As the old saying goes, There are 4 empty in the family, and the children and grandchildren are poo

Mondo Three rural Updated on 2024-02-17

If a family wants to prosper and become wealthy, in addition to personal efforts and the struggle of family members, it also needs to understand residential feng shui, a good house can make family members live comfortably, life philosophy and living standards will also be improved, and everyone can better develop their careers.

There is an old folk saying: "There are four empty in the family, and the children and grandchildren are poor from generation to generation", how to understand it? What are the "four emptiness"? Do the layout and furnishings of the home really have an impact on the well-being of family members? After reading it, I realized that it made sense.

1. Residential Feng Shui.

For the ancients, residential feng shui has always been highly valued, after all, the house is related to the rise and fall of a family, and most of the life of family members is spent in the house, and the environment of the house itself also affects the blessings and disasters of the family members.

In fact, as early as ancient times, the natural environment was very harsh, and people could only choose places to live, but everyone would choose to live in a place "near the water and facing the sun". Later, people summed up a lot of experience in the long-term living practice, such as sheltering from wind and rain, rising sun, fire prevention, near water, and good luck.

Guo Pu of the Jin Dynasty was the first to put forward the theory of "the burial person, take advantage of the vitality", and the study of public opinion was widely circulated among the people, and people began to pursue a good living environment, in order to hope that future generations can be prosperous and wealthy.

Judging the quality of a house is not only from the location and design, but also from the layout of the living room, bedroom, study, etc.

It's just that modern people are very busy at work, and they rarely consider the layout of their homes, and when they move to a new home, their luggage is placed at will, which makes it difficult to make the home chaotic and difficult to order.

In fact, the ancients have long had a saying that "the family is empty, and the children and grandchildren are poor from generation to generation", and many people may wonder if they are lazy and affect the fortune of their families?

However, "if you believe it, you will have it, and if you don't believe it, you will not have it", and the interior layout should follow the arrangement of the older generation, so that everything can go smoothly and be auspicious.

2. Which "four are not empty" at home?

1. "The kitchen is not empty".

In traditional Chinese culture, the day of the new year needs to be sacrificed, and every family will stick the "stove king" in the kitchen, and the reason for the sacrifice stove is enough to show the importance of the ancients to the kitchen.

In the opinion of the ancients, the more fireworks a family has, the more it can not only satisfy the taste buds of the entire family member, but also make the family harmonious and more harmonious.

For the ancients, food and clothing were the goal of a lifetime, and the kitchen was full of natural fireworks and fireworks; If the kitchen is empty, it means that the family is poor and can't even afford pots and pans, but it can also reflect that the family is lazy, does not work hard, and cannot even prepare kitchen equipment.

Therefore, the ancients judged the wealth or happiness of a family, which can be seen from the kitchen utensils. Even today, people's pursuit of food has not changed, and when you buy a new home, everyone will be the first to buy kitchen utensils, put the whole kitchen in order, and cook food with dexterous hands.

It's just that many young people are reluctant to cook, and when they are hungry, they eat fast food or order takeout, which makes eating a coping without any sense of happiness about food.

On the contrary, if pots and pans are readily available, delicious ingredients can be cooked, the family can eat and chat happily, and the family will be united.

It can be seen that it is a good thing that the kitchen at home is not empty, which can make a family full of temperature and laughter. Therefore, it is recommended that everyone must cook by themselves and arrange the kitchen utensils so that the whole home will be lively.

Of course, there are also some old people nowadays, who have the habit of stockpiling food, just to make the kitchen full of food, so that the rice bowl and noodle bowl are not empty, in order to deal with special disasters.

2. "The study room can't be empty".

From ancient times to the present, Chinese people have attached great importance to education, advocating "living to learn from old age", and the ancients also used "everything is inferior only to read high" to encourage people to read more, only in this way can they change their fate and achieve class leaps.

As early as the Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties, the family of gate valves relied on the monopoly of knowledge to achieve hundreds of years of prosperity and prosperity. With the establishment of the imperial examination system, literati and writers hung beams and pierced strands, chiseled walls and borrowed light, in order to study more and gain fame.

For these literati, no matter how poor they are, even if they can't afford to eat, they must arrange a study room, organize the study in an orderly manner, and let themselves swim in the sea of books.

