How can a person grow at a rate far faster than his peers and become more powerful, the following are the strategies I have summarized: 1. Reduce useless social relationships and increase effective network resources. The essence of social interaction is value exchange, but everyone may have some people around who are full of negative energy and love to complain, they not only cannot provide any value, but also consume your energy, affect your emotions, and imprison your thinking.
On the way to your growth, the friends around you must have rowed in circles and circles. Former friends are gradually estranged, and connections that can be on the same frequency will take their place. Networking is not the same as socializing, and you may not get any benefit from eating 100 meals with your so-called Big Brother. On the contrary, some seemingly inconspicuous friends can change the direction of your life with a single word. Therefore, the best way to get help from noble people is to make yourself noble.
2. Reduce bad lifestyle habits and increase exercise and reading. Bad habits will not only cause harm to the body, but also make the inner world gradually collapse. Without a healthy body, we lose interest in many things. If you don't sleep well, you don't have energy, you are emotionally unstable, and your thinking is slow. The body is the hardware, and only when the hardware is stable, the superstructure will be strong.
3. Reduce brainless efforts and increase flexible thinking. If you don't feel motivated all the time, it usually means that it's probably wrong to do it. If you're doing something and you find it particularly difficult and anxious all the time, chances are, you've used a stupid approach from the start.
For those who go to work like a grave, maybe you should wonder whether your job is suitable for you; Those extremely difficult relationships, maybe you shouldn't have been together in the first place; Books that are hard to read, habits that require willpower to develop, are not the best choice for you at this stage of your life.
The result of competing with oneself and the world is often to be beaten all over the ground and find teeth.