Procrastination is a very common psychological phenomenon, but it is very easy to form a vicious circle, if the time is getting longer and the situation is getting more and more serious, it may be accompanied by psychological problems of varying degrees from mild to severe, and if it is mild, there will be symptoms such as lack of self-confidence, lack of enthusiasm in doing things, and self-denial. As this condition worsens, it may be accompanied by more negative thoughts such as depression, anxiety, etc.
1. Don't like to read, poor comprehension skills, lack of imagination; It is easy to make mistakes when doing sloppy questions, and it is difficult to improve test scores.
2. Poor self-care and self-reliance. The child is unable to complete structured or goal-oriented activities, such as housework, homework, etc.; Sometimes, for no particular reason, there is a tendency to be very angry; Poor self-tidying and tidying ability, often messy; Lack of organizational skills, unable to do a good job of sorting out and rectifying;
3. It may hit your child's self-confidence. How can procrastination take a toll on a child's self-confidence? In fact, everyone must want to be the first, the first to hand in homework, the first to write, and the first to run, but for children with procrastination, because they are very procrastinating in doing anything, they are not competitive in many aspects.
Develop your child's confidence
When a person doubts himself or herself and does not believe that he can accomplish something, this low self-esteem will hinder the development and completion of things, and the child will feel that the action is futile and give up. Parents should pay attention to the cultivation of confidence in their children, and confidence is built up in the completion of small things. In daily life, parents should encourage their children to act, and if the children are reluctant at first, parents can accompany them to complete the process and guide the children step by step.
2. Cultivate the child's independent character and let the friction pay the price, for example, the child gets up in the morning after grinding, parents don't worry, don't help him, you can remind the child that "if you don't hurry up, you will be late", if he is still there grinding, you might as well let him go, don't worry about the child being late for school, in fact, we just want the child to experience the consequences of being late for school, if the child is really late, the teacher will definitely ask him the reason for being late, after the child is criticized, You will realize the harm caused by the friction, and after a few times, the child will naturally speed up on his own.
3. Have empathy for children and encourage them more.
Children procrastinate, parents think about why they are procrastinating in doing this from the child's point of view, what is the difficulty? Give them guidance and help appropriately. Encourage your child to overcome difficulties and challenge themselves.
The sooner parents guide their children to learn how to manage their time and adjust their own learning methods, the stronger their children's learning advantages will be.
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This set of 8 books is suitable for children in lower grades, and corresponds to key issues in children's learning, such as how to manage their time and how to complete homework easily.
Who stole my time" guides children to arrange their time reasonably and not to do "little procrastination".
This book can help children easily understand what going to school is all about.
Writing homework is no longer difficult for me" tells children that writing homework is actually very simple.
I'm not afraid of exams" tells children that by doing so, they can get good grades.
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Through humorous and imaginative stories, the book adds appropriate fairy tale colors to real life, and tells the story to the hearts of children. While reading the story, the book also proposes many practical ways to teach children how to manage their time and how to better complete their homework ......
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