What are you? Parents in the group to reply to the teacher caused controversy, it is the homework to cause the blame
With the continuous development of the Internet age, parents and teachers today usually create a parent group in order to stay in touch more closely. In this group, everyone can communicate directly and solve problems.
The original intention of the parent group was to better help students solve problems, teachers will assign homework and communicate school notices in the group, and parents can ask teachers unclear questions in the group.
The existence of this parent group saves teachers and parents a lot of trouble, and also makes them more closely connected. Most parents are happy to cooperate with the teacher, but there are some special circumstances.
Some parents raised objections to the teacher in the group, mainly focusing on the homework and causing controversy. They complained that when they came home after a long day at work, they had to take on the burden of helping their children with homework and completing manual tasks assigned by teachers. Parents bluntly say that tutoring their children with homework is simply more tiring than going to work.
Gradually, the teacher's responsibility seems to be shifted to the parents, especially the responsibility of supervising the students' homework. Some parents found that the teacher no longer looked for the student directly, but looked for the parents by name in the group, which made many parents feel extremely hard, as if they were also going to school and had to accept the teacher's criticism and education.
While most parents are able to accept the teacher's criticism and respond positively, there are some parents who are not afraid of the teacher wearing small shoes for the student, and directly respond to inappropriate words. Every student is a treasure to parents, and they are reluctant to hear any negativity or criticism.
In one case, a student was sick and did not turn in an assignment on time. The teacher asked the parent in the group about the reason, and the parent explained that the student was unable to complete the homework due to illness. The teacher was a little dissatisfied when he saw it, and replied: "You should explain the situation in time, do you still need me to say this?" However, the parent took a tough attitude and replied directly: "What are you, I want to report to you."
After this incident, the other parents in the parent group felt overwhelmed and pretended not to see it. The teacher was also speechless by the parents, and everyone commented that the parent's attitude was too much, after all, the teacher was just fulfilling his duties, and parents should not be so disrespectful.
Teachers and parents are responsible for this quarrel, and there are problems with the attitudes of both parties.
In this altercation, many people will accuse parents of having a problem with their attitude. In any case, it is inappropriate to use words like "what are you" to respond to a teacher in a parent group. If there is any objection, you should communicate with the teacher through private chat to make the matter clear. Although it is understandable that parents are anxious about the illness of students, the expression is inappropriate.
As a teacher, you have the right to ask why students are not completing their homework. If a student is unable to complete the assignment due to illness, the parent should first notify the teacher and explain the reason why the student is unable to complete the assignment, rather than explaining afterwards, or even justifiably stating that they are preventing the student from writing the assignment when asked.
However, teachers should also be held accountable for the occurrence of quarrels. The teacher has problems with the way they communicate, and the tone of the inquiry may seem too blunt and give the impression of being superior. Concern about students' illness also appears to be insufficient, which may be one of the reasons for parents' dissatisfaction.
The attitude of the parents also seems to be arrogant, and there is no respect for the teacher's words. No matter how much you care about the students, no matter how anxious you are about the students' illnesses, you can't treat the teachers with such an attitude. Teachers also need to continue teaching, and there are other parents in the parent group, an attitude that may cause other parents to resent.
A conflict requires the participation of both parties, and the teacher also bears some responsibility in this quarrel. There is a problem with the teacher's communication style, and the tone is stiff and gives the impression that it is not easy to approach. Attention should also be paid to the physical condition of the student, at least after learning that the student is sick, showing concern and asking about the student's condition. It cannot be indifferent, so as not to cause dissatisfaction among parents.
Teachers and parents should respect each other when getting along, not who has the final say, but communicate on an equal footing. We share the responsibility of cultivating students' talents, and only by getting along with each other can we better help students grow. The most important thing is to learn to respect each other and communicate in a measured manner.
Parents should abandon an overly flattering attitude towards teachers and instead communicate with teachers through an egalitarian mindset. Trust and respect for teachers is key, and as long as enough trust and respect are established, teachers will be accountable to each student.
In the same way, teachers should respect parents and should not openly criticize parents whenever there is a problem in the parent group. The target of education is the student, not the parents, so the teacher should not have the idea of offending the parents. When you have questions, you can communicate with parents privately to achieve mutual respect.
Teachers are responsible for educating students, while parents are responsible for nurturing students at home. Both have a common goal, which is to develop good students. Therefore, when educating students, it is necessary to do what they can and avoid questioning each other as soon as problems arise. Understanding each other and trusting each other is key.
Finally, parents and teachers should be role models for students and not adopt undesirable practices that will only leave a bad impression on students. Parents and teachers need to work together to nurture their students.
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