Wen Feiyu.
In life, you will always deal with all kinds of people, but not everyone can like you, and you won't like everyone, there are always some people that you hate and don't like your eyes.
But no matter if we hate a person, there is no need to show it, let alone turn our faces, but just smile indifferently, and just see through it without saying it.
To be a man, you must also know how to be sensible and know how to behave in the world, so that you can stand firm.
Even if you please someone, there is no need to expose your shortcomings, there is no need to repay you, you can get along if you get along, and you won't get along if you don't get along.
In fact, smart people and people with a big pattern don't disdain the people they hate at all, and they don't argue with others, but feel that they are not all the way, and they won't come together in the end.
If you hate someone, you don't have to turn your face.
1. The best way to deal with people you hate is not to turn your face, but to praise them.
Judging from the way Uncle and Mei Ping get along with Mei Ping in "Flowers", Uncle is smart, which shows that Uncle is not right about people.
Uncle and Mr. Bao do foreign trade, but Miss Wang, who followed up the foreign trade list, was calculated by Mei Ping, Miss Wang is a very important person to Mr. Bao, so Mr. Bao has never had a good face in the face of Mei Ping.
Because all of Miss Wang's business orders were transferred to Mei Ping, Mei Ping connected with her uncle.
Although Uncle also hates Mei Ping very much, he doesn't do anything excessive with her on the surface.
Because in the eyes of his uncle, Mei Ping is just a partner who works with him, and she is not an important person, and there is no need to be angry, because Mei Ping is still useful to her uncle, and her uncle's list also needs Mei Ping, and when Miss Wang is gone, she can only rely on Mei Ping to do some things.
Therefore, when my uncle contacted Mei Ping, he didn't say anything about her, and sometimes he would give her some pointers, all of which were just exchanging values.
If Uncle is also willful, then he may be calculated by Mei Ping.
Therefore, when Uncle dealt with Mei Ping, he did not turn his face, but praised her, making her proud, only those who are flamboyant will not be treated by the leaders.
In the end, Mei Ping was not appreciated by the leaders and could not be promoted, so she resigned.
There is no need to hate a person in life, even if you hate it, don't let yourself fall into endless struggles, but praise each other without money, let yourself be wanton, and when you should get a lesson, you will always be unable to escape.
2. When you hate someone, you must also know how to give the other person.
When Miss Wang was frustrated, it was caused by her colleague Mei Ping's complaint, which caused Miss Wang to leave Office 27 and go to the warehouse to move goods.
But Mr. Bao's business always needs someone to dock, and the person who connects is Mei Ping, Mr. Bao is very angry, because he is upset for Miss Wang, so every time he sees Mei Ping, he doesn't give her a good face, and he doesn't pay attention to her, which makes Mei Ping feel very unhappy every time.
But Uncle Bao told Mr. Bao, don't have a hard time with Mei Ping, no matter what, you still have to ask people for things when you do things, and you must know how to give the other party.
Therefore, in front of Mei Ping, my uncle gave her enough face, made her confident, and praised her as a person who could be a section chief, so Mei Ping would work harder to do their business.
If you hate a person, it's not indifference, but it depends on the relationship, if there is still a cooperative relationship with the other party, you can't turn your face no matter what, give the right side enough, and you can get benefits, there is no need to break the net.
Third, to be a man, win in the pattern, do not have to turn your face.
In this life, you will meet many people, and it is normal to have annoying people.
When someone does something that makes you look unpleasant, or even when that person's personality makes you hate it, you don't have to compare yourself with others.
There is a saying that not all fish will live in the same sea. The three views are different, there is no need to be strong, and people's hearts are different, so they don't have to go together.
It's not a person all the way, you don't have to go together, you don't need to turn your face.
To be a man, you must be broad-minded, have a pattern, and have a plan in your heart. Don't get angry at people who don't deserve it, and don't waste your time and energy because of people you hate.
Careful and-for-tat, will only lower your own level, learn to leave room for others, leave a way out for yourself, and be a master.
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