In our lives, we will inevitably meet people who make us feel uncomfortable or don't like us. They could be our colleagues, friends, or family members. When confronted with such people, we often choose to confront them directly to express our dissatisfaction and disgust. But is this really the best response? The answer, of course, is no. So what to do if you hate someone?
First of all, you need to understand that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, and no one is perfect. When we feel disgusted with a person, we should first try to understand the person and why he behaves in a way that disgusts us. Maybe he didn't mean it, maybe he didn't know that his actions were making us uncomfortable. By getting to know him, we will find that he also has difficulties and helplessness.
Second, we need to learn to control our emotions. When we don't like someone, we tend to be controlled by emotions and act impulsively. However, such behavior will only make things worse. We need to learn how to calm down and deal with problems rationally. Only in this way can the optimal solution be found.
Third, we need to learn to respect others. Even if we don't like someone, we need to respect their personality and rights. You can't deny him everything because of some of his actions. We need to respect his choices and lifestyle. Only in this way can we truly know and receive God.
Finally, you need to learn to communicate. Communication is the best way to solve problems. When you don't like someone, you should try to communicate with him, expressing your feelings and thoughts. Maybe he didn't know that his actions were making us uncomfortable. Or maybe they don't know that their actions are wrong. Through communication, we can tell him how we feel and also allow him to change his behavior.
If we don't like a person, we should not choose against that person, but to understand that person, control our emotions, respect others, communicate effectively, and you should try it. Only in this way can we truly solve the problem, not further complicate it. Remember, if you don't like someone, you don't need to fight them. This is the best way to retaliate.