There are all kinds of fruits in this world, but there are no ifs.
If I could go back to ten years ago, I wouldn't even go to the dinner with He Zhiqiang.
The inferior nature of men who throw it away when they get it, I have seen the ten years of PUA.
The yellow-faced woman is not as good as a cow and a horse, and she smiles shyly as green tea.
The patriarchal mother-in-law who does everything to give birth to her grandchildren, the aunt who sow discord and tribulates her brother-in-law, and the one who only says "That's my mother, what do you want me to do?" "I'm so tired from work, you can't stop and stop" soft eggs don't plant men.
The moment I knew the truth, I hated tearing them apart.
Don't worry, the accounts that should be calculated are coming one by one.
Retribution is late.
There was a crisp sound, and I threw the ** inspection report in my husband's face: "He Zhiqiang, He Zhiqiang, I didn't expect it, I really didn't expect it, you really have eight hundred hearts and eyes, and none of them are solid!" ”
Pushing away my mother-in-law, who was cross-legged and about to scold, I went back to the house and took the real estate certificate, bank card, ID card and other documents, slammed the door, and left this place that had made me sick for ten years overnight.
Thinking of the scene of seeing the doctor yesterday, my tears are like the grievances of opening the floodgates, and I can't stop it.
There's something wrong with you......"I was lying on the bed of color Doppler ultrasound, waiting for the doctor to give me the verdict again.
Ten years of begging for children, I have been extremely proficient in these examination processes, and I don't know how many examinations such as manual examination, ultrasound, and abdominal ultrasound have been done.
Or premature ovarian failure, can't have children? I muttered in despair.
What kind of premature ovarian failure, although you have scraped the uterus twice, the uterine wall is a little thin, but it is not that you can't get pregnant", the doctor looked serious: "I'm talking about your medical record, is it a little problematic, what you saw last time in ***, how is it severe cervical erosion and severe premature ovarian failure?" You don't have this symptom! ”
What the? I sat up in shock: "I don't have any of these diseases?" But I'm a doctor from an old specialist. My husband said that the famous old expert is very good at infertility, and his colleague went to treat it for half a year, and then gave birth to a pair of twin boys! ”
What an old expert, I'm afraid you've been deceived! Cervical erosion is not a disease in our professional medicine, many people are frightened by its name, in fact, it is just a physiological change, the scientific name is cervical columnar epithelial ectopyleny, there is no need to **" The doctor looked at me very unbearably: "At present, my instrument examination here shows that this is the case, otherwise when you take the ultrasound results and let the doctor follow-up, ask in detail?" ”
The midday sun was warm and warm, and I stumbled out of the hospital, only to feel cold all over.
The doctor who followed up also said that there was no problem with my fertility, although I had a miscarriage that hurt my uterus before, but I usually pay attention to maintenance, and there should be no problem in conceiving life. It's just that I'm not young now, and if I really become an elderly mother in the future, I have to take good care of it and have regular prenatal checkups.
Since I don't have a problem, what is the problem?
Unexpectedly, a heartfelt invitation from my girlfriend made me discover the biggest lie in my life.
My husband He Zhiqiang and I met on a blind date, he was a cadre, and after he was discharged from the army, he was placed to work in the county civil affairs bureau. Male civil servants are considered to be the top high-quality resources in the blind date market in our small county.
When I was introduced to meet by someone, I didn't have much hope, after all, I am an accountant with a high school degree and an ordinary private company, and I am not in the right place with him.
But after he met for the first time, he often chatted with me on WeChat, saying that he was a little regretful that he had delayed his life as a soldier, but he fell in love with me at first sight and felt that it was fate, and the moment he met me again, the previous wait was worth it.
I was flattered, I didn't expect that in my barren life, there were still people who liked me so much. In the two months we got along, he was considerate, gentle, and thoughtful, and treated me like a jewel. I felt like the pearl in the mud and sand, and at last someone had brushed away the dust that fate had sprinkled on me and seen my shining light.
Soon, we got married. I look forward to the future and plan to give him a warm and sweet home.
Although I was in love like glue and glued together like a conjoined baby all day long, I always stuck to the bottom line and refused to go to the last step, I wanted to save the most precious first time for the night of the cave room, which is the most devout sacrifice of love.
He Zhiqiang cherished me even more because of this, he forcibly restrained himself every time, lowered his head and whispered in my ear: "Baby, you are so good." ”
I gave him a disgusted look, blushing and bowing my head: "Soon we will get married, you can..."”
He kissed me hard for a while, and finally got up quickly: "I'm out of shape, go to a cold water face." ”
I was shy and happy, and felt that he not only loved me, but respected me.
The days of preparing for the wedding were very busy, and He Zhiqiang had to be valued by the leadership, so he assigned an important task and worked overtime almost every day. Wedding preparations are almost always done by me, from booking wedding dresses, banquets, emcee team, buying candy, and writing invitations. I was immersed in the sweet picture of the future, I was in a better mood and didn't feel tired at all, but my best friend Tian Tian couldn't look past it, persuaded me to rest more, keep the best state to meet the most beautiful moment of life, and sent an assistant to help me.
The wedding was held as scheduled, He Zhiqiang came in a hurry, almost late, saying that there was an emergency in the work he was responsible for, and he ran over immediately after it was handled.
I didn't think much about it, looking at his messy clothes and urging him to change into a spare wedding dress, probably because he was too busy with work to take care of himself.
The wedding went well, I was so happy that I didn't notice my mother-in-law's eyes looking up and down, and I ignored my best friend's expression, smiling happily and sweetly like every bride, looking forward to a happy future.
