My name is Wang Fang and I am 68 years old. Eight years ago, I moved with my son's family from my hometown to the city. His son, Wang Qiang, has a stable job in the city and lives in an upscale community.
In order for me to enjoy the joy of growing old with my children and grandchildren, Wang Qiang's family welcomed me to live in their house. In the beginning, I had a good relationship with my daughter-in-law, Li Xiaofang. Li Xiaofang is often busy with work, and I am responsible for taking care of their 5-year-old son, Xiaobao.
I would make breakfast for Xiaobao, take him to kindergarten, and then go home to make lunch. Xiaobao likes my braised pork and sweet and sour pork ribs the most. Whenever Xiaobao says, "Grandma, the food you cook is delicious!" ”
I was so happy that I couldn't keep my mouth shut. But slowly, I found that Li Xiaofang's attitude towards me had changed. For example, I often put some fruit in the fruit bowl in the living room.
Those are the apples, bananas and the like that my grandson loves to eat. But I never ate those fruits myself for fear of soiling the living room. One day, Li Xiaofang suddenly said to me: "Mom, you can also eat some fruit, you're welcome." ”
I smiled and said, "Daughter-in-law, just put the fruit I bought myself in the kitchen, and leave the fruit in the living room for Xiaobao to eat." I live in your house and can't just eat. ”
Li Xiaofang frowned: "Mom, what's this?" As a family, it's normal for you to eat fruit in the living room. I shook my head and said, "No, I'll just eat from the kitchen." The living room is still left to Xiaobao. ”
At a family dinner, Li Xiaofang suddenly asked me why I never ate fruit in the fruit bowl in the living room. I explained with a smile that I felt that the fruit in the kitchen would be enough and that I didn't want to stain the living room either.
Li Xiaofang was very angry when she heard this, thinking that I was looking down on their fruits. I quickly explained that I definitely didn't mean that, I just thought that the fruit in the living room was more suitable for Xiaobao to eat.
But Li Xiaofang is still angry, and I feel sorry because my good intentions were misunderstood. I decided to discuss moving out with my son, but my son advised me not to move, saying that my daughter-in-law was just straight-tempered and told me not to take it to heart.
I thought about it for a while and decided that living with my children and grandchildren was the greatest joy of my later years, so I decided to stay with them. In order to avoid misunderstandings again, I began to deliberately avoid Li Xiaofang and try not to talk to her.
After a while, I noticed that Li Xiaofang was becoming more and more cold to me. One day at noon, I cooked Xiaobao's favorite sweet and sour pork ribs as usual, and added a poached egg.
Xiaobao said happily: "Grandma, the food you made is the best!" I smiled and stroked his head and said, "Our little treasure can grow up healthily only if we eat well, and we must protect grandma in the future." ”
At this time, Li Xiaofang said coldly: "Mom, you always tell Xiaobao about these irrelevant things, he is still young and doesn't understand." I said awkwardly, "I'm just kidding him." ”
Don't always cook such greasy dishes, it's not good for children's health. Li Xiaofang said again. I smiled wryly and said, "This sweet and sour pork rib is what Xiaobao likes to eat, so it should be no problem for me to make it once in a while." ”
The child knows what is good and bad, and he likes what you do. Li Xiaofang said impatiently. Seeing her attitude, I had no choice but to stop talking and silently put away the dishes and chopsticks.
In the evening, I delivered a couple of homemade egg tarts to the aunt in the community. My aunt was very happy and said that my skills were good and that she must introduce me to business. I hurriedly waved my hand and said that I was just making snacks for my grandson to eat in my spare time, and I had no idea of doing business.
Unexpectedly, Li Xiaofang saw it, and when she went home, she said very unhappily: "Mom, you keep giving things to others, how embarrassed you are." What if you make people think you're currying favor with her?
I explained, "My aunt is very nice, and she used to bring food to our family, so I should send her a few egg tarts." "I think you always think that our family treats you badly, so you keep sending things outside to please people!"
Li Xiaofang raised her voice and said. When I heard her words, I felt very aggrieved, and tears came out of my eyes: "Daughter-in-law, what are you talking about?" I'm the best for your family, why do you say that about me? ”
Okay, okay, don't pretend to be garlic. Li Xiaofang said impatiently. "I've seen that you must think I'm not as good to you as everyone else, that's why you keep running out to please others! "
No, daughter-in-law, you misunderstood me. I choked up. "No more words! Li Xiaofang shook her hand and left. That night, I lay in bed tossing and turning, and didn't fall asleep until the wee hours of the morning.
