Hello everyone, I'm Mu Muxue! I used to be a sensitive girl who was particularly susceptible to outside influences. Listen to your parents at home, and be honest outside, and don't dare to do anything beyond the norm. Such a character seems to be "all-encompassing", but it not only makes me unable to do anything, but also makes me live a hard and twisted life. It was in the last few years that I really started to change! As I got older, I realized the importance of being myself. There are too many voices from the outside world, too noisy, but the one who can really take responsibility for our own lives is ourselves. We don't have to be recognized by others, as long as we raise our heads and be ourselves, the people we like will naturally be attracted to us, and the people we don't like will not be bothered. Therefore, it is recommended that girls immerse themselves in being themselves, be the protagonist of their own lives, and love themselves well. When we immerse ourselves in being ourselves, we feel fulfilled and happy from within.
Calm yourself down and be brave enough to take the first step; There will always be a variety of voices in life, some encouraging us to move forward, some hindering our growth.
But no matter what, we have to learn to calm ourselves down, to listen to our inner voice, and to find our own direction. Don't be afraid of failure, don't be afraid of being ridiculed, and be brave enough to take the first step. Only by truly trying and experiencing can we find our own value and meaning. Just like Anthony. Robin said:
"Because I was afraid, I had to act immediately and run in the direction I wanted. ”Only when we really take the first step can we move towards the future we want. I've only started to concentrate on self-writing in the last year or two, and I used to want to do it, but I never had the courage to start.
Watching others get better and better at the field of writing, I realized that if I were just watching forever, I would still be the same after a year, and I didn't improve. Realizing this, I started writing with what I loved. From the beginning of writing a thousand words difficult, now can easily write two or three thousand words, the text is recognized by many readers. The key step in this is to be brave enough to take the first step
Find your own rhythm, immerse yourself in yourself, and don't look around; The book "Flow" says:
"Happiness comes from our inner order. ”When we find our rhythm and immerse ourselves in it, our hearts become calmer and more orderly. We will find ourselves better able to take control of our emotions and thoughts, which will lead to better coping with life's challenges and difficulties. Everyone has their own rhythm and way of life, and we should not be swayed by the pace of others. To find your own rhythm, be yourself immersively, and not look around. When our mind is fully immersed in doing something, we enter a state of flow, which brings out the infinite potential in our body, and we become extremely efficient in doing things. I know this very well! When I put my heart and soul into writing, writing becomes easy and efficient. I feel a sense of fullness in my heart, and I will also get a sense of growth and joy from it. Therefore, it is recommended that girls should find their own rhythm and immerse themselves in themselves, so that they can truly develop their potential and talents and take responsibility for their own lives.
Steady the pace, keep your original intention, and accumulate steadily; In the pursuit of our dreams, we may encounter all kinds of ** and distractions. At this time, we must remain calm and firm, steady our pace, and keep our original intention. Don't give up on your goals and beliefs because of a momentary **. When I first started writing, I didn't make much money at all, and I basically wrote secretly because I was afraid that I would be told that I was not doing my job. But I never gave up my love of writing, and although my progress was slow, I still persevered. I also firmly believe that my self-motivated heart will not be disappointed. Although I am very clumsy, in the "tortoise and rabbit race", maybe it will be me, the "tortoise", who makes slow progress, to make it to the end. The key is in the process of moving forward, our rhythm should not be chaotic, the pace should not stop, step by step forward, and we can always reach the end we want. 
Be confident in adversity and redouble your efforts in good times; Life is not always easy, and we will always encounter adversity and challenges. But it is these adversities and challenges that make us stronger and more confident. Luo Yonghao once said something that touched me very much:
"Even if you are at the bottom, your heart must remain bright, Nietzsche famously said'What doesn't defeat me will make me stronger.'" ”In the face of adversity, we must be confident that we can overcome all difficulties. In good times, we should redouble our efforts and constantly pursue higher goals and achievements.
I found that doing self-**** is to find the right method, and the rest is to keep sticking to the process of output. Mentality is very important, and it is the norm to do the ups and downs of self-income. If we give up at the trough, we won't be able to meet the peak. The same is true of life, so when we are in adversity, we must be confident, we must have a sense of faith, and we must believe that we will be able to get through it. In good times, we must learn to take advantage of the situation, follow the trend, and redouble our efforts in order to have more gains.
Don't be defined, live the way you want to be. In the past, I always liked to live in the expectations of others, but I neglected to think the most true thoughts in my heart. The result of this is that even if you can't do what others look like, you can't do yourself well. In fact, everyone has their own personality and characteristics, and the expectations of others are just the expectations of others, and they do not know themselves best. Only we know best. So don't be bound by other people's expectations, don't be defined by others. Be brave and be yourself, strive to pursue your dreams, and live the way you want. Only in this way can we truly realize our own value and make our lives more meaningful and beautiful. The last thing I want to say is:Every girl should be immersed in being herself! Don't be swayed by the voices of the outside world, and don't be influenced by other people's evaluations. Be brave enough to pursue your dreams and goals, and be determined to move towards the future you want. When we truly do this, we will find ourselves becoming more fulfilled and happy inside. May we all be able to live as we like in our own hearts according to our own inner thoughts! All of the above!
It's not easy to code words, if you feel that the content inspires you, I hope you can spend 01 second to like, your affirmation will always be the power of my continuous output, thank you!
Author: Mu Muxue, a self-leading writer who focuses on personal growth and is working hard to be free, may we become a better version of ourselves through hard work and live the life we yearn for.