If you don't want a wedding room, you can't support the elderly
In life, we will always meet some people who do not know how to be grateful. They often don't know how to value the efforts of others, and even use bad words when others help them.
Such behavior is undoubtedly disappointing and chilling. I once met such a person. When her son got married, he didn't have enough money to buy a house due to poor financial conditions.
However, her daughter-in-law's family was willing to help and bought a big house. Considering that she lives alone, her daughter-in-law also deliberately bought a big house. However, during the renovation of the new house, she ignored it and turned a blind eye to her daughter-in-law's help.
We cannot sit idly by and ignore such behavior. We can't afford to let other people's efforts go to waste. We should stay away from those who don't know how to be grateful and don't associate with them.
At the same time, we should also cherish the help of others and be grateful for their contributions. I was born into an ordinary working-class family, and my parents worked in a supermarket in the county seat.
I have been a good girl since I was a child, and I never let my parents worry about my studies. When I took the college entrance examination, I was admitted to my dream university. After graduating, in order to take care of my parents, I returned to my hometown and started working as an accountant in a real estate company.
In the face of those who do not know how to be grateful, we should make a wise choice, stay away from them, cherish the help of others, and be grateful for their efforts. Because, only in this way, can we go further and more steadily on the road of life.
Due to my introverted personality and quiet personality, most of my energy is put into work, resulting in me not having much opportunity emotionally. I'm almost 30 years old, and my parents are worried about me becoming a leftover girl and worried about my future married life.
So, my mom took me to a lot of blind dates, and eventually I met my husband on a blind date. We felt very close to each other when we first met, and after half a year of dating, we decided to get engaged.
His family is special, he grew up in a single-parent family, and his mother raised him and his sister alone. They live in an old building in average condition.
I remember when I got engaged, my parents didn't ask for a bride price, but they wanted his family to buy a house. However, he told me that he didn't have enough money to buy a house, and if they were really going to buy a house, he would have to sell their old house, add his savings, and take out a loan to buy a house.
My mother asked a question: "If you sold your house and your mother lives in **?"
My husband planned to let my mother-in-law move back to the countryside, and my parents agreed to help us buy a house out of kindness. Considering that my mother-in-law was going to move in in the future, my parents suggested that we buy a third room. Soon after, we were able to buy a new house, but we were still worried about the renovation.
Because of the lack of funds, our parents reached out again, and together with our own efforts, we finally managed to scrape together the renovation costs. In the hot summer, my husband and I are busy in the building materials market, while my mother-in-law enjoys a quiet life in the countryside.
Although we wanted my mother-in-law to come over and supervise the renovation, she said that the smell of paint made her unbearable, so she refused. After two months of placement, the house was finally renovated, and we wanted my mother-in-law to come and clean up once in a while, but her reply was still refusal.
Although my mother-in-law and I had some conflicts during the renovation of the wedding room, I still decided to pick her up when we moved. However, when I told her: "Mom, okay, don't come to support the elderly in the future", she said: "Daughter-in-law, I don't rarely go to live in the wedding house that your family bought." ”
Oh my God, my mother-in-law actually said such a thing, and our kindness really became the liver and lungs of a donkey. But I think that when my son got married, it was not easy for my daughter-in-law's family to understand my mother-in-law, so I didn't ask for a bride price, and I bought a house, and even took into account my mother-in-law's future pension problem, so I specially bought a third room, which shows how kind my daughter-in-law's family is.
Although my mother-in-law ignored me during the renovation of the house, I still believe that as long as we treat each other sincerely, there is nothing that cannot be solved.