Don't think that you need to spend a lot of money to determine a relationship, like the kind that has already spent a lot of money in the blind date stage, but there are many people. However, some situations are destined to have no good results, so there is no need to spend this money.
The meaning of the girl's words in the blind date, the boy must understand, so that he can stop the loss in time!
In the girl's mouth, the so-called lack of eyes actually means that the other party is not handsome enough, and the conditions do not make her particularly attractive, simply put, this boy can't make her fall in love at first sight.
It's not just that men pay more attention to their appearance when chasing girls, in fact, many girls will also care about the appearance of boys, and everyone has a love for beauty. If a girl says that she doesn't have eyes, then basically we don't need to chase anymore.
Because if we continue to lick our faces and chase down, there is a high probability that there will be no good results, after all, even if we chase very hard, we can't change our height and appearance, and we can't change our own conditions, even if we temporarily move the other party, that's not what people want in the end.
There is no one who rules at what point in time a person must take a bath, especially young people nowadays, some of them watch dramas and play games there after dinner, and then take a shower in the middle of the night.
If a girl suddenly tells you that I'm going to take a shower, I'm going to sleep, I'm going to wash the dishes, I'm going to do the laundry, or what I'm going to do, and so on, it's just an excuse and I don't want to talk to you.
If she is really interested, she will continue to talk to you, she will never make these excuses, and she can even put down the things at hand and continue to talk to you. Of course, you can also do these things while chatting, but the reply will not be so fast.
But it's not always like finding an excuse, if you really find an excuse, it already means that she doesn't want to talk to you for the time being.
In the past, everyone chased girls, and the general flattery was the dead skin, and the cheeky chase, but now kneeling and licking love, to be a licking dog basically will not end well, so the other party is interesting to us, we will chase again, if the other party is not interesting to us at all, we just go to be a spare tire, as a free long-term meal ticket, there is no point at all.
In addition, in this era, especially young people, they basically keep their mobile phones with them, even if they are busy, they will basically occasionally look at their mobile phones, and an ordinary girl in her twenties and thirties is simply not so busy that she doesn't even have time to look at her mobile phone.
So if you don't reply to a message for half a day, or you don't reply to a message several times, you can basically delete and block it, because people aren't interested in you at all.
We are marrying a daughter-in-law, not buying a daughter-in-law, marriage is not a deal, if you want a bride price, if you are not willing to compromise at all, then the other party is basically going to the material, and there will not even be much true affection, if there is a little love, more or less will compromise.
Look at the divorced people around me nowadays, the divorce rate is so high, and the daughter-in-law who spends so much money to marry, sometimes it is really unnecessary, because the law can protect marriage, but he can't protect love.
There are people around me who are like this, when they first married their wives, they borrowed a lot of money, but they divorced not long after they got married, and what is even more disturbing is that the marriage has already been divorced, but the money borrowed for marriage has not been repaid.
This is really a good hand of cards, married for the sake of marriage, and in the end, not only is the daughter-in-law gone, but also a lot of debt.
In fact, it's just to find a more vocal reason for their worship of money, many men feel that this sentence is not right, so they run to argue with their objects, but what I want to say is that there is no reason to talk about women at all, because many women are not reasonable at all, plus some women's mouths are really powerful, and they are more able to speak, and sometimes we can't talk about people at all.
If you have to take the bride price as an attitude, then you have to think clearly about whether you want the bride price or not, whether you can afford it, if you don't want a lot of it, or if you can afford it, you don't have to worry so much, just give it to her.
But if you want a lot, it is far beyond the ability of your family, I advise you to stop the loss in time, like this kind of woman who goes to the material, if the married life is not satisfactory, it is easy to get divorced, and it is even less cost-effective to get married and divorced.