However, the wedding night that I was anxious and longed for like 10,000 rabbits gave me a blow ...... the head
On the wedding night, my husband was so drunk that he slept soundly on the red sheets of mandarin ducks I had carefully selected. My mother-in-law and two sisters, while watching the bride clean up the filth of drunken vomiting, snorted melon seeds and taught the way of filial piety to the husband.
It's really a piece of harmony. If that bride kneeling and mopping the floor in a toasting dress wasn't mine.
Want me to say. Our bride is really blessed, look at this wedding today, how many big people have come! Our little brother really has a bright future! The eldest sister cocked the newly made bright red manicure, rolled her lips, and spit out two melon seed shells lightly, which landed on the freshly polished floor tiles: "Yo, brother and sister, I'm really sorry, this melon seed shell is disobedient, and the eldest sister will clean it up for you in a while!" ”
What to clean up, how can there be an aunt and grandmother who still work at the door. My mother-in-law pulled it with her foot: "Xiao Jiang, you are tired, clean it up." ”
The second aunt married a businessman, and she was quite bold, seeing me bowing my head and working without speaking, as soon as her eyes rolled, she took off a thin gold ring from her finger and handed it over: "Brother and sister, when you enter the door of our old He family, it is a family, you take this, and give our mother a big fat grandson to hug as soon as possible." ”
I blushed and panicked, unable to speak.
The more she talked, the more engaged she became, as if she hadn't seen her for 800 years, and she had a basket of things to say. Seeing that I was tired from the corners of my eyes and yawning, let me go to bed first.
When I cleaned up the house, it was already more than two o'clock in the morning, looking at my husband who was sleeping like a dead pig, and then looking at the mother and daughter who were talking about sex and had no intention of leaving, I suppressed the sourness in my heart and went to the guest room to lie down.
I'm probably the only bride in the world who tosses and turns alone in the guest room on her wedding night!
The days after marriage now seem to have fallen from one lie to another, from one abyss to another.
First of all, He Zhiqiang changed his previous diligent, down-to-earth, gentle and considerate appearance, and was a shopkeeper at home, and he was not convinced when the oil bottle was poured. And then my mother-in-law mentions the face every day, and the son who was born early will inherit the family and inherit the incense. From time to time, my eldest sister came back to guide me and teach me how to behave.
I asked He Zhiqiang, how did he change so much from before he got married, when he was nesting on the sofa playing games, I mopped the floor and asked him to lift his feet, he frowned impatiently and said: "I am a distinguished paying user, you have no points in your heart?" ”
The etiquette and promise of the bride price, to his mouth, have become accounts of paying for the bill, and have also become an excuse for presumptuousness.
In this way, my parents asked me to bring back all the bride price, and also married another 100,000 dowry, so I can also be different from the outside? I don't understand, I just think it shouldn't be like this.
Mopping the floor is so much, let me come when you're tired. The mother-in-law took the washed clothes in a basin to dry.
To put it nicely, it's not me who comes at the end of every time.
I glanced at it, and sure enough, it was only her own clothes and He Zhiqiang's. She said that if she didn't wash my clothes, she was afraid that they would not be clean, and my clothes were estimated to be expensive, and she was afraid that they would be damaged.
Oh, I'm not a good person at all to be a nanny and an old mother in your house, and the clothes can be so expensive that they can be **. Besides, her mother's clothes, even if it is a ragged sweatshirt, she has to wash and scrub it by hand before putting it in the washing machine, for fear that it will not be clean.
It's nothing more than deliberately not wanting to wash my clothes, so come to answer me!
I inadvertently mentioned it to He Zhiqiang, he lay on the bed and turned over impatiently, his back facing me like a mountain: "A, it's worth talking about?" It's not easy for my mother to pull most of our sisters alone! Can't you be considerate and considerate of her? ”
Your mother didn't raise me either, so why should I be considerate of everything? I don't understand.
After half a year of marriage, my stomach has not moved, and my mother-in-law said that I was infertile, so I was in a hurry, so I found all kinds of home remedies**.
One day, I brought a pack of brown Chinese medicine that smelled strange, tossed in the kitchen all morning, boiled out a bowl of black soup, and stuffed it directly under my nose: "Drink it, the heirloom recipe of the old Chinese medicine is not available to ordinary people, I finally begged someone to get a pair, and quickly drank it, and my eldest grandson will come to the house tomorrow." ”
Mom, Chinese medicine can't be drunk indiscriminately, I went to the hospital two days ago, there is nothing wrong, this marriage has only been half a year, don't be in a hurry to go to the doctor, right? ”
What's no problem, Xiao Li, the daughter-in-law of the old Qian family downstairs, has just been married for two months, and her stomach is bulging at this time, and her mother-in-law is so happy that she can't close her mouth every day, all in front of me. The mother-in-law slammed the bowl on the table impatiently: "Such a good medicine, your eldest sister gave birth to Dabao after eating it, don't waste it!" ”
After saying that, he turned around and left, and a sentence came from the wind, "It's a good thing!" ”
When He Zhiqiang came back from work, his mother-in-law couldn't wait to file a complaint, not knowing what his son said, and finally the medicine went into the sewer.
I was very moved, I felt that He Zhiqiang still had me in his heart, he was just a little machismo, annoying in small things, and he was still on my side in big things.
I was gentle and careless that night, and He Zhiqiang was also unusual.
You know, he used the excuse that he was too tired from work, and he hadn't touched me for a month.
It seems that the pressure from my mother-in-law is not completely without benefits, I even thought stupidly.
I really want to give.