It is said that marriage is the grave of love, but in fact, it is not, otherwise everyone would want to jump into this grave?
Marriage is a career that requires two people who love each other to run with a lifetime, and in the long years of marriage, it is impossible to be without stumbling and noisy, because people are emotional creatures and need to use various emotions to nourish and live.
I believe that every couple who walks into marriage is not rushing to separate, but it is true that many times, family trivialities and various reasons make the original love gradually disappear in marriage.
How to make love always new, so that two people can live this life happily?
The Seven Prescriptions of Love is a great prescription for seven days to give you more intimacy, connection and happiness.
It was co-authored by the American couple John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman.
The so-called love prescription is to teach everyone how to get along with their lover and how to deal with the various powers of life.
Love can be inclusive of everything, but it also needs to be inclusive of everything.
How to make love continue to exist healthily in marriage, so that the relationship between two people can be taken to the next level, follow the methods in the book to try, maybe there will be unwanted gains.
Seven new Xi in seven days, simple, fast and fun. Whenever and wherever you want, you can train according to the method.
Day 1: The number one panacea.
No matter how busy you are, take ten minutes a day to each other to understand each other's feelings throughout the day, to do a positive communication, and inject more balance into the "emotional account" in case of emergency.
Day 2: Nice to get to know you again.
With the passage of time, people will always change due to different experiences, so try to understand your lover and know each other's current thoughts, so that two people can have the effect of resonance at the same frequency, so that the old husband and wife can always be vibrant.
Day 3: Thank you for making me coffee.
As you live together for a longer time, you will take each other's contribution for granted, and if you don't have a sense of gratitude and gratitude, try to say thank you to your lover sincerely, affirm each other's contributions, and there will be unexpected gains.
Day 4: Reflect on why you loved each other.
Two people who walk into marriage must decide to walk together because of the feeling of heartbeat, but different love methods will achieve good love, or it may destroy a hard-won relationship, sincerely praise the advantages of your partner, and let you know your affirmation and recognition of TA.
Day 5: Say what you want and make things simple.
We always like to achieve our goals through hints, thinking that the other party is a roundworm in our stomach, as long as a look at the other party will have a heart with you, in fact, many times it is difficult. Try to be direct to your needs and stop letting the other person guess.
Day 6: It's "love" people, not "roommates".
As the days go by, the lover becomes a roommate who lives together, and there are no more surprises or passions. Trying to interact with each other such as hugging, kissing, holding hands, etc., will be effective in strengthening the relationship between each other.
Day 7: Desperate for a date.
It seems that this is a good proposal, two people who enter a marriage, because of all kinds of trivial matters, rarely have a real date, try to outside the courtyard of the home, by the stream by the roadside, even if you just sit in front of the window and look at the stars, and tell each other what is on your mind.
A small "Seven Prescriptions of Love" keeps love fresh, makes marriage no longer a wall, and makes life more beautiful, if you want to change the status of your marriage, then read it!