Hi everyone! I'm Luna, a self-disciplined mom who believes in the power of perseverance as her life creed!
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Let's talk about some of my recent insights:
Good friends must be attracted at the same frequency, you have a few pounds and a few taels, you are worthy of a few catties and a few taels of friends, don't believe it, the sieve of time has already helped you do a good job of screening.
Those who are familiar with me know that in the past few years, I have experienced too many people's ups and downs, so I cherish the friends who are still by my side in the past few years.
It's really the kind of person who wants to give 100 points to his friends whenever he has 100 points, and is willing to choose unreserved trust and share his feelings and secrets.
Even when others slander a friend, I will stand up for my friend as soon as possible, and I think I should be equally important in my friend's heart!
The fact is that I was wrong, at first people were ignorant of it, or it was half a day later, before I could receive a long-overdue response, even if I occasionally replied a few words on WeChat, it was also a flickering of the edge, and then I suddenly figured out something,The relationship between you and the other person is defined by the other person
Sometimes, we can be easily deceived by illusions.
Before I left my job, I worked in a Fortune 500 listed company, and because of my business relationship, I often came into contact with a lot of great network resources, and some of them were even the CEOs of listed companies.
At that time, I naively thought that these resources could help me at some point in the future, so I added a lot of people's WeChat and**, and even when I encountered some business obstacles, as long as I was in the past, people would immediately deal with it.
At that time, I had the illusion that I was very good, so others were willing to give me a little bit of thin face.
Later, when I left my job, I found out that it was not at all, people gave you face, not that you were very good, but that the company behind you was very good, and it was the company that gave you endorsement, so everyone would give you some face.
To put it bluntly, the interaction between people is an equivalent exchange.
Before you make any connections, ask yourself, what can I offer to others? If not, please improve yourself first, otherwise these are all ineffective social! After I figured it out, I was gradually relieved.
Here are some of the insights of the past few days, sisters, I really recommend it to you:Get out of ineffective social interactions, and you'll live better.
I'm Ah, I'm practicing a small business, and I firmly believe in the power of perseverance.