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Text|Wish. What is the most expensive thing in the world?House?Car?Or is it **?
In fact, these are not the most expensive things. Something really expensive can never be measured in money. Such as life, time, identity, ability.
Not long ago, a Tsinghua girl posted a ** with a canvas bag on her back, which was considered by many people to be "showing off her wealth".
The girl is not showing off her wealth in the traditional sense, but the bag she carries is printed with the words Tsinghua University, which represents the identity of the girl Tsinghua student.
Tsinghua girls' backpacks "show off their wealth".
As one of the top universities in China, entering Tsinghua University is something that many people dare not think of.
Therefore, the girl carrying such a bag is "showing off her wealth" in the eyes of many people, and this kind of wealth is still the most difficult to reach.
When a person walks into the campus of Tsinghua University, his ability is more than his own ability.
The environment in which he lives, the people he comes into contact with, and the things he comes into contact with are among the best in a country and even in the world.
In such an environment, it is difficult to be excellent even if you want to be excellent in the future.
People always have to keep moving up and make all the things around them that can be changed more high-end, so that they can enjoy a "high-end" version of life.
In 1979, British right-wing politician Margaret Thatcher was elected Prime Minister of the United Kingdom. She is the UK's first-ever female prime minister and the longest-serving prime minister in the UK's history.
During her 11 years in office, her policies had a profound impact on British society as a whole.
Thatcher. For an excellent woman like Thatcher, her achievements are all related to a request that her father made of her when she was a child.
From a very young age, her father taught her, "Whenever you want, sit in the first row." ”
Sitting in the front row forever is an attitude towards life. It means the courage and determination to constantly ask for progress, to constantly make oneself excellent, and to dare to be the first at all times.
Under this educational philosophy, Thatcher had the achievements that followed.
Although not everyone can be Thatcher, and there is no need to be the first in everything, the concept of "always sitting in the first row" is worth learning.
No matter what position one is in society, one should have an enterprising spirit, which is a positive attitude towards life.
Grow towards the sun and keep forging ahead.
On a personal level, being ambitious strengthens us and helps us achieve our goals in life.
At the same time, in the process of pursuing progress, the results of hard work can also improve one's self-esteem and self-confidence, and enhance one's sense of self-worth.
From the perspective of the external environment, enterprising people can cope with various changes and challenges in a better state, so as to better adapt to the changes in society.
This forms a virtuous closed loop: the harder you work, the better;The better you are, the harder you work.
Stay in the status quo, and if you don't advance, you will retreat
Some people think that I am happy with my current situation, that I am already "content", so why should I strive for progress?Isn't it "involution" in the end?
Involution or lying flat?
As a result, many people have the psychology of "lying flat". However, when you lie flat, will others lie flat with you?
Although there are many voices in society that advocate "lying flat", there are few people who really "lie flat" among these voices. This can be seen from the rising number of graduate students every year.
When you lie flat, everyone else is quietly improving, but you stay where you are, doesn't that mean you are regressing?
History has taught us a profound lesson from the example of being content with the status quo.
Do you still remember the bitter history of modern China that was bullied and trampled on for more than 100 years?Until then, China had been among the best in the world, both militarily and economically.
The Old Summer Palace was burned.
But when the world is developing science and technology and carrying out the industrial revolution, the Qing Dynasty chose to "close the country" and indulge in the glory of its former "country".
When the West built strong ships and artillery, most of our armies still used broadswords and spears, and naturally they had to be slaughtered by others.
The same is true for individuals. No matter how good you have been, as long as you stop studying and working for a period of time, you will numb yourself with comfortable life enjoyment.
After a while, it will be difficult when you want to integrate into society again.
Learning is like sailing against the current, and if you don't advance, you will retreat", and the same is true of life. To be content with the status quo is to regress and to be constantly abandoned by society.
Do this for a person who pursues progress
If you don't want to be abandoned by the times and want to have a "high-match" life, you must start working hard from the present.
Take the first step.
"In life, the first thing is to take the first step bravely.
When we come into contact with an unknown territory, we will always unconsciously produce fear and avoidance.
I can't", "I can't do it well", "I'm afraid" ......If we maintain this attitude, we will never be exposed to new things, let alone improve ourselves.
The right attitude is to never worry too much about something that doesn't know the outcome.
Do your best when things are laid out in front of you, and don't be afraid of failure. If we succeed, we can develop our potential, and if we fail, we can learn from experience.
In short, no matter what the final result is, it is better than giving up without daring to try.
The second magic weapon of life is persistence.
Persistence is the key to the top.
Anyone can do it once or twice, and it is rare to keep working hard. Compared with the occasional explosive effort or two, long-term perseverance is more likely to produce results.
There is a philosophical point of view that quantitative change causes qualitative change. Some inconspicuous little things, insisted on every day, can accumulate over time, and eventually change the nature of things.
No success is achieved overnight, just like an iron pestle grinding needle, water drops and stones piercing, persistence can see the results.
The last secret to achieving a "high-matched" life is to learn to borrow.
People cannot be perfect, and some shortcomings cannot be solved by hard work and perseverance. At this time, smart people should think of using external forces to improve themselves.
A very important reason why human beings can be different from animals to become masters is that we will rely on external forces. People build houses out of brick and stone, so they don't need heavy fur to keep them warm;People can make ** out of steel, so they don't have to have fangs and claws to survive.
In daily life, participate in social activities and interact with excellent people. When the social scope expands, there are more people to draw on.
Networking is also a resource, and it will help you in a tangible and intangible way.
Life is short, and if you don't enjoy the beauty of a "high-matched" life, how can you prove that the world is worth it?Start changing from now on, and opportunities will not disappoint those who are prepared.