I am a post-80s mother, no matter how much life destroys me, I still don't give in. My fate is up to me, as long as I am willing to cross myself, nothing can stop me from moving forward. And there are some people who live forever in the eyes of others and make themselves miserable.
A friend of mine, she has been living with other people's words and is quite tired. A word from someone else that is not as good as she wants. It can keep her sullen all day. Once, because of her work, the leader of her unit said two words to her, and she was in a low mood for a week, without a smile on her face.
I really don't feel worth it for her. Life is so precious, every day is precious, why spend time and energy on these unimportant people or things, there is that anxious time, it is better to read two more pages of books to redeem yourself. Make your life more colorful.
I also have a friend, she is two years younger than me, she is young, she should love to be clean and tidy. Because she dresses up beautifully every day, but once you arrive at her house, you really don't want to step into her house again.
She has a lot of things in her house, I glanced at it, it was almost useless, many things were piled up for a long time, and the dust was sprinkled all over, I don't know what use she piled up there, the key is that it is still useless in the end, and in the end it is disposed of like garbage. How can you reach the peak of your mood in such an environment?
In the past few years, I have experienced some things that have been particularly profound. Before I got married, I was carefree, and I didn't have any big concept of money, mainly because I didn't spend a lot of money at that time, and I had a little money for my own work. I don't like to go shopping, I don't like makeup, I don't go to high-end places to eat, and I don't eat and sing KTV, but my life is still full of sunshine.
And all this changed because I got married and had my own small family. I became deductible and searching, because it costs money to buy a house, it costs money to buy a car, it costs money to raise children, and it costs money to buy rice, oil, and salt in life. I'm not a millionaire, unlike Jack Ma, Yu Minhong, Ma Huateng and other super-rich tycoons, I'm just an ordinary speck of dust in this world, I don't have the ability to make a lot of money, I can only solve the problem of food and clothing for my family.
In order to save a little money, I bought seasonal clothes and shoes. Because during the busy season, I can't afford it, so I can only wait for it to change seasons. Two years ago, there happened to be a shoe store engaged in **, I was greedy for cheap, I bought two pairs of sneakers at once, only wore one pair, and the other pair was reluctant to wear it, and kept it in the shoe cabinet. As a result, last week, my sneakers were completely broken and I couldn't wear them, and I said I was going to take out the shoes I was going to stock up on, but as soon as the shoes were taken out, the soles were rotten, which was really a waste of money.
But I've been through some unfortunate things in the past few years. I appeal to my heart that I can't be like this anymore, and that I don't get trapped in my father's class. You have to think of ways to change your difficulties, you can be difficult for a while, but don't make yourself difficult for a lifetime, unless you are unwell to complete it, otherwise you really don't forgive yourself for a lifetime.
In 2024, I have changed a lot. Stop internal friction and work hard to improve yourself. Let yourself be a light that illuminates the path of others.
I started to take care of myself, I soaked my feet. Every night before I go to bed, I soak my feet. I feel that after soaking my feet, I sleep very comfortably and steadily.
For things that I don't need at home, I've learned to let go of everything I should throw away. Don't let them grow bacteria in the room.
I stay away from garbage people and garbage things, and I don't consume my abilities in these things. I don't have my own ** house in the book, after finishing my work and taking care of the children, I calm down to read, absorb the essence of the book, constantly improve myself, and want to set a good example for the children. In 2024, you and I will work together to make changes and meet a better version of ourselves.