Eccentricity and selfishness have hurt our parents, should we honor and support them? Many experts say: "Eccentric and selfish parents should not be supported, they are not worthy of respect, and they must stay away from eccentric parents.""。There is even more that his parents are partial, he has two sons, has always favored one child, neglected the other child, and when he is old, he suddenly remembers that he has two children. Sorry, I'm not a garbage ** station. This is very heart-wrenching.
Should such parents be honored and supported? One more question, who are we born of? Where did it come from? To find the answer, look at our mother river, the Yellow River, which is full of mud and sand, and there are pros and cons to human relations. The Yellow River is our mother river, the Yellow River water brings sediment, it is called disadvantages, there is water called benefits, and the advantages and disadvantages of humanity are inherited.
Back to filial piety, what is the foundation of filial piety? It is to respect his relatives, his children are moral, and the society respects his parents, does not care about the mistakes of his parents, and is filial piety.
Let's look at another old saying"Parents all over the world"。The problem of parents cannot be pursued, because we want to have the advantages and disadvantages of each other. "Parents who are not all", this "no" is to tell us that anyone can blame, but his children cannot, because the parents give life to offset all faults.
I Ching Gu hexagram "Godfather's Gu, Godmother's Gu". It is said that the disadvantages of parents, "the Gu of the godfather, there is a son". It is his children who have to solve these problems and be filial to their grievances. "Godmother's Gu, not chaste" refers to strictness, the child accuses the mother of the shortcomings, or the child advises the mother to pay attention to the problem is very harsh.
The "dryness" of "godmother" is that the child wants to correct the shortcomings of his parents and solve them with self-correction. For example, when your parents are not virtuous and go out with you to quarrel with others, you are not blaming your parents on the spot, but helping them away and apologizing to others"I'm sorry my mom was unreasonable"。That's it, this is the root of heaven and earth, not the culture of East and West.