There are times in life when you have to have it, and there are times in life when you don't want it. Many people believe in the existence of fate, and people often say that I am unlucky, someone is very blessed, etc. So where does the good fortune in life come from? What determines the fate of man?
In fact, whether a person's fate is good or not is determined by the following aspects.
People who always have a smile are popular. A smile is the best cosmetic product, don't spend money, the effect is obvious. In the Ming Dynasty, when Zhu Yunwen was the emperor, he met with a approved Jinshi for the first time. Seeing a person named Hu Guang, who was very elegant, he took a second look and was ready to be the champion. Zhu Yunwen thought about it seriously, Hu is a foreign nation, and wide means expansion, is it possible that foreign countries will be expanded, and the Ming Dynasty will be reduced. Then, Zhu Yunwen asked: "Is it okay to change the Cantonese character to Jing?" Hu Guang took a step forward and "smiled". Since then, there has been a champion named Hu Jing in history.
A smile is usually a sign of affirmation, recognition, affection, and a good attitude. It is the best lubricant for socializing. We often say, "Reach out and don't hit the smiling person." "It's just that when you meet someone who has a conflict, you can smile, you won't be angry with each other, and you can change your social attitude, at least you can stop your loss.
People live this life, and in the final analysis, life is a state of mind. The better a person's mentality, the better the luck will naturally be, which is directly proportional. It's especially important to have a good mindset when things come to an end. If you have a good mentality, your world will be better. People with a bad mentality will not be able to cope with the problems in life, because if they have a bad mentality, their world will also be very bad.
I believe many netizens know the story of Kai-Fu Lee. A large part of the reason why he was able to fight cancer successfully was because he had a positive attitude. When he learned that he had cancer, Kai-Fu Lee did not be negative, but faced it positively. He actively seeks to keep his mindset and do whatever he wants. Life doesn't seem to be affected by illness at all. With his active efforts, he finally succeeded in fighting cancer and was reborn.
A person's temper can reflect their personality traits and emotional state. Grumpy people tend to be prone to conflict with others, while gentle and kind people are more likely to live in harmony with others. However, temper does not only refer to emotional outbursts, but also includes a person's patience, forbearance, and tolerance. A person with a good temper is usually able to remain calm and reasonable, and they are able to maintain an optimistic and resilient attitude in the face of difficulties. They are able to control their emotions and avoid making bad decisions on the spur of the moment. This positive temperament attitude and ability to manage emotions help them succeed in their relationships and career development, which can have a positive impact on their destiny.
A person's character determines the future. Xiang Yu, the overlord of Western Chu, has infinite manpower and is brave. In his twenties, he was already accomplished, but he became arrogant and arbitrary. The counsellors gave him advice, and if he did not obey him, he was brutally killed. He became more and more paranoid, separated from the soldiers, and no one was willing to be loyal to him, resulting in him being surrounded and suppressed by Liu Bang and others together with him, and killing himself in Wujiang. Originally, he was an emperor's talent, but because his personality was too paranoid and conceited, he didn't know how to be polite and virtuous, and respected the advice of others. Even at the last moment of his life, he was still complaining about God and refused to admit that it was his fault.
If a person has serious flaws in his personality, then it will be difficult for him to succeed, even if he has strong abilities and good opportunities, but because of his pride or emotional instability, things will go in a bad direction.
Speaking of eloquence, many people only have the tongue and lotus flower left and right to call eloquence in their hearts, but in fact, it is not. Eloquence is actually very simple, say what should be said, never say what should not be said, that's all. If you don't say a word when you speak, even if you are gold, it will be difficult to attract the attention of others, and you will only miss the opportunity. And when it is not appropriate to talk about it, we must try not to talk about it, because the mentality of the ancients that "noble people speak late" will never be outdated. Many people make it difficult for themselves because they say too much, and many people inadvertently give up glory and wealth because they are silent.
The first article of "Guiguzi" said: "The mouth is the gateway of the heart", and unreasonable use or non-use is a great loss. In the TV series "Mansion Gate", Bai Yingyuan, the eldest son of the Bai family, is not only skilled in medicine, but also very kind and loyal. One day, he took a car to the palace to see a doctor for his concubine, and on the way home, he met an old man who fell ill on the side of the road. Adhering to the kindness of the doctor who saved the life and helped the wounded, Bai Yingyuan insisted on saving the old man despite the dissuasion and prescribed free medicine for him. Later, Bai Yingyuan was victimized by others and was imprisoned. Originally, he planned to be beheaded after the autumn, but he was rescued by a noble man in prison, and the person who rescued him from prison was the son of the old man. As the saying goes, "Heaven has no relatives, and is always with good people".
