Author: Simple Heart (Rich Book Author).
Zhou Guoping said: "What you value and what you pursue, you may get in the end." ”
Go all out in the things you value, no matter how much you roll, it's not too much.
Because, you will get professional recognition, emotional warmth, and harmony in the family.
Treat things indifferently in contempt matters, no matter how you lie down, you can feel at ease.
Because, you will not be disturbed by miscellaneous things, trapped by circles, confused by right and wrong.
Half involution, half lying flat, is the most horizontal way of life
In the workplace, professional involution, miscellaneous things lie flat
Writer Zhang Hui said in "The Moat of Life": "It is like running a company to manage yourself and build your core competitiveness." ”
In the workplace, only by involuting professionally and lying flat on chores can you build your core competitiveness.
Song Yunhui is a character in the writer Anai's long story "Da Jiangdong Go".
After graduating from university, he joined Golden State Chemical as an ordinary worker.
Unlike other colleagues in the factory who chatted, read newspapers, and made tea every day, his mind was all on technical research.
When he went to work, he sorted out the technical problems he encountered, and then humbly consulted the master in the factory
After work, he plunged into the library, eager to learn advanced foreign technology;
In the evening, he was not idle in the dormitory, reviewing what he had thought and learned for a day around the post work practice, and summarizing experience and exploring methods.
Over time, Song Yunhui grew into the most outstanding technical employee in the factory.
When Jinzhou Chemical encountered many technological crises, it was he who helped the company to save the day with his excellent skill level.
He also walked step by step to the position of the director of the branch.
In the workplace, everyone faces the same exam papers, but after the precipitation of time, in the end, there are more mediocre people and fewer top-notch ones.
The reason for this is that most people give up polishing and improving their professional abilities in the consumption of trivial affairs.
As everyone knows, the workplace is your place to settle down, and it depends on the skill ratio.
Xing Zipei, vice president of Liepin, said: "The only thing you can do is your professional knowledge and enterprising spirit, as well as your contribution to the organization and business." ”
Therefore, your professional desperate involution is the best explanation for your work.
On the other hand, if you only know how to spend time in the midst of trivial things, you are tantamount to being left behind.
Doing something and not doing something is the way to advance in the workplace.
In socializing, the affection is involuted, and the circle is lying flat
"The World" has such an empowering line:
The farther you go, the more you see, and the more people you know, the more you can realize: in this life, the people you really care about, and at the same time care about you, just a few, these few people, is your whole world. ”
Friendship with people, two or three confidants, enough to comfort life.
Since the author @瑾杨 has told the story of netizen shells.
She is a department manager of a company with a wide range of friends and a high level of knowledge.
Because of her work, she has come into contact with many circles, and although she is often busy with socializing, she insists on distinguishing between public and private, and never goes to inappropriate circles.
Although she will be invited when she goes to **, and there will be people willing to stand up and help when she encounters any problems, she refuses them one by one.
Not strong integration, not deep friendship, lying flat on circle issues, is her consistent principle of doing things.
On the contrary, she will manage her life seriously and carefully manage her relationship with the two young people.
Family dinners, movie shopping, and invitations to travel, they all leave the happy times of enjoying life to each other.
No matter who is in trouble, the other two will find a way to help her out.
No matter who wants to do something, the other two will do their best to help her.
In this way, everyone shared the weal and woe with wealth and wealth, and walked through decades without hindrance.
Later, she developed a tendency to be depressed due to too much work pressure and had to submit her resignation to the company.
The so-called circles she made at work had disappeared without a trace.
In that gray day of physical and mental exhaustion, it was the two young people who have been accompanying her out of the haze of the world.
When you suffer from life's suffering, you will find that the person who is responsible for love is worthy of reliance.
In social networking, friends lie in fineness, not in many.
Kazuo Inamori said: "The fewer people who know you, the better, don't get involved in a circle that is not suitable for you, one or two confidants are enough." ”
When you have to meet a confidant, it comes from the involution of affection, not the circle management.
Affection and righteousness intersect with sincerity, go to each other emotionally, and support each other morally, so it lasts for a long time.
The circle seeks interests and calculates, gathers because of profits, and disperses when profits are exhausted, so it is difficult to last.
The volume of the volume does not measure the meaning of the heart by gain or loss;The lying is not a touch of color contact circle.
Only by clearly distinguishing and going their own way will they complement each other.
In the family, harmony is involuted, and right and wrong lie flat
There is a saying in the Book of Han: "The gate of good fortune is nothing more beautiful than harmony, and the first thing to blame is greater than internal detachment." ”
The greatest blessing of a family is to live in harmony, and the greatest evil is to be separated from morality.
Mr. Yang Jiang tells about her family life with her husband Qian Zhongshu in the book "We Three".
During Yang Jiang's hospitalization and childbirth, Qian Zhongshu would visit every day.
But every time he goes to the hospital, Qian Zhongshu will be like a child who has done something wrong, reviewing the bad things he has done at home:
Knocked over the inkwell and stained the tablecloth in the landlord's house. ”
I smashed the lamp, and I don't know what to do. ”
Every time, Yang Jiang would always reply:
It doesn't matter, I'll wash. ”
It doesn't matter, I'll fix it. ”
It doesn't matter, I'll get it. ”
There has never been a quarrel between them, never arguing about who is right and who is wrong, and some are just natural expressions of love to the depths of their love.
Yang Jiang once wrote: "My greatest credit is to keep Qian Zhongshu's naughtiness and that mess of infatuation." ”
Later, Qian Zhongshu was hospitalized due to illness**, and Yang Jiang accompanied him for more than 50 days.
Others persuaded her to go home to rest or find someone to replace, but she said indifferently
Where Zhongshu is, there is my home. ”
Sharing adversity and life and death are the ultimate expression of family harmony.
It is in such a harmonious family relationship that Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu have both achieved their legendary lives.
Yang Jiang eventually became a well-known modern writer, literary translator and researcher of foreign literature in China.
Qian Zhongshu has become a generation of literary giants and is world-renowned.
As the saying goes, "Home and everything prospers." ”
A harmonious family environment is the source of happiness in your life, warming your body and mind, but you don't have to worry about right and wrong.
The essence of family life is to stay together, sit idle, and the lights are amiable.
Lying flat on right and wrong is not unreasonable, but it is not because of momentary right and wrong that long-term stability cannot be ruined.
When you're nourished by a warm family relationship, right or wrong doesn't matter at all.
Harmony and involution are the best state of a family, benefiting others and themselves, and everything is smooth.
Hulan said on "Talk Show Conference": "When the volume is rolled, so that you can have the opportunity to lie down." ”
This sentence tells us that we must focus on the important things in order to lie flat on the things that don't matter.
If the professional ability is in place, the workplace space will be large, and there will be the capital to lie flat on chores.
When the social sentiment is in place, the trust of friends will be deep, and there will be a sense of being far away from the circle.
Family harmony is in place, and empathy is also close, and only then will there be wisdom regardless of right or wrong.
Involution and lying flat are twin pairs, accompanying each other
The effort to roll to the extreme is similar to the laziness of lying down to the right amount.
May you not only work hard to roll to the extreme, but also have a life of laziness and relaxation when you lie down to the right amount.
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