Let me tell you an amazing truth: Have you ever thought that a person who is hard-working and hard-working, has studied hard since he was a child, was admitted to university, worked hard and worked hard again, did not touch cigarettes, did not drink, did not touch drugs, commuted to and from work every day, had no criminal record, had a sweet dream for eight hours a day, and his usual hobby was to play games and wander around, isn't this a standard good boy?
But why is it that such a good boy may not live a happy life at all, or even be very miserable?
On the other hand, who told you that you can have a good life by following the above life trajectory?
Actually, you don't have to be yourself, you're just a patchwork of indoctrinated ideas.
First of all, there are only a few people in this world who have money and live well.
Secondly, most ordinary people go to work honestly, study honestly, and live according to social rules, but the result is not happy.
This means that those who can earn money and move up the ranks must do what most people dare not do in order to be among the few who succeed.
Before Didi, they were all black cars; ** Just started, e-commerce is playing tax evasion; Pinduoduo appeared, a large number of cheap and inferior goods; At first, those who speculated in real estate frantically increased leverage to support loans; All kinds of medical cosmetology without qualifications make a lot of money.
Look at yourself.
From childhood to adulthood, he was honest, step-by-step, studied hard, worked overtime, pursued four beauties and five beauties, and became a good boy.
If you follow these rules, you'll always look up to those people.
So initially, who instilled these set life patterns in you? And then you take it as a guide.
Is it your parents? Teacher? Or a whole lot of news**.
It's like being in Inception and making you think it's your own thoughts.
Once you identify something, your thinking starts to be narrow.
Most of us can only be exploited by one level and go on alone with our own prejudices.
This is the truth of this world.
1. The class barriers in society are more difficult to break down than you think.
When I was studying, my parents and teachers always said that as long as I studied hard, it was enough, and my future was bright if I got good grades.
In fact, studying well is only a small part of life. You may have known about the gap between the rich and the poor when you were a student, but it is not until you enter the society that you will find that you may not be able to catch up with the things that others get when they graduate, such as a house of one million dollars and a car of 300,000 yuan.
These two things seem ordinary, but you must know that if you earn 10,000 yuan a month, after deducting living expenses, you may not be able to save these for 20 years.
Not to mention the fact that there is a monthly income of 10,000, it is a miracle.
Second, the people at the bottom have a common characteristic.
It's that if you don't work for three days, you feel uncomfortable, guilty and ashamed. I can't afford to spend a dime. They don't know that it is this notion that keeps them at the bottom of society forever.
Your notions have been distorted, but you know nothing!
There is no poor person in this world who does not want to change his fate, but the poor are confused by the rich and lose their courage.
The world is balanced, a poor person ashore, it means that a rich man goes to the sea, you want to compete for other people's positions, naturally you have to face all kinds of obstacles and noise, this is a cognitive barrier that is more terrible than resource barriers, in the end these rich people will pretend to comfort you, everyone has their own fate, accept your fate.
Diligence and prosperity, honesty and trustworthiness, benevolence, righteousness and morality can only be our coordinate reference, and it is by no means the only law we walk in this world.
3. The house is just a means.
Many people think that the source of life pain is the house, but the house is only a means, not an end.
The fundamental reason is that society is not developed enough, material wealth is not enough, and it is the exploitation of one class by another.
Even if you don't have a house, there will still be other things that will make you miserable.
When resources are limited, a zero-sum game, when someone wants more and lives more easily, there is bound to be the exploitation of another class.
Take an inappropriate example, you want to lie down, and someone gives you a massage every day, and a meal is delivered.
Then there must be someone who will give you a massage and deliver meals every day.
If you lie down, he cannot lie down; If he is lying, you cannot lie down.
If he serves you, you don't have to pay a penny, you can get him out if you want him, you can come if you want him to come, this is a slave society.
Slavery did not come with the development of productive forces, but with the development of violence and control.
Later, you raised him, paid the cost of three meals a day, and made him obey you through etiquette education, which reduced your management costs, which is feudal society.
Further, you don't have food and shelter, you give him a sum of money every month, barely enough to survive, just enough to survive, and then serve you every day, I wish to serve you 25 hours a day, and squeeze all the value of his time, this is capitalism.
The example is simple, and that's probably what it means.
The landlords collect rent, the capitalists get profits, and the robbers plunder.
The exploitation of one class by another must be a plunder, and when the cost of plunder is too high, it turns into direct violence.
So, when there is still room for the cake to grow, the cost of exploitation is low, and everything is leisurely and gentle.
However, when the cake can't be made and the cost of exploitation is high, the eating appearance begins to become particularly ugly.
