The helplessness and struggle of life at the bottom: Why do people at the bottom like to embarrass each other?
In our competitive and challenging world, those at the bottom are always at a disadvantage. They may not have much money, they may lack cultural literacy, or they may not have enjoyed the delicious food of the table, but they have a tenacious will to survive and a special wisdom of survival. At the bottom, it seems to be an inevitable phenomenon to be embarrassed by each other, and it is no exaggeration to say that the more people at the bottom, the more they like to embarrass each other.
Imagine a crowded and cramped urban village inhabited by a group of people who have been cornered by life. They may only be separated by a thin wall, but they form a seemingly insoluble contradiction and opposition to each other. The children of Xiao Ming's family were admitted to college, which attracted the jealousy and bad words of the neighbors; Xiaohong's daughter-in-law gave birth to a son, which attracted nagging and accusations from her mother-in-law. In this low-level society, although everyone is struggling, they often can't get rid of their inner anxiety and fear, so they use mutual embarrassment as a release and catharsis.
As the great writer William Shakespeare said, "Anger is born of self-defence, and revenge is born of vanity." "In the bottom society, people may not choose to embarrass each other out of malice, but out of some complex psychological state. They may feel that life is unfair, they may yearn for the approval of others, or they may just be impulsive and helpless. Whatever the reason, embarrassment has become a behavior pattern that is difficult to eliminate among the people at the bottom, even if it hurts others, or even yourself, it is still difficult to change.
We can't simply categorize all people at the bottom as "people who like to embarrass each other". In this huge social class, there are also many people at the bottom, who are silently dedicated, obey the law, work hard, do not hurt others, do not add more burdens to themselves. They may not enjoy much respect and love, but they have proved their existence and value with their resolute personality and down-to-earth actions. "Anyone's demeanor should reflect the full depth of his heart. "Among the people at the bottom, there are also some people who are full of kindness and positive energy in their hearts, and they may be alone in an environment where they are embarrassed by each other, but they will never go with the flow and give up their bottom line and principles.
Perhaps, to change the phenomenon that "the more people at the bottom, the more they like to embarrass each other", we need more attention and understanding, more tolerance and support, and more positive guidance and help. The underprivileged are also part of society, and they should also enjoy dignity and equal rights, and should be understood and accepted. Only through joint efforts and the care of society can we reduce the phenomenon of mutual difficulties and realize a more harmonious and beautiful society.
The greatest happiness in life is to do what you love and then find the value of life. "No matter what kind of environment and circumstance we are in, we should insist on being a positive, kind and responsible person, and take practical actions to change ourselves and the world around us, so that those phenomena that are difficult for each other will gradually fade, and our society will be more harmonious and beautiful.
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