up and kiss his wife with his eyes closed.
However, the seaweed is still fierce and fierce, Song Siming is stretched thin in front of his wife, and when Mrs. Song is tearful and tender, he begins to regret that he couldn't carry the little blue pill suggested by the fat man.
In the book, there is a psychological description of the Song family, which can tell the state of mind of his time too much.
The difference between himself and the ancient emperors is that whoever the emperor wants to declare, others will follow him and serve him. And he himself, the one who declares him, he will be with him. It's really not easy to be a man. Don't be jealous of those who raise **, it's all blue-collar work.
It can be seen that Song Siming not only has no remorse for his betrayal, but even complains about his wife, thinking that she has made her blessing of Qi people a chore!
When Mrs. Song met with Seaweed privately without saying hello, the ugliness in Song Siming's heart was completely burst out.
Seaweed is about to break with him, and his wife has become the vicious woman in his eyes.
When he returned home and faced his wife, and she didn't like seaweed, Song Siming's inner anger was channeled by pressing the joints with a clattering sound.
The words that Mrs. Song conveyed to Seaweed made Song Siming's heart begin to break even more, and there was a tryst that he couldn't wait for the next day and night.
That night, Xiaobei came unexpectedly, which was originally the destination of Song Siming's expectation and fear.
He had long thought of monopolizing seaweed and forcing her to cut off relations with Xiaobei, but he was worried that when the time came, he would disturb the situation just to let himself go to the ground earlier, so there was the empty and wrongful thing he had with his wife before.
But Mrs. Song interviewed the seaweed and criticized the writing, which accelerated the progress of the matter.
As a result, after the other half of the two sides knew, he was relieved, no longer hiding it by acting on the spot, finishing things with seaweed, and going home without washing, still smelling of seaweed**.
Therefore, he did not think about not saying it when he was sarcastic and sneering at his wife, but blamed his wife for coming to cause trouble when she was physically and mentally exhausted.
For the person next to the pillow, he actually has the urge to hit someone when his fist is hot, and the reason why the marriage between them can be maintained mainly depends on the relationship between their relatives and their daughters!
During the days when Seaweed retired, the two relied on their weak relationship, although it was stable for a while, but Song Siming's absent-minded appearance at home was too obvious.
Later, Mrs. Song divorced first.
In her tone, there is no expression of anger and resentment, she only knows that her heart is very tired, and she can't bear the life realm that she can't help but doubt every time her husband is late:
Over time, my depression would kick in. People gave each other paths. Divide it out!The child is mine. Everything is my money. The house is yours, your position is yours, and the woman. Take what you need. ”
Now, it was finally Song Siming's turn to be in the circle.
He didn't expect that his wife would not refuse his visit, but fortunately he was in the breakup period with Seaweed, and after a gentle approach, his face was not red and his heart was not beating before his wife's idea of divorce was nipped to the bud.
After dealing with this small episode, the broken marriage is once again crumbling.
Until the break between Seaweed and Shellfish, he made a comeback and began to "justify" the plug.
Under the experience of the past, Mrs. Song quickly found the signs after Song Siming returned late twice.
This time, Song Siming didn't even bother to cover it up again.
Even he bought the seaweed and gave it to him and wore it home, and in the face of his wife's questioning, instead of hiding it, he intensified his wife's request to wash the shirt by hand.
A man is cruel to his wife, and he has to punish him if he kills him.
Also, Song Siming responded to his wife's words and came prepared, took a blue pill, and easily asked his wife to give up resistance, and lived in the same house with him in tears.
His wife's concession made Song's freewheeling expansive nature even heavier, and from then on, he still had the reason to stay out directly.
At first, he was also afraid that his wife would call in the middle of the night, so he only needed to stop the seaweed, and after getting the guarantee that his wife was not in a hurry, he did whatever he wanted.
He planned for a week: 3 days for seaweed, 4 days at home, and confessed that he had made such a great sacrifice for his more than 10 years of relationship with his wife and daughter.
Therefore, in more cases, the problem can be solved without giving in by oneself, especially in Song Siming.
His wife's tolerance and his daughter's hope can't withstand his lover's coquettishness, and he would rather choose to eat with his lover who threatens him with a "hunger strike" than let his daughter play happily!
Therefore, when his wife divorced for the second time, Song Siming was not necessarily tempted.
On the one hand, the seaweed is gentle and soft-hearted, and on the other hand, the wife is cold and ridiculous.
Just think about the joy that comes from every time you are lucky with seaweed, if it is not time to go home, you will not want to stay in this home where the air is about to freeze.
Look, how changeable the heart of a man who splits his legs!
I used to make excuses to hide it, but now the manager is so straightforward that his wife can't satisfy him with forbearance and indulgence!
The two of them, who have different dreams in the same bed, share a bed and have different dreams, are simply torturing each other, and they can't bear it anymore, and they are not as good as their wives.
After being married for so many years, Mrs. Song naturally knows her husband's weaknesses, and she didn't want to divorce before, but she was reluctant to pay the money.
So she changed the conditions of the divorce, only her daughter had to be her own, and the two of them could get half of the money each.
After hearing his wife's decision, Song stopped accepting it, neither agreeing nor objecting, in fact, he was not moved, right?What's more, he also promised to divorce and marry Seaweed when she was pregnant.
If it weren't for the death of his father-in-law due to illness, Song Siming estimated that he really wanted to accept this divorce condition, so he couldn't wait to restart a family with Seaweed.
As soon as his father-in-law died, Song Siming's career crisis also quietly came.
Therefore, he could only stay at home honestly and accompany his wife for a few days as his father-in-law wished, so that his wife's desire for divorce became soft again.
Of course, behind his behavior, there is also his ulterior motive.
It's not that he doesn't want to get out of it, throwing off all the seaweed and going to the end of the world, but it's too deep to pull it out, even if he wants to escape, the people behind him don't give him the possibility of slipping away.
All his "good intentions" are about the rich man Seaweed.
About wives and daughters: As a wife, in that seat, you are responsible;No matter how sinister those children are, they have to carry them. That's the mission.
This kind of husband is really vicious!
However, his more callous and despicable things are still happening behind the scenes.
While feeling nostalgic for the past with his wife, Song Siming did not hesitate to take out half of the money that his wife sold his mother and brother's house to make up the hole for him.
He knew too well how many things he had committed, and the hole he poked out could be filled with just over 10 million.
The shame is that he made hearty arrangements for the future of Seaweed, but did not do anything for his wife and daughter, and finally paranoized and handed over the children in Seaweed's womb to his wife.
Just because, this child will become the only male in their Song family.
This time, Mrs. Song finally really saw the facts, and refused indifferently and directly.
However, the next morning, I found that I had a pitiful amount of money, and my heart began to cool down, and by the time I finished "visiting" the mansion where Seaweed lived, my mood was completely out of control.
In the face of the panicked seaweed, Mrs. Song tried her best to stay calm.
But her heart was already like a dying fish on a board, and the scales were peeled off piece by piece, revealing the bloody skin and flesh, and the pain was unbearable.
After Song Siming used her as a stepping stone, he had to hang her up for reuse, how cruel and vicious!