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On May 26, 2014, the last generation of Gege Aixin Jueluo Xianqi passed away due to illness, which aroused widespread concern in the society. Her passing has made people rethink that particular period in history.
As the niece of the last emperor Pu Yi and the younger sister of Yoshiko Kawashima, Jin Moyu's identity is eye-catching.
Life is full of twists and turns, but it is finally calm, joy is shared, and grief and anger are hidden alone Jin Moyu, the last Gege, her life is full of twists and turns, from the noble Gege to the prisoner, and then to return to a peaceful life.
In the face of the ups and downs of life, she always said with a smile: "Joy, anger, sorrow, sorrow and anger should be kept in the heart, and joy can be shared with others." Looking back on her life of ups and downs, she seems extremely calm.
As a Manchu aristocrat, she pursued individuality and chose a different path from Yoshiko Kawashima. If the Qing Dynasty had not fallen, she would have been a veritable aristocratic lady, but the twists and turns of fate did not stop her from loving and pursuing life.
Even during her wandering life, her family still maintained the lifestyle of the Qing Dynasty, lived in a mansion, hired more than 200 servants, and lived a luxurious life. However, no matter how life changes, Jin Moyu always maintains a peaceful mind, enjoys every moment of joy, and hides every moment of sorrow.
Although the emperor was no longer there, the Manchu royal family's Prince Su, Aixin Jueluo Shanqi, had always adhered to the ideal of restoring the feudal monarchy. During his time in Lushun, Japan, he pinned his hopes on the power of Japan to realize this wish, but every attempt ended in failure.
In order to pass on the great cause of restoration, he also sent his children to Japan for education. Among them, Yoshiko Kawashima, Shanqi's adopted daughter, was sent to Japan. Yoshiko Kawashima was sent to Japan since she was a child, so Jin Moyu was not impressed by this sister.
It was not until 1927 that Yoshiko Kawashima returned to Lushun to get married, and the two sisters were able to meet. In Jin Moyu's eyes, Yoshiko Kawashima combed her men's hairstyle, wore **, and was very handsome.
However, she is full of arrogance and never takes the people around her seriously. As she grew older, she was sent to Gakuin, the most famous aristocratic school in Japan, and because of her excellent grades, she was sent to the English Department of Tokyo Women's University.
Yoshiko Kawashima spent most of her adolescence in Japan, receiving eight years of open education, and her thoughts and actions became bold and avant-garde, no longer satisfied with being a "filial son" of the Qing Dynasty, but pursued her own ideals.
In 1937, when the full-scale war of resistance against Japan broke out, she interrupted her studies in Japan and returned to China, hoping to become a female journalist or singer who traveled around, but was opposed by her family, who thought that she should not show up as a royal gege.
However, this turbulent era not only threatens lives, but also threatens to damage the reputation of the Aisin Jueluo family. Jin Moyu had to stay at home and do nothing, but she did not give up her hobby, but privately worked as a consultant for a Japanese textile company.
At this time, Jin Moyu was like a working woman, devoting all her time to her hobbies and enjoying a comfortable life.
Jin Moyu received special attention from textile companies because of her status as the last Gege, but this did not save her from the difficulties of the world. At work, she witnessed the bullying of Chinese by the Japanese, and her heart was filled with anger.
So, she stepped forward and warned the Japanese in a firm tone: "We are all Chinese, and we must have national self-confidence." Although this caused dissatisfaction among the Japanese, because of her status as the last Gege, others could not do anything about her.
It is precisely because Jin Moyu has a clear judgment in the face of national righteousness that she did not follow her sister to the Northeast and embark on the road of treason. In the course of her wanderings, she met a painter, and the two eventually married.
However, with the decline of the royal palace, the life she was accustomed to began to become overstretched.
Prince Jin Mo Yusu had many children when he was young, although there were more than 30, but there were few who could be trusted. Among them, her son became an opium addict after returning from studying military affairs abroad, which seriously corrupted the door and squandered the property of the royal palace in just a few years.
In order to support their family, they had to sell their family's property, but unfortunately they were cheated out of a lot of money. When the time came to 1945, the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression was won, and the people began to "punish traitors".
Due to Yoshiko Kawashima's involvement, Jin Moyu, as her younger sister, was affected despite not participating in any actions. As a result, the national ** requisitioned the real estate of Prince Su's mansion and drove Jin Moyu to live in a small house in Dongdan, Beijing.
