Some children are particularly outgoing and lively, with extraordinary language skills, and speak very fluently, without stuttering or shyness. Some children are more introverted, do not like to talk, and often do not reach the meaning of words when they speak.
Children with good expression skills are easy to become a small opinion leader in the class, everyone likes to play with him, and the teacher also likes to let him convey the child's opinions, and they will become more and more confident.
Children with "stupid mouths" are prone to fall into a series of adverse chain reactions, easily lose the opportunity to perform, and cannot truly express their thoughts and needs; Once a misunderstanding occurs, the child cannot explain clearly, and it is easy to be wronged and misunderstood, which hits the child's self-confidence and ......
1. Children can't speak because parents don't "listen".
In fact, we sometimes ignore one point, that is, as parents, do we really listen carefully to what our children have to say? Does our scolding really work for children? We always think that if we scold our children, we will definitely make them listen, but imagine if someone scolds us, what are the chances that we will listen?
If there was someone who kept chattering in our ears every day, wouldn't we be annoyed? Of course, we're all annoyed, and most of the time we don't listen. Think about it from another angle, have we really listened carefully to the children's listening? This is not the case. Often, we don't listen to our children, and over time they don't want to express their thoughts.
When we understand the contradictions between each other, then as parents, we must first correct our own faults. When children talk to themselves, we must not respond to them with impatience. A good policy can effectively alleviate the conflict between parents and children.
2. Parents do not give their children the opportunity to express themselves
In fact, many parents don't know that it is very important to give their children the opportunity to express their emotions. Especially when the child has a bad mood, it should be vented in time, if the parents always deprive the child of the opportunity to express his emotions in this way. Then gradually the child will become poor at words, and his personality will be inferior. Therefore, it is not easy to educate children, in daily life, parents also need to pay more attention to their children, if they feel that the child's state is abnormal, they should communicate with the child in time to understand the child's thoughts at the time, and guide the child to vent their emotions. This is not only conducive to the physical and mental development of children, but also helps children develop a cheerful and lively personality. So parents can also ask their children why they are happy. So why upset? Communicating with him is also an opportunity for your child to express his emotions. Therefore, if parents can pay more attention to the changes in their children's emotions, give their children the opportunity to express their emotions, and encourage their children to communicate more than their parents. Then the child's self-confidence will be cultivated.
3. Parents are excessively harsh on their children's words and deeds
Physical punishment can hurt a child's mental health. Parents scold their children at every turn, and it is also possible to cause psychological damage to their children in later years, and children are prone to make mistakes and often make the same mistakes.
Parents' criticism and education are necessary, but they should pay attention to methods and methods, and never be too harsh on their children, let alone say some harsh words to their children. Because harshly criticizing children will only hurt the child's psychology, increase their psychological pressure, and even affect the normal development and growth of the child.
Patricia Kuhl, an expert in children's language development, has shown that the age of 0 3 is the period of language preparation for children, and the age of 3 7 is the first period of language development. Therefore, parents should seize this period to help their children do a good job of language enlightenment.
You can communicate with your child in daily interactions
You can combine the scene and the action well to create a good language environment, so that the child will eventually understand and remember some things by constantly guiding day after day;
Read with your child
Nothing is more important to children than short stories, because the child is a guest of this world, and the world is a world that knows nothing about him. Social experience has confirmed that short stories play an important role in the description of children's cognitive ability, attention, memory ability, thinking logic, imagination and other psychological activities, and for the creation of children's humanized qualities. In addition, short stories are also the "children's growth hormone" of children's language development, which is easier for children to grasp and accept.
It is highly recommended for mothers to choose"Language Expression Training for Children and Adolescents".This set of picture books is technically customized for babies aged 0-3 years old. The behaviour of linguistic expertise is very conforming to the child's developmental tendencies.
Start with simple onomatopoeia slowly, so that children can learn to pronounce well. After mastering the pronunciation, let the child learn to express the more difficult words. Then, from words, words, sentences, and conversational expressions, the children's language professional ability is slowly refined. In order to better enable children to quickly grasp the pronunciation and rhyme of words and sentences, Tong Yao was also added.
In order to better assist children's pronunciation, there will be relevant illustrations**, pages are closely related to words and sentences, and children are easier to learn to express accurately; The narration of words and sentences will also be expressed in short stories, which will improve children's personal hobby of learning words. Interactive photos are also of great benefit to the growth and development of children's visual identity system.
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