What has happened in the past few years should be deeply felt by everyone.
House? It's just a means, a relatively easy thing to use.
Fourth, this society is now a time of great turmoil.
An interesting phenomenon:
The poorest Africa doesn't work overtime, and the richest Europe doesn't work overtime, but our gang of people have been running around desperately for three lifetimes, and we have to work overtime all the time, is it because we work so much overtime and produce global goods, so they don't have to work overtime?
Therefore, China has to work overtime all the time in the world's fastest place, and it seems that everyone has shared the benefits of development, that is, our people, who have the fastest development rate, have become the bottom of the population!
What causes this?
Maybe it's because we don't want to be like Africa, because we're not at the level of lying flat like in Europe and the United States.
In order to make our baby as lazy as foreigners in the future, we have to work overtime to catch up now. Let's hope so!
The top ** is taking ruthless measures to cure the root cause of the disease and clean up the source.
The middle-level bigwigs, especially the Internet bosses, took the lead in sabotage.
The small bosses below, represented by industry, are fighting hard for survival.
The people at the bottom have basically been fooled by the middle-level bigwigs, and the pursuit of consumption, materialism, and pleasure has become fashionable.
Fifth, when people are at their poorest, they are the least worthless.
Your time, your whole being, is so worthless. But this is your best chance to work hard and do something.
How much human time is worth, can be calculated.
For example, if you earn 3,000 a month, divide it by 30, divide it by 24, and finally calculate 4 yuan an hour.
If you earn 30,000 a month, it's a 400 yuan an hour.
If you earn 3 million a month, it becomes a 40,000 yuan an hour.
The more awesome the person, the higher the cost of his work, because the unit price of his time is so high.
The time cost is high, and it is easy to get bogged down. I used to be poor and white, I could stay up all night thinking about a trivial matter, and I didn't bother to watch anything when I was rich.
So, when people are the most and least valuable, they are the most motivated.
You can spend months studying and researching something without any delay. Use a few years to hone your own core competitiveness.
Anyway, *** is worthless, and it doesn't matter if it's wasted or wasted. Fight!
When people are least valuable, your social interactions and connections are useless. The people who deal with you are just as cowardly, wasteful, and cowardly as you. The boss who takes care of you is unorganized, make some money today, and don't know where the will be tomorrow.
What is the psychological burden? What if you are offended, what if you are ridiculed? What can they do to you? At most, a few words of blind bb behind your back, arrange you.
Say, it's a sloppy and hopeless goods, and they don't have any hobbies except to chew the root of their tongue behind their backs, so you let them vent that pitiful interest.
It's all old and dead goods, and you don't need to care at all.
As for the 30-year-old crisis, the 40-year-old crisis or something, ** are already desperate, they are already desperate, and they are even like ashes, so depressed that they want to die. What's the difference between 30 and 40 years old?
To live, you need to be a little better than others. You only need to succeed once to be happy.
There's a bullshit barrel theory that says your life depends on the shortest plank. It's pure fart.
Your life depends on what you are best at, definitely not the worst.
Industrialization, urbanization, human survival has reached the limit, you compare with others the shortest, compared to to death, can not compare to others.
Others are smarter than you, mathematics, physics, chemistry, and logical thinking skills are first-class, **I can't even understand geometry, when will I be able to keep up?
If you're not good at something, don't play.
If you're not good at relationships, don't play with relationships.
If you don't have money, don't think about doing things that require money.
If you don't have resources, don't chase it.
If you don't have emotional intelligence, stop thinking about it.
You're cornered, you're like a dead dog, you're worthless, what the do you care? Nobody cares about you, nobody!
If you find a field that you are interested in and good at, you will already be a failure, and it doesn't matter how many times you fail.
In fact, the more incompetent the goods, the more they care about others, and the more awesome goods are, the less they care about other people's opinions.
Shi Yuzhu had three ups and downs, and when he was the most depressed, he had hundreds of millions of debts, and all the industry and netizens ridiculed him. He wanted to die, climb Mount Everest from morning to night, and climb until the oxygen tank ran out of oxygen.
In the end, he didn't die, and he went on TV to accept everyone's criticism. Even a doorman can accuse him of a few words of bad work.
You're not a celebrity, you're not a important thing, you just have to do it!
If you lose or mess up, you won't be able to succeed in this life, so you should find some awesome material for your later life.
I'm cowardly, I don't dare to try, I'm afraid of being tired, I'm afraid of being talked about, so I'm honestly a dead dog! Stop complaining!
Your life is like a dead dog, what else is there to care about?