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Traveling in Paris, Qin Lang, who "lost" his winter vacation homework by the way, became popular.
The scene of the Lantern Festival lighting up homework is all over the social platform.
"Child's homework at the beginning of school" has become a hot topic this week. Netizens ridiculed: ".At the winter vacation homework delivery site under the cover of night, a lamp and a pen create a miracle in one night. Although there is really not much time left for them to make up their homework, the lights of thousands of homes on the last night of school will finally make you deeply experiencedWhat is China Speed.
Many parents have left messages under the topic-
There is emotion:
( Falling Kite ).
On the day of the Lantern Festival, my nephew wrote 6 texts and memorized texts, 250 math practice questions, 10 reading notes, 20 pages of winter vacation questions, and 5 test papers.
You see, it's one day from the end to the cap.
There is an appeal:
( Little Sweet )Can you really give the holiday back to the child, what if you don't do homework during a holiday, the child is too tired now. I want my child to study hard when he goes to school and have fun during the holidays, and I take him to play all kinds of things and play everywhere. What's wrong with playing two holidays a year? My own child, I just want him to be healthy and happy, and I don't learn to write every day.
There are doubts:
( The sound of the piano is orderly).
Why would parents allow this to happen? My family has not been like this since I was a child, and my winter vacation homework is not a matter at all, I can finish it all in a week, and then continue to do extracurricular homework, I will not allow my son to have the opportunity to challenge the "China speed".
Is it true that travel and homework can't be both?
In this regard, three parents with rich experience in parent-child travel shared their stories with the reporter of Fengwang, a female newspaper today.
Give your child a "sugar" and take care of schoolwork and travel
Every year since our daughter turned three, we took her out on trips. Sometimes as soon as the holidays are over, I go straight to pick her up with my suitcase and go straight from school to the high-speed rail station or airport. "Changsha's "post-90s" mother Yu Qing told today's female newspaper Fengwang reporter. Usually, it is rare for the couple to accompany their children to go far away, so she will plan in advance for every long vacation.
The child's holiday homework was also included in Yu Qing's planning. In order to balance travel and her children's studies, Yuqing began to consciously cultivate her children's self-discipline habits.
Nowadays, children are very busy, and they not only have to complete their homework during the winter and summer vacations, but also sometimes have to take time to take online classes. It would be a shame if you were stuck at home because of these. Yu Qing talked about the scene when their family took the high-speed train to Xi'an in October 2023: "From the beginning to the end of a carriage, you can basically see children doing homework every few rows. ”
In the beginning, Lele was not used to doing homework in an external environment. Distractions such as the scenery outside the car window and the chatter of tourists will distract Lele, who is often halfway through the trip, and only one-third of a volume is completed. Yu Qing said that completing homework during travel requires children's self-discipline, and the root of self-discipline is to give children the motivation to complete this on their own, "so I usually set up a 'candy'." For example, by fulfilling her careful wishes during the trip, the child will gradually be able to concentrate and take the initiative to achieve his goals. ”
The "candy" that impressed Lele the most was the trip to Shanghai Disneyland two years ago. She really wanted to participate in Disney's weekend events. ”
At that time, it was the middle of the semester, and Lele had a lot of homework tasks on the weekend. Yu Qing thought about it again and again, but she still didn't want to dampen the child's enthusiasm. She discussed with her daughter and asked her to try to make her own travel plans and balance her studies and play time. To Yuqing's surprise, Lele was very attentive to this trip, not only finding a suitable departure time, planning how much homework could be completed in the trip, and even planning online classes to ensure that his trip to Disney would not be affected. She is relieved, "On the day of the limited event, there were long queues for many projects. Usually she is very impatient as soon as she queues, but that time she learned to use the queue to brush online classes, and did not complain about the boredom and hard work of waiting time. I'm impressed. ”
On the way back, Lele suddenly said to Yuqing: "Mom, I suddenly found that it feels great that I don't have to make up my homework after returning home from travel!" I hope you can supervise me next time and keep me going. ”
In this way, Lele is accustomed to completing homework as soon as possible on the trip to the destination, and has also mastered the planning and arrangement before the trip.
On the go, let your child learn to delay gratification
For Chen Xiaoqian, a mother in Hunan, it is a good choice to consciously guide her child to learn to delay gratification during travel. She shared with reporters the experience of taking her two children to climb Jiuzhen Mountain in Wuhan during the holiday not long ago.
