Hello dear female friends! Today I would like to talk to you about a very important topic - how to control desire. I know this topic may make you a little shy, but trust me, it's a question that is well worth going into the depths.
First of all, I would like to say that at a certain age, we will undergo some changes both physically and mentally. These changes may make our desires stronger, but you have to learn to control them. Why? Because, if we can't control our desires, then we may be controlled by those desires and lose ourselves.
So, how to control.
What about desires? I think, first of all, that we need to be clear about our goals. At a certain age, our time is limited, and we can't waste precious time on people and meaningless things that we can't control. We need to be clear about our goals, know what we want, and then go all out to pursue them.
Second, we need to learn to enjoy solitude. Loneliness is not scary, it gives us time to think, to reflect, to understand ourselves. Only by knowing ourselves can we better control our desires.
Again, we need to learn to love ourselves. Loving oneself is not selfishness, but self-preservation. Only by loving ourselves can we better protect ourselves from being hurt by our desires.
Finally, we have to learn to choose the right person. Fitting is more important than liking. We can't just look at the surface, we have to see if this person is really suitable for us and whether it can bring us happiness.
In general, at a certain age, we have to learn to control our desires, to be clear about our goals, to learn to enjoy solitude, to learn to love ourselves, and to learn to choose the right person. Only in this way can we truly take control of our own lives and truly realize our own values.
I know that the process can be difficult and there may be a lot of setbacks, but trust me, as long as we have determination and perseverance, we will be able to succeed. So, dear female friends, let's work together! Let's learn to control our desires together, and let's take charge of our lives together!
The above are my views and suggestions on this issue as a senior emotional expert. I hope my advice will be helpful to you. If you have any questions or confusion, you can always come and chat with me. I will do my best to help you. Remember, no matter where and whenever you are, believe in yourself and believe that you have the power to take control of your life. Come on!