Nowadays, compulsory education has long been popularized, and it is no longer difficult to go to university, and rural students cherish the opportunity to study hard, strive to broaden their horizons in books, and realize the leap in life.

For a family, if you want future generations to prosper and be rich, the layout of the study is very important, if the room is empty, or is piled up with sundries, it proves that the family is an uneducated nouveau riche, no real talent, the spiritual level is very poor, and it is difficult for future generations to become talents.

If the family's study is full of books and adults read them every day, it will be a role model for the children and lead them to grow up healthier.

Children born in a study room with a large collection of books will unconsciously develop a good habit of reading, and can also absorb more knowledge from books, cultivate a broad world view, and the height of their future life will be higher.

Of course, you can also arrange relevant books according to the children's interests. If your child likes astronomy and popular science, you can buy more astronomy and popular science books; If your child loves literature, you can buy more famous books.

The study layout does not need to be too complicated, as long as there are enough books and good lighting, a simple desk can allow children to calm down and study and enjoy the fun of reading.

3. "The yard can't be empty".

For rural people, the courtyard is the most basic configuration of a family, and basically every family has a very spacious yard. For the wealthy, when they buy a house, they will also buy a villa with a courtyard to create an idyllic scenery and enjoy the fresh air every day.

The courtyard is large, but if you use it, it will not look empty.

For rural families, the most common things in the courtyard are agricultural equipment, grain depots, vehicles, and some people can raise poultry. On one side of the courtyard, there is also a small garden where you can plant plants and flowers, as well as fruit trees such as pomegranate trees and persimmon trees, as well as vegetables such as onions and garlic.

With a simple arrangement, the courtyard can look orderly and elegant, and the idyllic scenery is fully visible, making it refreshing to live in this environment.

For city villas, the most common thing in the courtyard is a variety of flowers and vegetables, usually planted with flowers on one side and vegetables on the other, so that you can eat natural vegetables while enjoying the natural scenery.

If a family has an open courtyard with nothing but overgrown weeds, it is a sign that the homeowner is lazy. After all, these decorations don't cost much, as long as you are diligent, the courtyard can be lively and chic.

In families with empty courtyards, most of the homeowners have no money and do not want to struggle with their hands, and children who grow up in this environment will naturally inherit this laziness, and their children and grandchildren will be poor for generations.

4. "The living room can't be empty".

Whether it is a rural courtyard or an urban community, the living room is the most important place in the family, the façade of a home, and the main place for everyone to socialize and live in daily life.

In ancient China, the living room was known as "guest hall", "hall house", "hall hall" and other nicknames, which was an important place to meet friends and the place with the largest home space. It is even mentioned in the Book of Jin that in addition to entertaining guests, the living room is also a place to worship ancestors.

When relatives and friends come to get together, they will naturally wait in the living room, and rarely walk into other people's bedrooms at will, so the layout of the living room is very important.

If it's empty, with sofas, TVs, tables and chairs, it means that the family is deserted and guests don't want to stay longer.

In this case, it means that the family conditions are not very good, and they are so poor that they can't even open the pot, so they naturally can't afford to buy furniture. And hard work to get rich, this family is probably lazy.

For children and grandchildren, living in this kind of family, the quality of life will naturally be greatly reduced, there will be no sense of happiness, and the child will become withdrawn, inferior, unwilling to communicate with others, and it will be difficult to become a talent when he grows up.

If you want to make family members happy and united, you must arrange the living room, purchase coffee tables, sofas, TVs and other facilities, so that family and friends can gather together and have a place to sit.

A living room is high-end, beautifully decorated, clean and tidy, and the guests will be very comfortable when they come, which will invisibly close the relationship with the owner, and the fate and fortune of each other will also be closely linked.

It can be seen that whether it is from the perspective of children or from interpersonal contacts, the living room at home must not be sloppy, and must be neat and warm, so that people can feel the enthusiasm of the owner.

In the eyes of the ancients, as long as the living room is properly arranged, the future generations will be able to prosper, and the fortune will not be too bad.

In general, the living room, study, kitchen, and yard cannot be empty, the more empty the wealth and fortune are far away, the more others look down on them, and it is difficult for future generations to become talented in this environment.

As long as everyone is diligent, meticulous, and rich with their own hands, then they can one day get rid of poverty and the family will be richer, what do you think?

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