There is a cloud in "Sushu": "God is not God in sincerity." "In this world, there is nothing more precious than sincerity.
Sincerity, carrying the weight of life, contains the background color of the soul, and is the most touching power.
Walking in the world, dealing with people, the real high emotional intelligence lies in the word "sincerity".
Only by being sincere can we communicate with others
The Book of Rites: The Mean" cloud: "Only the sincerity of the world is energy." ”
In this world, only sincerity can move people's hearts.
In contemporary socialization, people are mostly purposeful.
It seems that the "heart-to-heart" is regarded as a game, and the person who is the first to reveal his sincerity is the loser.
But I don't know that exchanging hearts for hearts and sincerity is the way to get along with people.
Jiang Dehua in "Parents' Love", when he first entered the city, he and his sister-in-law An Jie were disgusted.
Although she has a bad relationship with her sister-in-law, Dehua has always taken meticulous care of her children.
Every time I leave home, the most reluctant thing is my nephew's National Day, and I can't wait to take him with me.
When Anjie had a difficult birth, Dehua was also sincerely worried, and kept watch at the door of the ward until she was safe and sound.
Later, Angelson's five children were all carefully raised by Dehua's hands.
It was Dehua's sincerity that her nephews and nieces were close to her and treated her with great respect;
Sister-in-law An Jie was also moved by her sincerity, and supported and encouraged her without hesitation in Dehua's marital dispute.
Dehua exchanged hearts for hearts, won the love and support of the children, and also received the sincere feedback of his sister-in-law.
It can be seen that sincerity is always the nirvana of getting along with each other.
As Fang Bao of the Qing Dynasty said: "Touching people with sincerity and not hypocrisy." ”
When dealing with others, you must treat each other with sincerity and do not pretend to deceive.
And so it is, make good friends sincerely, and meet nobles.
Treat people with sincerity and make friends with sincerity, in order to harvest sincerity and make good connections.
Only by being sincere can people rest assured
Zhuangzi said: "If you are not refined and insincere, you can't move people." ”
Doing things hypocritically wins short-term support; Only by being sincere will you get long-term applause.
In 2016, a supermarket in Henan had just opened, but it had to close due to overload.
This supermarket is "Fat Donglai".
Its business is so booming because the supermarket staff adheres to the "altruistic" thinking and sincerely treats customers.
Some netizens said: "Every time I go to buy aquatic products, before weighing, the supermarket staff will help me drain the water, and I am never afraid of missing two catties." ”
Some netizens commented: "When you buy fruits and vegetables, you don't have to worry about buying bad ones, the staff will help you pick them out as soon as possible." ”
In most supermarkets, customers weigh themselves, and the clerks do not take the initiative to help;
The quality of the goods purchased by the customers is high, and the clerks are not nosy.
It is precisely because "Fat Donglai" does not bully customers because of the store, but sincerely treats customers, so that customers can rest assured, so as to exchange customers for repeated patronage.
In just over ten years, "Fat Donglai" has become a supermarket giant with annual sales of billions.
This is not the case with business development, but also with people.
Benefiting others and oneself can be mutually beneficial and win-win; Only by doing things sincerely can people rest assured.
Just as the ancients said: "A gentleman and a noble man despise himself, and he comes first and then himself." ”
A person who is reliable and sincere can reassure people and win their trust.
In this way, in this world, you can be like a fish in water, happy and smooth.
Being a sincere person can bring you good luck
There is a story that there was a man named Meng Xin in ancient times.
Since his dismissal, his family has been destitute, with only one sick cow left.
One day, after Meng Xin went out, the family sold the sick cow and made it shoddy.
When Meng Xin returned home, he was very angry when he found that the sick cow had been sold.
After reprimanding his family, he went to the buyer and bought the sick cow back, and said to the buyer, "This is a sick cow, it is useless, and it was bought for nothing." ”
The buyer was very grateful, and praised Meng Xin's sincerity, and praised everyone he met.
As a result, the news of Meng Xin's refusal to sell sick cattle soon spread, and his sincerity and kindness moved the emperor.
The emperor was very moved, and thought that this person was sincere and worthy of a heavy responsibility, so he immediately sent someone to summon him to Beijing and make him an official.
Since then, Meng Xin's official fortune has been prosperous, and he has enjoyed glory and wealth until he is old and decrepit.
Even if his family is poor, Meng Xin can keep his sincerity and not sell sick cattle.
With his sincerity, he won the emperor's appreciation, entered the court as an official, and thus had a smooth life.
As the saying goes: "Sincerity, gold and stone are open." ”
Sincerity is valuable, but it can also give you unexpected surprises.
Sincerity warms others like the warm sun in winter, and at the same time purifies oneself;
Sincerity is the only way to stand in the world, and its power is boundless and endless.
To be a sincere person is the true way of life.
After all, there is goodwill and good fortune hidden in your sincerity, which will bring you a steady stream of good luck.
The Mean": "The sincere one, the way of heaven also; Those who are honest are also the way of people. ”
Sincerity, the top wisdom of dealing with people, is also the embodiment of a person's high emotional intelligence.
Only by being sincere can we move people's hearts and communicate with people;
Only by doing things sincerely can people rest assured and gain people's hearts;
Only sincerity can attract good luck and accumulate good fortune.
However, as for sincerity, it is not the simplicity of ignorance, but the maturity of the world.
Such as mountains, rivers and lakes, gathered in the sea, always shown in blue;
Like spring, summer, autumn and winter, the seasons are reincarnated, but time is never frozen.
For the rest of your life, I hope you will know the world but not the world, go through the vicissitudes of the world, and always be a sincere person.
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