Wife, lover, confidante, which is more important in a man's heart? Which one is more difficult for a man to let go?
Zhang Ailing once said that every man will have at least two women in his life, one red rose and one white rose. married a red rose, and over time, the red one became a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still the bright moonlight in front of the window. What about marrying a white rose? The white one is a loose particle stuck to the clothes, and the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart.
You see, it seems that no matter what kind of woman she is, as long as she becomes a man's wife, she seems to lose her charm and eventually be rejected by men, because the wife represents firewood, rice, oil and salt, chicken and dogs, family and responsibility. Unlike lovers, you will find that many men are gentle and obedient to women outside, and even spend a lot of money. But the wife at home is only left with a bad temper and impatience, doesn't this just show that in a man's heart, the lover is more important than the wife? In fact, this must not be the case, because in the general perception of men, no matter how good a lover is, it is a flower, and no matter how bad a wife is, it is a home.
It is not uncommon for a married man to fall in love with someone else, and often when his enthusiasm has passed, he returns to his wife. So most of the man's heart is very clear, the lover is the object of the release of desire. But when you have to choose one of the two, yes, most people will prefer a wife. What about confidantes? It is a woman who has not been fully obtained by men, it is the freedom of the soul, it is the support of the soul, it is the existence of everything that is talked about, it is the heart that understands her but does not belong to her, and it makes the man feel excited but cannot possess it. Yes, even that feeling is really deadly.
So you will find that whether it is a wife, a lover, or a marital confidant, in a man's heart, eyes, and brain, they play different roles and have different needs. One is family, affection, and kindness. One is the release of pressure, and the other is the communication of the soul. In this way, in fact, the most loved by men is always you.
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