I really don't understand, I am so good to my daughter-in-law, why does she always doubt me? However, as soon as Li Xiaofang saw me, her face was very bad, and she didn't accept the bread I gave and went straight to work.
I sighed, not knowing how to get her to stop misunderstanding me. At noon, I went downstairs to buy groceries and ran into my good neighbor Ah Zhen. She chatted with me warmly, saying that she had diabetes and asked me to make her some more unsweet snacks.
Of course, I gladly agreed.
I prepared some sugar-free red bean mochi cakes for Ah Zhen, and she was very grateful and said that she would introduce me to a professional pastry chef. I explained to her that I was just making dim sum for my neighbors and had no intention of becoming a dim sum chef.
At this moment, Li Xiaofang went home and saw me sending snacks to Ah Zhen, and her face immediately became very ugly. I was busy explaining, but she walked away without looking back. At dinner in the evening, she said to me, "Mom, I think you'd better move out, our house is not for you."
You always feel that others are good to you, and you are very happy when others ask you to make snacks. Otherwise, you go to stay at Zhen's house, she can eat the snacks you make every day. I was startled and said, "Daughter-in-law, what are you talking about?"
I'm so old, can I go but you? I make dim sum just to express the feelings of the neighborhood, how can you misunderstand me? "I didn't misunderstand you, I saw it clearly!
Li Xiaofang insisted, "You don't like our family as well as other people's homes, otherwise why don't you never eat fruit in the living room?" Why do you always go out and deliver things to others?
You're just not happy with our family at all! "Alright, you go, I've had enough of you! Li Xiaofang said. I saw that she had such a tough attitude, and I knew that she had misunderstood me to the extreme, and it was useless to say anything, so I could only silently pack a few clothes and leave their house.
I was at a loss, and the streets at night were silent and unfamiliar. Finally, I sat down on a bench in the community, remembering the warmth of my family. My heart is like a knife, why do I care so much about my family, but in exchange for such misunderstanding and rejection?
Staying up on the bench until dawn, I was exhausted. The community security guard uncle found me and asked in surprise, "Sister Fang, why are you here?" Did something happen?
I replied with a wry smile: "I had an argument with my daughter-in-law, and she asked me to leave their house, and I, an old man, had nowhere to go but to sleep here." The security guard immediately said, "This is not good! You have to go back and tell your daughter-in-law clearly, the weather is so cold, how dangerous it is for you to be an old man outside! ”
At this time, another cleaning aunt also came over and said sympathetically: "Auntie, don't be sad, hurry home and reconcile with them." Your daughter-in-law may be angry and speak heavily, but she must be reluctant to let you go. I nodded, and decided to go back and try to explain it to Li Xiaofang again. I don't want to worry my neighbors and I don't want to be a burden to my family.
I believe that Li Xiaofang will understand my good intentions. I went to my son's door and hesitated for a moment before ringing the doorbell. Li Xiaofang opened the door and saw that it was me, and her face was ugly.
She frowned and said, "Why did you show up again?" I plucked up the courage and said, "Daughter-in-law, I know you misunderstood me before, but I really don't mean what you think."
Let me explain it to you again, shall I? Li Xiaofang snorted and turned around to leave. I hurriedly grabbed her hand and cried bitterly: "Daughter-in-law, you should treat it as Xiaobao and give me a chance to explain."
I can't go to this old bone**, I just want to be with my children and grandchildren. Li Xiaofang was moved by my words, and was silent for a while before she said coldly: "Then you can explain." ”
I hurriedly said: "Daughter-in-law, the reason why I don't eat the fruit in the living room is purely because I, an old woman from the countryside, think that the living room is too exquisite, and I am afraid that it will not be good if it is dirty."
Sending snacks to neighbors is just to show friendliness, not to look down on our family. I did all this because I didn't want to cause you any trouble, don't get me wrong. ”
Li Xiaofang listened, and her face softened slightly: "I did misunderstand you before." In fact, I also know in my heart that you have always been good to our family. It's just that I have a straight personality, and when I see you always sending things outside, I'm inexplicably jealous.
I think maybe it's because I'm too busy and don't spend much time with you and Xiaobao that you feel that our family is indifferent, so you keep going to the neighbor's house. I hurriedly said, "I have never felt that you are indifferent!"
