Desire is the devil in the cage, when it is sealed, it is safe, and when it becomes a demon, it kills all sides. There are many kinds of desires, such as the desire for money, the desire for power, the desire for sex, and so on. Sexual desire is an instinctive desire, a product of the hormone drive within the receptors. The desire for money and power is all cultivated after tomorrow and is the product of the influence of values. Most people spend most of their lives under the influence or domination of instinctive desires.
Instinctive desires run through all stages of young and middle-aged people, and even some elderly people are still tireless in instinctive desires. Instinctive desire peaks in youth, when almost all social interactions between men and women revolve around satisfying instinctive desires, so instinctive desires make most people enter marriage and become a group that satisfies instinctive desires in a lasting and legitimate way.
The core of instinctive desire is to reproduce, the history is rolling, the universe is vast, the continuation and inheritance of thousands of years of human culture is inseparable from the drive of instinctive desire, instinctive desire is the basis for the formation of money and power desire, all acquired desires are generated around instinctive desires and instinctive desires extended from marriage and offspring.
Instinctive desire is the driving force, which inspires people to explore and develop, and promotes the progress of history. The control and use of instinctive desires reflects the level of personal ability. In youth, if all of a person's social activities are carried out around satisfying instinctive desires, indulging in physical satisfaction all day long without thinking of progress, ignoring knowledge reserves and ability improvement, he will be eaten by instinctive desires, and there is a high probability that he will do nothing in the second half of his life. People who control their instinctive desires within a reasonable range in their youth and devote their main energy to improving their abilities and career development tend to have successful careers.
If you don't control your instinctive desires unreasonably in middle age, you will still be addicted to extramarital affairs to satisfy your instinctive desires when you have marriage and children, which will inevitably cause the other half of the marriage to have nowhere to release your instinctive desires, and the damage to your marriage will be fatal.
The instinctive desire in old age has basically ebbed and flowed, but there are still some elderly people who are tired of instinctive desire, at this time they have nothing to do, and will release their instinctive desire as the theme of the activities of the elderly, they ignore the old age and decay, ignore ethics and morality, regardless of children and grandchildren, blindly driven by instinct to do something contrary to the virtue of the elders. For the elderly at the end of their lives, this act of indulgent instinct is devastating, not only causing fatal damage to the rotten wood-like body, but also negatively affecting the family's reputation and fortune.
Instinctive desire is a double-edged sword, if you use it well, you will reap happiness, and if you don't use it well, you will get pain, the level of body hormones is not determined by us, but no matter what stage of life you are in, you should control your instinctive desire within a reasonable range, so as not to be eaten by instinctive desire.