1.Write down a list of goals you want to achieve this year and write down the specific process of achieving them. What exactly are your goals for this year?It is a postgraduate examination, an examination editor, or a college entrance examination ......Write it down and write it in your life planner.
Think about what you need to do in order to achieve this goal, and write down the specific process by which you want to achieve it.
Let's take a simple example. In 2024, for the goal of writing, my requirement for myself is to be able to update 144 articles stably.
Then every month of the year, I have to write hard, 12 articles a month, and 3 articles a week.
Only by setting a goal and matching the goal with the method of achieving it can the goal be achieved.
2.Pick up your hobby and stick to it.
In the second half of 2023, I have been regaining my hobbies, and I hope that one day, I can achieve my other goals because of my hobbies.
In this life, everything may be far away from us, but only hobbies will not.
If you want to be a painter, you have to paint;If you want to be a writer, go to codeword;If you want to be a calligrapher, you have to write ......
If there are no results in one year, it does not mean that there will be no results in 3 or 5 years. So, go ahead and pick up your hobby and stick to it.
3.Look beyond the horizon and never limit yourself.
Never put on your lips words like "I'm this age, this life is like this", and before I struggle, I began to limit myself
Tell a true story. My best friend's school is a private school, this school is very famous, parents are attracted to it, and the students are also very good.
And the old principal who founded this school is in his 80s. He and his wife were teachers when they were young, and after they retired, they started their own business and started the school.
Now, their family's wealth is enough for them to use in the next life.
So, what I want to say is that you should never stick to what you have now, and don't use age as an excuse to limit your life and look a little longer.
4.Keep your emotions stable and have a good mindset, and everything will be fine.
Whether things are good or bad, they are the result of your inner projection.
When one thing happens, it happens. If you give all kinds of negative emotions to this matter, it will only produce a steady stream of negative energy.
Keep your emotions stable and have a good attitude, and all difficulties will be solved.
5.Keep challenging yourself to do things that challenge your abilities.
To be precise, it was in December 2023 that I started to restart my life and challenge myself.
From writing to painting, from calligraphy to English, in order to make myself better and better.
I once saw a passage that made me suddenly enlightened: "Why do many students do questions every day, but their grades still stagnate?".And some students, only do a few questions, it seems to be easy, but every time they get a high score?
The reason is simple: every question that people do is an extended question, not a basic question. No matter how much you do the basic questions, you will only master the basic questions. And to do extended questions, what you have mastered is not only extended questions.
In the same way, whether it is study or work, you will always stick to the one-third of an acre in front of your home, and if you don't open up the wasteland, you will only stop. So, challenge yourself and see how high your ceiling is.
6.Please be generous and confident.
I've found that a lot of people tend to think of self-deprecation as modesty, and they always like to make excuses for their inferiority. What is too short, too fat, and not as good as ...... people
These are just reasons for your inferiority complex to make yourself lie down in peace.
Like height, something that is innate, you have to give it all kinds of mental activities, and then bless yourself with the psychology of inferiority, isn't this a mediocre self-disturbance?
Remember, the world is diverse, and so are people, so accept yourself as you are different. All in all, please be generous and confident, and don't look down on yourself.
7.Combination of deep cultivation and multi-field development.
In the past, when I came home from work every day, the most I did was read and write.
This can improve my writing, but if I want to play on my own, one skill alone is not enough.
Therefore, I started with my own interests and hobbies, with the goal of "growth", and developed in multiple fields to improve myself.
If you want to shine in the field of writing, you can't just write one type of article.
This year, I want to improve myself from the subdivisions of pure literature, new literature and romance, which is my deep development in one field.
In addition to writing, I also studied calligraphy, painting and English, which is my multi-disciplinary development. The purpose of doing this is simple, to make yourself continue to be excellent.
8.Please get started.
If you want to do something, act immediately, and then talk about it. If you do it first, you'll kill 50% of your competitors. Action, you can ** all anxiety!
In 2024, please lay out your life well!Life is still long, don't ask your twenties for answers. What a house and a car, delayed gratification is also indispensable for a few pieces of meat.
Above, encouragement!
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Author: Ye Doudou, focus on self-growth, and use 6 hours off work to improve yourself. It's a teacher, it's a blogger, it's a coder, learning calligraphy, painting, English, ......I hope my sharing can give you the motivation to struggle.
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