I totally understand how busy you are. I don't think the neighbors are warmer, I just want to express the friendliness. Our house is already perfect, but I got you wrong. ”
Li Xiaofang's eyes were slightly red, and she hugged me tightly: "Mom, I was wrong, I was too selfish." I've always known that you are the best for our family. You weren't at home last night, and I couldn't sleep after tossing and turning, only to realize that the house wouldn't be complete without you.
Mom, will you forgive me? I also smiled with tears in my eyes: "Daughter-in-law, I have forgiven you." As long as you let me come back, I am willing to forget everything. Just as we hugged each other and cried, Xiaobao was attracted by our voice.
When he saw me, he happily threw himself into my arms: "Grandma, you're back!" Without you, I wouldn't even be able to eat. Grandma, don't leave in the future, okay? I hugged Xiaobao, and my heart was warm: "Grandma will always accompany Xiaobao, and our family will always be together." ”
Since then, Li Xiaofang has learned to trust and be considerate of me. She would spend time chatting with me and Xiaobao before going to work, and would also take us out for a walk on the weekends. I continue to cook delicious meals for my family every day, but I no longer casually deliver food to my neighbors to avoid misunderstandings.
One day, Li Xiaofang said to me: "Mom, I have wronged you. From now on, you can eat all the fruits in the living room, which are all for our family. We'll be together forever, right? I smiled and nodded, believing that we had built a harmonious and happy family.
My relationship with Li Xiaofang has improved significantly after that altercation. She no longer suspicious me for no reason, and I have learned to understand the pressure of her work. One morning, Li Xiaofang rarely worked from home.
I made a couple of cinnamon custard buns and wanted to give her a meal to cheer up for work. "Daughter-in-law, you take a rest first and eat a few custard packets to replenish energy. I handed the box to Li Xiaofang.
Wow, I love the yellow envelope the most! Li Xiaofang said happily, "Mom, you really know how to take care of people, our company doesn't have a caring boss like you." I couldn't help but laugh: "I'm your boss."
Those little girls in the company can take care of my daughter-in-law! "Thank you, Mom! "Li Xiaofang gave me a big hug. That night, Li Xiaofang suggested that the family go out to dinner. She took us to a very fancy western restaurant.
Dear Mom, this restaurant is sure to make you fall in love with the steaks, and they have a special children's menu! "Li Xiaofang warmly ordered food for us.
Is it tasty? "Xiaobao looked nervously at the food in front of him. "Very tasty! "I said with a smile"Grandma has already cut it for you, and you can grow taller after eating!
And just like that, we had a great family evening. "Ah Zhen, are you moving? Need my help? "I asked with concern.
Yes, I'm moving to my son's house. This old bone is getting more and more unbearable to live on its own. "Ah Zhen sighed and said. I offered to help move the boxes, and Ah Zhen thanked her repeatedly.
While we were busy moving things, Li Xiaofang suddenly came back. Seeing us together, her face looked a little embarrassed. I quickly explained to her, "Ah Zhen is moving to her son's house, and I am helping her carry things.
Li Xiaofang thought for a while and replied, "Oh, then you guys are busy." I breathed a sigh of relief, I didn't expect that Li Xiaofang had learned to control her emotions and no longer lost her temper as casually as before.
That night, Li Xiaofang said to me: "Mom, in fact, I understand that you helped your neighbor move. It's just that I couldn't control my emotions well before, and I was easily jealous. I really need to learn Xi understand and trust each other. ”
I nodded with satisfaction: "Daughter-in-law, you have grown a lot. We are a family and should support each other. "Since then, every member of our family has learned to respect and care for each other.
I will prepare a hearty dinner for Li Xiaofang after work, and she will spend more time with me and Xiaobao. Xiaobao has also become more obedient and sensible.
One day, Xiaobao looked at me and said firmly: "Mom, we are the happiest when we are together." I'll take care of you and grandma when I grow up. Looking at Xiaobao's innocent smiling face, Li Xiaofang and I looked at each other and smiled.
We know that we have built a harmonious and happy family. It's the most perfect life I can imagine. Li Xiaofang and I have become closer and closer, and we go shopping, watch movies or enjoy food together, just like mother and daughter.
