Mark Twain once said: A woman should have all the nature of a womanGentleness, patience, long-endurance, trustworthiness, selflessness, magnanimity
Gorky also once said: Women are mothers to the world. Not only because mothers give birth to children and daughters, but alsoThe important thing is because she educates people and gives them the joy of life
Women are always like this, associated with all the beauty, gentleness, and kindness, bringing sunshine and color to the world, bringing joy and joy. However, women are also the most vulnerable, the most sensitive, and the most susceptible to emotional distress.
When women are deeply emotionally distressed, it will manifest as a lack of their own strength, and the beauty that has been given will gradually disappear, and even the light of life will weaken, and diseases will follow.
From bad weather to family problems, it can become a woman's emotional problem. When the weather is sunny, I feel that the mood is incomparably bright, and everything is beautiful; But when it was a rainy day, the whole person was also depressed.
Some emotions pass quickly, but some painful emotional memories remain in the body.
When women face emotions, they can manifest themselves in a variety of ways.
Some people swallow their anger and all the grievances are pressed in their hearts, but the body can't bear the perennial depression at all, and the lesion will occur sooner or later.
Some people have a violent temper, and they have to vent their anger immediately when they are unhappy, either making a lot of noise, or complaining and nagging.
These methods seem to be emotional catharsis, but in fact, on the one hand, it will make it difficult for the family to be at peace, and on the other hand, it will make the body feel the impact of more negative emotions, and the flow of qi will be very easy to block after being violently impacted.
If the emotions in life cannot be properly channeled, it will accumulate over time, and it will form harm to yourself and others, and then manifest as a disease.
Shen Jinao's "** Jade Ruler" in the Qing Dynasty said: "Although the diseases accumulated by women are repeated, in fact, they are all done by blood, and the women are depressed and angry, and the liver is injured, and the liver hides blood; The woman is anxious, and her heart is broken when she is worried, and the heart is bloody. When the heart and liver are wounded, their blood will overflow if they have no owner, and if they can't hide it, they will run rampant. ”
Roughly speaking,Because women are often depressed and angry, they will hurt the liver that hides the blood, and they often worry, they will hurt the heart of the main blood, and over time, the disease will accumulate.
The biggest role of women's emotions is qi. Emotions affect the normal functioning of the breath in the body, or it can be blocked or collided.
Some women get older, their bellies become more and more bulging, and we usually think that the metabolism slows down as they get older, and people become fat, so they have a smaller belly. But a bulging belly is often not because of more meat – it's because of more gas.
That is, the emotions accumulated over the years make the body more and more congested, so the stomach is getting more and more bulging.
"There was a student in the class who was in a marital crisis, and she found that her abdomen was bulging and big, as if she was a few months pregnant, which was very abnormal.
Through the study, the student learned about the correspondence between emotions and bodiesRealize that you are in a strong negative moodThe teacher used "emotional will" to trace back to the past problem stuck points, and carried out a simple emotional release, about half an hour, she hiccups and gas, and the swelling of her abdomen was relieved.
At the second consultation, she said that she had uterine fibroids. When the teacher asked her about her relationship with her mother, she reacted emotionally and quickly remembered the scene when she was a child, when her mother did not let her go out to play with other children, and she was very sad and felt that she was too tightly controlled by her mother. And under the guidance of the teacher, I recalled similar experiences in my life many times, all of which were "controlled" by my mother.
Because of her disgust with this kind of control, she began to retaliate against her mother with rebellion, deliberately angry with her, the more she was not allowed to do it, the more she did it, and she worked against her mother in various things such as love, marriage, and career, and wanted to use her "bad" to sting her mother.
With the opening of her heart, she recounted her life experience of failure: opening a photo studio, doing business, and opening a vegetarian restaurant have all failed repeatedly, her ex-husband borrowed money after the first marriage broke down and did not pay it back, and her current husband is also divorcing.
In the process of narrating, she gradually realized that the origin of all this unhappiness was actually caused by the initial competition with her mother. Fighting for the sake of competition, everything in life has gone off the normal track.
When the therapist guided her to look back at her relationship with her mother, she found that she was no longer a tendon from before, and even suddenly woke up to the fact that she could see her mother's love for her, and the starting point of all her mother's actions was to protect herself. She realized that she was really wrong and should not use her life to take revenge on her mother, and vowed to communicate well with her mother and take care of her.
After this treatment, she returned to her residence and kept exhausting, and felt a lot more comfortable in her stomach, and her friends around her said that her belly was obviously smaller! What's more, because they let go of their attachment and competitive emotions, and can communicate calmly with their current husbands, the two of them no longer have the previous tension, but understand each other better.
Out of the emotional troubles, the light of women returned to her body again, the gentle and beautiful power filled her body and mind again, and the smile and happiness also returned again.
Many female students walk into the classroom because of uterine fibroids, breast hyperplasia and other troubles, hoping to find the answers to their questions. Using traditional medical methods, these conditions basically require surgery, which is not only very harmful, but also repeated many times. In fact, surgery can only treat the symptoms, not the root cause. Only by finding the emotional root cause of the symptoms can we get rid of the disease in a real sense and have a healthier life.
More than 70% of women's diseases are rooted in emotions, and the relationship with parents, siblings, lovers, and children may become emotionally distressed. If these emotions are not effectively channeled and processed, they will accumulate in the body and form lesions over time.
Therefore, in the face of disease problems, the first thing women need is to return to their hearts, sort out the troubles and problems in their lives, deal with emotions correctly, and adjust their mentality in time.
Once you get out of your emotional troubles, your unbalanced heart will find the right track again. Only when the heart returns to peace and fullness again, will one's own strength return again, and many diseases will be cured without medicine.
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