There are some things that we may not be able to control no matter how hard we work and how hard we try. Just like when we were children, we always wanted to reach the stars in the sky, but no matter how high we jumped or how long our arms were, those stars twinkling in the distance were still so far away.
I remember one time when my friends and I went hiking, and when we were halfway up the mountain, it suddenly started to rain heavily. We were all drenched and our clothes and shoes were covered in mud. Some of my friends were hesitant, some were moaning in pain, but I felt a strange sense of relief and relief in myself. Maybe it was because I realized that the rain was not something I could control, and I had to try my best to adapt and endure it. And in the end, we finally survived the storm and saw a beautiful rainbow.
As long as you don't really face it, the fear is always endless. "There are some things that we can't control, but we can reduce anxiety and pain by accepting and adapting. It's like that storm, we can't stop it, but we can choose to stay calm and wait for it to pass.
Sometimes, we encounter some interpersonal problems, such as conflicts with relatives and friends, or friction with colleagues. Everyone has their own personality and ideas, and sometimes different positions and conflicts of interest can cause seemingly irreconcilable contradictions. Once, my good friend and I had an unpleasant quarrel over a trivial matter, which was supposed to be a little misunderstanding, but it turned out to be more and more serious, and we both felt that we had been wronged, and we both thought that the other party was unreasonable. Later, I figured out that in fact, such a quarrel did not make any sense, and I decided to take the initiative to put down my face, meet her honestly, and communicate well. Sure enough, she thought the same thing, and we quickly reconciled.
The first task in life is to recognize yourself. Recognize your strengths and weaknesses, understand your values and bottom line, and trust your choices and judgments. "Sometimes, we can't control the actions and thoughts of others, but we can control our emotions and attitudes, learn to accept the differences of others, and give respect and understanding.
Speaking of which, I can't help but think of the lyrics of the song "Leaving Home": "Walking through the hills, crossing the grassland, not looking back, not regretting, the tears dried by the wind, time wiping away the pain." "Sometimes, we have to let go of things that make us sad and sad, let go of those uncontrollable troubles, and let our hearts get a moment of peace and relief.
I believe that the most important thing in life is not to be able to control everything, but to learn to let go and accept what is beyond our power. Because only by being relieved can we have inner peace, face the ups and downs and changes in life, and not be burdened by troubles and difficulties.
The greatest foolishness in life is to escape and resist. Whether it is joy or pain, we should accept it with a peaceful mind and look at it with a wise eye. "It touched me deeply and made me understand the importance of letting go and being relieved. On the road of life, we will encounter many things that we cannot control, but as long as we learn to let go, learn to accept, and learn to let go, we can walk more firmly and more calmly.
Let go of the shackles and let go of the heart, in order to understand the open-mindedness and beauty of life. "I hope everyone can learn to let go when facing things that are beyond their reach; When you encounter something you can't control, learn to let go. In this way, our life will be more exciting, richer and happier!
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