Today's excerpt: "Hot and Hot" movie review.
The core of what Jia Ling wants to express in this movie is to love herself, and it is also very important to put her own feelings first.
1. Du Leying and her father talked about the problem of giving big and small apples.
My parents left me good things since I was a child, and I was more dedicated to helping others than working at home. In many cases, I also think about giving the Big Apple to someone else. When you invite friends to dinner and spend money, you are unceremonious, and you are reluctant to pick and search when you spend money for yourself. Taking care of others is very delicate, and you can get by yourself, whatever you want. Not caring about your own feelings and not knowing how to defend yourself, this may be something you need to experience in the process of growing up, and you will understand it when you think about it. Some of the things I did when I was young were not stupid, but because I was young, I valued many things more than myself, and gradually found that I was the one who should be valued the most, and then I began to think about how to love myself, how to take care of my feelings, and learn to defend myself. In this world, the person who accompanies him through various experiences and feelings is himself after all.
2. Grievances and seeking perfection cannot be exchanged for perfection. My sister wants a room, my best friend wants face, and the person I like wants someone not to give her identity, no matter what excessive demands others have, Du Leying is always aggrieved, bowing her head and clasping her hands, her eyes are blank, the corners of her mouth are slightly open, and her voice is like a mosquito humming. No one listened to her, and she didn't have the ability to express her true intentions. Playing boxing is the first true expression. It's nice to say how you feel.
3, Du Leying was dragged by Doudou to participate in the TV station, and suffered malicious editing and cyberbullying.
Kinship is really just one of the social relationships, and blood and affection do not add any magic to this relationship. The relationship of interests is the core of social relations, and Doudou and Du Leying's behavior of communicating on the show is proof of this. I still remember that the junior high school politics textbook said that the relationship between people is essentially an "exchange of interests". At that time, I didn't understand anything, but today, many years later, looking at my own interactions with other people's relatives, I instantly understood the words in the book. Profit-driven, that's all.