In response to this problem, we will proceed from the following eight aspects**. 1. Be empathetic and helpfulIn today's society, face-to-face communication between people is becoming less and less, but our hearts still crave to be understood, concerned and recognized. This desire has not decreased, but has increased. In addition, we no longer easily receive attention and help from others, so people with good qualities or attitudes are more willing to help others. It is important to emphasize that gaining recognition by helping others is not really helpful, but true helpfulness is feeling happy and fulfilled in the process of helping others. 2. Willing to share, good at sharing, people crave sincere exchanges. We often think that we need to make friends that are good for us, but the first thing to focus on is whether the other person is a threat to us. If the other person is not threatening and will not hurt us, we will include it in our psychological space. Sincere people have a strong sense of security and are willing to share their thoughts and happiness, and this kind of person who has both the willingness and ability to share is often welcomed in the crowd. "It is better to be happy alone than to be happy in all"That's it. 3. InterestingIn the past, people made friends mostly out of utilitarian psychology, but now, people are more and more pursuing happiness and happiness, especially in a multicultural society, more and more pragmatism is eliminated. Whether looking for a friend or a lover, one factor is considered: whether the person is interesting or not. Interesting people are good at exploring and innovating, and can bring us unexpected psychological experiences. Fourth, people with positive thoughts, positive energy, a good mental state, pure thoughts, and a positive attitude often seem carefree, and they do not have negative energy when communicating with others. When others are unhappy, they tend to become hopeful and positive after communicating with them. Such people are more likely to be liked by others.
5. Good appearance and imageWe don't like people who are sloppy, don't like cleanliness, and have obscene manners, on the contrary, we like people who are neat and simple in appearance and have a pleasing temperament. 6. Be assertive and be able to live in harmony with othersWe don't like people who are indecisive and go with the flow, but prefer people who are assertive and have boundaries. Even if they reject us, we feel respected. Because they express their opinions sincerely and do not perfunctory. They accept the existence of others, do not try to change them, and allow others to remain the way they are. 7. Praise and appreciate the popularity of othersNo matter what you see, you can find praise. If you dress up nicely, they will genuinely compliment you. It's not a routine, it's a sincere appreciation of others in their hearts. Such a person can be at ease with his or her surroundings and praise others wherever he is. People crave sunshine and crave to be praised, and as a result, people who are used to complimenting others usually have good relationships. 8. HumorIn interpersonal communication or daily life, we may encounter embarrassing situations and scenes that we cannot cope with. If you have a humorous friend by your side, you will find that humor is the ability to defuse embarrassing, bad information. Humor is an important trait, and people tend to like people who have a sense of humor. Humor is the ability to reconcile with fate with a smile and resolve contradictions, and it is a very important psychological quality. To sum up, people who possess these eight traits are bound to have very good interpersonal relationships.