Love is like wearing shoes, and the fit is important.
The wrong person will only hurt both parties and make both sides suffer; The right people make the relationship better and make both parties happy.
But how do you know if someone is right for you?
In fact, if you look at a little bit, you only know it after eating.
As the saying goes: eating is the best way to get to know a person.
When eating, you can see a person by saying what they say, what they do, how they eat, and what their state is like in the face of others.
The first time Xiao Nan and her boyfriend ate, they saw the man clearly by eating.
When her boyfriend eats, she will take care of Xiao Nan's feelings, first point out what Xiao Nan likes to eat, and then choose what she likes to eat.
When eating, when the waiter serves the food, my boyfriend always says thank you.
There was even a waiter who accidentally knocked over the plate and got it on her boyfriend's clothes, who kindly said that it didn't matter, and then wiped the plate clean with his own paper.
After eating, the boyfriend will take the initiative to pick the dishes for himself, and importantly, the meal is also very educational.
A meal made Xiao Nan see that her boyfriend was a very good person, so they were decisively together.
How a person eats a meal, **
The upbringing of eating, the attitude towards eating, the attitude towards others, and the way of treating others can all tell a person.
In a relationship, whether a person is suitable or not is really important, and whether a person is suitable determines how two people get along in the future.
The right people will make you feel comfortable.
In the TV series "You Are My Glory", Qiao Jingjing and Yu Tu are very comfortable together.
Between the two of them, one person does not complain about the other, nor does he feel bad about each other, or even quarrel.
Two people are very busy at work, when they are busy, they are busy, and when they are free, they are together with each other and live a small life that belongs to two people.
Big and small things in life or work will be discussed with each other.
It won't be so blushing, in such a marriage, the life of two people is really happy, and two people are happy every day.
Being with the right person is like that, caring about each other's feelings, cherishing each other's feelings, and thinking about each other.
Every day is relaxed and happy.
Men and women, if they don't get along, will only make each other miserable and make both parties want to escape.
Such a relationship is a kind of consumption and torture for each other.
I saw a netizen share online that she said that being with her boyfriend every day is a torture.
For example, when she is at work, her boyfriend asks, "What are you doing?" Sometimes he doesn't text back, and his boyfriend asks, "Why don't you text me back?" "What are you doing? ”
Sometimes she is very busy and doesn't see her boyfriend's **, and her boyfriend will go crazy one by one, and if she doesn't pick up, she will call her colleagues and family.
Faced with such a boyfriend, netizens said that they felt like they were suffering every day.
And her boyfriend also said that he loved him too much.
Such a relationship can really suffocate and misery two people, and will only make two people spend their days in torment.
The wrong people will only continue to consume us.
The right person is what we really want to choose, after all, it's really comfortable and happy to be with such a person.