God may not have a close relationship with people, but he will definitely favor those who have good thoughts. When you promise kindness to others, you will also become a warm light, warming others and illuminating yourself.
Diligence is one of the best feng shui for a person, allowing oneself to continuously accumulate strength and experience and lay a solid foundation for one's future. Diligence is the music of life, and every note of hard work plays the melody of success. Diligence is like the first ray of sunshine in the morning, which makes the road of life full of warmth and light. Diligence is the sword of a person's victory over adversity and the ladder of success. Only by sowing seeds in diligent fields can we reap abundant fruits. Set clear goals, work a little bit towards them every day, and let the spirit of hard work be a booster for your success.
There's a phrase called "making up for the dead." During the Western Han Dynasty, Zhuo Wenjun, a rich girl, eloped with Sima Xiangru, a poor boy, and did not take away gold and silver from her mother's house. But they actively faced the painful facts, opened a small shop to study, and finally made a fortune in life, and finally got the approval of their mother's family. Princess Lechang in the allusion of "Broken Mirror and Reunion", because of the destruction of the Chen State, she made a compromise and became the concubine of Yang Su, the minister of the Sui Dynasty. But she tried her best to reunite with her original husband Xu Deyan, and she also got Yang Su's understanding and help.
We can draw a conclusion that wealth is sought in the "song". A lot of things are not smooth sailing and will not be satisfactory. But we can follow the course of things, zigzag forward, and we also have the joy of winding paths. Always maintain a positive attitude, be sober-minded, and think long-term, the days must be bitter and then sweet, and wealth will come later.
It is difficult for some people not to succeed in their work and life, who are full of vitality and look energetic. In the Taoist concept of health preservation, the essence and spirit are regarded as the basic elements of human life. "Jing" is the foundation of life, "qi" is a driving force of life, and "god" is the master of life and the will of a person.
Some people like to stay up late without sleeping, and wake up the next day with a groggy head and no energy to work. Some people are languishing all day long, have no energy, and naturally will not succeed. As the old saying goes, "Enough is not desired, energy is not food, and spirit is not sleepy". Only those who are full of energy can have more energy to devote themselves to work and life.
In this world, difficulties and opportunities are always intertwined, not separated. People who really have a money-making mindset also know how to get paid for results, while people who have lived a poor life often like to trade their time for payment. Receiving remuneration based on results means that you can use one successful thing as an opportunity to gain wealth, such as dividends, commissions, and so on. However, for the poor, they will always use their fixed time as the only way to get paid, even if they work for a long time every day, it is just to earn their own hard-earned money, and it is definitely not a real money-making mentality.
There is a saying that "what kind of thinking a person has, what kind of action he has". The truly rich have long understood this and have engraved this way of thinking deeply in their lives, making themselves richer and richer.
People who are accustomed to psychological internal friction will always fall into a state of self-doubt, and they will always can't help but think about things in their hearts. The slightest encounter with something will make your inner order completely chaotic, and you can't withstand the slightest turmoil at all. It's easy to feel sorry for yourself because of a little thing. Such people often think too much, but their abilities are not worthy of their ambitions, so they are suppressed by this distorted state for a long time, and their nerves have been in a state of high tension. They are sensitive in their hearts, and they will base their sense of self-worth on the recognition of others, and as long as others look at them more and evaluate themselves, they will have a sense of negativity. Such people often live unhappy lives.
Those who have a good life, they all know how to be happy, know how to let go of themselves, and live upward, and have high requirements and high standards for themselves, but they know how to be happy, will not have internal friction, and will always be optimistic and positive, but they can also accept bad results indifferently. There is a good saying: "Big wealth depends on life, medium wealth depends on virtue, and small wealth depends on diligence." Therefore, whether a person has a rich life or not depends on this person
Virtue, and virtue is the foundation of a person's fortune. If virtue is lost, no amount of wisdom will be lost because of lack of virtue. A person's fate is good or bad, you don't need to ask him what his family background is and what his ancestors are, and you don't need to ask him what his family does, just look at his usual words and deeds. If a person can do the above things, then he is a person with a rich life and a very lucky person.