When the war broke out, Jin Moyu's family faced huge pressure to survive. They decided to split up their family and flee to Hong Kong for refuge. Although the eldest brother left her a hundred silver dollars, there were still several children and servants to take care of in the family, which was obviously not enough.
Although Jin Moyu is used to living a rich life, she lacks life experience and does not know how to get through this difficulty. So, she began to sell valuables and knitted sweaters for income.
However, these incomes are far from meeting their living needs. It wasn't until 1952 that Jin Moyu received money from her brother who was far away in Japan. After careful consideration, she decided to use the money to open a western restaurant, but there were very few customers who came to the restaurant.
After the founding of New China, Jin Moyu changed the Western restaurant to a Sichuan restaurant, and because of the booming business, the family's life was guaranteed. Soon after, the hotel was a public-private partnership, and Jin Moyu became a staff member of the ** Compilation Bureau, and her life was more stable.
During this period, Jin Moyu fell in love with the painter Ma Wanli and married, although the conditions were simple, they were extremely happy. Ma Wanli was a painter of flowers and birds and had a high reputation in China, but he was destitute, and Jin Moyu took him in and made room for him to paint.
After getting married, their lives were sweet and happy.
Jin Moyu and Ma Wanli's happy life did not last long, two years later, in a cold winter, Jin Moyu was reported by someone. It turned out that someone accused her of being the sister of the great traitor Yoshiko Kawashima and participated in treason with her.
Although Jin Moyu had no relationship with the puppet Manchukuo, she was still involved because of this unusual relationship. In June 1964, the court sentenced Jin Moyu to 15 years in prison.
In order not to affect her husband, Jin Moyu took the initiative to request a divorce, but her husband refused. Subsequently, Jin Moyu received a divorce agreement from her husband, although she found out that the agreement was not written by her husband, she still signed the agreement willingly and endured all this alone.
Ma Wanli and his family took a photo with Jin Moyu, who was assigned to a farm in Tianjin in 1973 after being freed and became a farm worker. She goes out early and returns late every day, working hard.
She suffered from many diseases due to overwork, and in order to alleviate the physical pain, she developed the habit of smoking. However, smoking made her physical condition worse and worse.
One day in November 1975, Jin Moyu was holding a big shovel and laboriously digging the frozen soil under the apple tree, and blood flowed from the palm of his hand. At this time, a Shanghainese who spoke northern dialect intruded into her life, brought medicine and gauze, silently bandaged her bleeding palms, and gave her a small homemade shovel and a Japanese version of "People's China".
This person's name is Shi Youwei, he had been working as a water policeman in Shanghai before the liberation, and later came to work in the ** team, and was highly praised by the organization because of his superb planting skills.
Shi Youwei was attracted by Jin Moyu's personality and sincerity, so he launched a passionate pursuit of her. However, Jin Moyu is no longer the innocent little girl, she has a clear plan for the future.
In the face of Shi Youwei's pursuit, she frankly revealed her life experience and life situation to him: "We met here, maybe it was a kind of fate. But I must tell you that my sister was a traitor of Yoshiko Kawashima, and my father was a prince of the Qing Dynasty.
I was the oldest of the women working on the farm, and she smoked. I don't have a rich life now, I don't have any possessions. I would love to marry you if you want, but I wish we could live in a studio house instead of a dorm.
These are the facts I have to tell you. Jin Moyu's words made Shi Youwei appreciate her truthfulness and honesty even more. He held Jin Moyu's hand tightly and said to her firmly: "Although I don't have much money, I will definitely do my best to give you the best life."
I know where you come from, it's okay, I'll take good care of you. After a few days of contact and understanding, the elderly couple walked into the palace of marriage with everyone's warm blessings.
Soon after marriage, Shi Youwei was transferred to the teaching brigade as a duty officer, and the couple lived a quiet rural life, raised a few chickens and ducks, and enjoyed the dullness and happiness of life.
When Jin Moyu faced her husband, she couldn't help but think of her relatives. After Shi Youwei understood his wife's intentions, he took the initiative to propose: "Now that the sea ban has been relaxed, it is much easier to send letters overseas than before. ”
Following her husband's advice, Jin Moyu sent several letters to Hong Kong in a row, but received no response. Just as she was about to give up, a letter from Japan broke the deadlock.
The letter reads: "I have received your letter, and I am ...... sad and joyfulNow that I have settled in Japan, everything is fine. Jin Moyu thought that she would never be able to see her brother again in this life, but she didn't expect to receive a letter from him, she was so excited that she burst into tears and cried loudly.