Li Xiaofang sometimes discusses work matters with me and asks for my opinions. "Mom, our company is going to launch a new product, and we are still hesitating about its name, which name do you think is better, 'happy family' or 'happy life'? ”
One day, Li Xiaofang sat on the sofa and asked me. I thought about it and said, "I think the name 'Happy Family' has more positive energy, it will remind people of a warm home, and it is easier to evoke good memories for consumers." ”
You have a point! Li Xiaofang said happily, "I will give this opinion back to the boss, and I believe he will agree." Mom, having you next to me to chat has improved my productivity a lot! ”
I smiled and rubbed her head and said, "You can come and discuss with grandma if you have any questions, and grandma will definitely support you fully!" ”
Xiaobao, listen carefully to the teacher's words and don't be naughty! "Li Xiaofang reminded him gently. "Remember to call your mom after school. "I added.
Don't worry, grandma. I will! "Xiaobao walked into the school with a spring breeze on his face and waved goodbye to us. Li Xiaofang and I looked at each other and smiled, looking at his happy appearance, our hearts were full of happiness.
On weekends, we would go to the park for a picnic together, Xiaobao would lead the way in front on a small bicycle, while Li Xiaofang and I would sit on the grass, enjoying each other's company and love.
Mom, it's good to have you here. I finally understand your intentions for our family. "Li Xiaofang leaned on my shoulder and said. "Actually, I haven't changed, it's just that you've matured, so you can feel my heart. "I replied softly.
I'm sorry, Mom, but I didn't understand you at the time. "Li Xiaofang said apologetically. "Everything has passed, and the initial misunderstanding has made our mother-daughter relationship closer. "
I gently patted her hand and comforted her. After such a quiet time, our three generations living together are becoming happier and happier. I am grateful that life has given me such a gift and allowed me to spend my old age with children and grandchildren.
One day, I noticed that my health was deteriorating, so I said to my children"I'm already satisfied, you must take care of each other and never be suspicious of each other as you used to. "
Mom, you will **, we will always be with you! "Li Xiaofang burst into tears. I smile, I have no regrets, I have done my duty as a mother and grandmother in this life, the children will have a better life, and I can leave this world with a satisfied heart.
The moment I closed my eyes, I felt as if I had seen the happiest picture of my life. I am reminded of the scene where I married my husband when I was younger. On that day, he walked towards me wearing a crisp groom's official uniform and a bright smile, and I bowed my head shyly.
After the wedding, he said to me gently, "My dear, I will always love you, and we will surely live a happy and happy life." "Watching my son grow up and start being naughty with me fills my heart with joy.
One time we went to the vegetable market, and he looked at a big red apple greedily, and I picked it for him. He happily stuffed the whole apple into his mouth, his saliva wetting his face. I couldn't help but laugh out loud when I looked at his innocent and cute appearance.
In the blink of an eye, the son got married and brought back a beautiful and smart daughter-in-law. Her name is Li Xiaofang, and she has a very straightforward personality, but at first glance she is a virtuous helper. I am very relieved that half of my wish to raise children and prevent old age has been fulfilled.
A few years later, I hugged my lovely grandson Xiaobao, and my heart blossomed. I'm finally a grandmother! I cook delicious meals for Xiaobao every day, teach him to read and write, and play with him.
Watching him grow up healthy and happy is the happiest thing for me. Later, I moved to the city with my son's family. At first, my daughter-in-law and I had some friction, but after an argument and misunderstanding, we became closer.
I finally experienced the nourishment and warmth of being surrounded by children and grandchildren. In a flash, my children and grandchildren have grown up**, and I am also old. Even though my body is weakened, I still feel happy and satisfied.
Because I have fulfilled the responsibilities of a mother's life, and my children have lived a happy and fulfilling life, this is the greatest comfort in my life. I am not afraid of death, because I have no regrets.
The only thing I hope for is that my family will always be happy and not repeat the mistakes I made at the beginning. As I passed away quietly, I could see my children and grandchildren crying goodbye to me.
Please don't be sad, loved ones, birth, old age, sickness and death are the only way to live. I will bless the people I love the most in the Spirit of Heaven, and please take care of each other and cherish every moment now.
At the last moment of my life, I finally understood that the meaning of life is not to achieve fame, but to give and be loved. I was fortunate to have a warm home and experience the joy of being a mother and grandmother.
This is the most precious treasure of my life, and I am satisfied. My dear, I wish you all eternal happiness and happiness!