You don't know how much you have to face for children when you go out and climb a mountain. Chen Xiaoqian sighed. The toys, snacks, and different activities sold by the vendors at the entrance of the attraction are enough for her to start a "tug-of-war" with her children - if you are still a mother of a second child, the battle situation is simply 'indescribable'. ”
Because the scenic spot is far away from the city and there are many tourists, it was almost half past two in the afternoon when the family entered the scenic spot, and they had to hurry up if they wanted to climb to the top before the scenic spot closed.
However, as soon as they walked through the gate, they were stumped by the lively market at the foot of the mountain, and the two babies were so blind that they couldn't walk in front of the stalls.
Before the mountain began to climb, the plan "died" at the starting point, so how can it be done?
I do ideological work for them first, for example, these things are everywhere, don't rush to buy them now, or when you go down the mountain, you still like them, and it's not too late to pick another one. Chen Xiaoqian said that they didn't expect to say goodbye to the "commodity impact", and they encountered a new "roadblock" in the middle of the mountain-the jungle leap amusement project. Chen Xiaoqian immediately discussed with the children, "If you play this project, it is likely that you will not be able to reach the top, if you complete the goal of reaching the summit with everyone first, and then you can make other arrangements according to the remaining time." ”
Chen Xiaoqian told reporters that there will be a lot of ** in the journey, and parents should guide their children to make choices, rather than blindly denying or blindly accommodating, and let their children determine what they really want to achieve. "In the process of guidance, children will gradually form the habit of thinking on their own and weighing the pros and cons. ”
In this way, although the time to enter the scenic spot is a little late, the mountain breeze is clear, the mountains are towering, and the children are gradually immersed in the wonderful scenery of green mountains and green waters, not only climbing to the top of the mountain as they wished, but also seeing the sunset and experiencing rowing in the process of descending the mountain.
Later, I asked the children if they would choose to do it all over again, whether they would choose to play jungle leaps or climb mountains to the top, and they all chose the latter, and my eldest daughter said that it was good that she didn't waste it in front of her, so she had enough time to enjoy rowing in the sunset. In Chen Xiaoqian's view, not only the journey, but also in the face of many ** in daily life, it is also a very important lesson for children to learn to think actively. "My kids are now doing what they need to do first, doing their homework first thing when they come home, and then they are free to do their own time, and I think that's a lesson that travel has taught them. ”
Be patient, travel is a great way to develop self-discipline in your child
Wei Lingfeng, a 13-year-old teenager from Sichuan this year, is already a cross-country runner with 8 years of "running experience". "Cross-country running" was one of the themes of the family's trip, and self-discipline continued throughout Wei's formative years from boy to teenager.
For her mother, Tang Jie, going on an outdoor parent-child trip is a "family team building", no matter how busy she is at work, she must find time to do it. Self-discipline is an example for her to show her children. "My child started trail running at the age of 5 and now it has become a family habit to run two or three times a week for 5-10km each time. She told reporters. For children, the self-discipline brought by running is not only reflected in the persistence of habits and time control, but also helps children expand the boundaries of thinking and ability.
I am a child who has been nurtured by nature! Wei Lingfeng often told his friends proudly. He is full of curiosity about everything in nature, will use search engines to find and learn things of interest found in nature, and also likes to apply and practice the theoretical knowledge he has learned in class in nature.
During every outdoor trail run, Tang Jie will pay special attention to communication with children. The mother and son are like a pair of good friends who talk about everything, from the hare they just saw on the side of the road to the "chicken and rabbit in the same cage" that "complains" that there is no in reality, from the evaluation of recent popular routes to the evaluation of the pros and cons ......between GPS, Beidou, GLONASS, and GalileoSometimes, she will be amazed by the child's unbridled associative ability and knowledge reserve. "These are all things that he has come into contact with, felt interested in and spontaneously learned and understood."
Tang Jie shared that the self-discipline habits learned during the trip also cultivated children's organizational planning skills. "Since he was 5 years old, he has been packing his own equipment and has an independent view and understanding of many things. At the end of 2022, Wei Lingfeng spontaneously organized and carried out an activity of "going up the mountain to pick up garbage on foot" with a few good friends, "The activity plan he wrote himself, determined the route, process, and equipment, and we only made some detailed adjustments. At that event, the children not only cleaned up a mountain trail, but also gained many new friends who love hiking and public welfare.
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