Although he received help, Jin Moyu still selflessly contributed to Sino-Japanese friendship. In 1976, Jin Moyu followed her husband back to Shanghai to visit relatives.
However, due to the fatigue of the day, she fell ill during the trip and was taken to the hospital by her husband. After a doctor's diagnosis, she suffered from severe bone hyperplasia and osteomyelitis, and was no longer fit for manual labor.
According to Jin Moyu's actual condition, the farm handled her sick retirement. After retiring, Jin Moyu returned home to recuperate, but her monthly retirement salary was only 192 yuan, not even enough money for smoking, let alone maintaining daily life.
Faced with a difficult situation, Jin Moyu had to ask others for help, which was in stark contrast to her usual self-reliant character. One of her nieces and granddaughters in the United States has repeatedly begged her to stay in her home, but Jin Moyu resolutely refused, unwilling to cause trouble to the relatives around her.
Until 1979, Jin Moyu wrote a letter, and the recipient was Comrade ***, who was then Vice Chairman and Vice Premier. In the letter, Jin Moyu briefly introduced her background and experience, saying that due to her advanced age, she could not engage in physical labor, but she still had the ability to do mental work, and hoped to find a suitable job.
Although she considered raising the issue of rehabilitation, she ultimately decided not to raise it.
**After receiving the letter, the comrade attached great importance to it and immediately sent someone to the farm to investigate the true situation of Jin Moyu. This investigation caused a huge repercussion on the farm, and people learned that Jin Moyu was actually the younger sister of Yoshiko Kawashima.
Soon after, she received a notice from the Beijing Municipal Policy Implementation Office and immediately borrowed money from people around her to take a bus to Beijing. After many twists and turns, she finally received a "notice of rehabilitation" from the Beijing Intermediate People's Court.
At the same time, ** according to the preferential treatment of the nobles of the Qing Dynasty, Jin Moyu was assigned to work in the Museum of Culture and History, and housing was allocated to her. Under the care of Comrade ***, Jin Moyu's life gradually improved.
After going through so many hardships, Jin Moyu can finally work with peace of mind in a stable position. But she was not satisfied with this, but decided to pursue her ideal and contribute to the school.
In her later years, Jin Moyu was well aware of the importance of education to the development of the country, and in her early years, she had the idea of establishing a Japanese language school to learn advanced Japanese science and technology. However, due to the chaos of war at the time, this idea had to be put on hold for the time being.
But timing is always reserved for those who are prepared, and as the situation gradually stabilizes, Jin Moyu decides to take action. She began to travel between China and Japan, doing everything she could to raise money.
Thanks to her efforts, the Japanese Language Class for Caring Children was officially established. Every Sunday afternoon, when she is in her seventies, she arrives at the school to not only manage the work, but also teach the children herself.
Sometimes, she also has to host friendly groups visiting China. Despite the sheer workload, she never complained. In 1994, at the invitation of Japanese non-governmental organizations, Jin Moyu led a group of students to visit Osaka, Kobe, Shizuoka and other places, and the trip lasted more than 20 days full of unforgettable memories.
Jin Moyu's apartment has set up a Japanese language class and has never received any remuneration. Despite the low fees and huge expenses, she soon found herself in trouble. In order to solve the financial problem, she traveled to Japan many times to carry out fundraising activities, and sometimes even gave lectures and calligraphy exhibitions in various places.
In order to cultivate more Sino-Japanese friendship envoys, she also planned to establish a caring youth training school and served as the principal herself. She constantly advocates among the students, hoping that they will contribute to the development of Sino-Japanese relations.
Even after suffering from severe spondylitis at the age of 90, Jin Moyu's lifestyle habits are still the same as those of avant-garde artistic youth. She usually goes to bed at six or seven o'clock in the morning and wakes up at two or three o'clock in the afternoon, full of energy, like a child.
Once, a reporter asked her the secret of her longevity, and she gently replied: "Tolerance". Jin Moyu, the last Qing Gege in Chinese history, died in Beijing on May 26, 2014 at the age of 96.
Jin Moyu: The Two Right Choices in My Life Jin Moyu in his later years once said: "The two most correct things I have done in my life are that I did not go to Hong Kong, and the second is that I have not framed anyone in prison." ”
Her noble character is reflected in her simplicity, generosity, and sincerity, and she is always able to help others when they need it most, as long as she can bring happiness to everyone, she is the noblest.
The last generation is optimistic and uses her life to explain: "We cannot choose our birth, but we can choose our path in life." ”