My nephew is 32 years old this year, and after graduating from college, he was successfully admitted to the career establishment, with a monthly salary of 6,000 yuan, and some time ago I was introduced by relatives and met a girlfriend, and the girl was a teacher in elementary school.
But there is no establishment, the monthly salary is only about 4,000 yuan, and I was going to get engaged during the Spring Festival this year, but I didn't expect that the two of them had broken up recently.
The nephew's family has a house and a car, the economic conditions are not bad, a few years ago, he took out a loan to buy a house, because there is a provident fund, so the repayment pressure is not particularly large, the parents are retired from public institutions, and the monthly salary adds up to **thousand, and the economic pressure is not great.
But his girlfriend is only from the countryside, his parents are honest farmers, there is no pension, and there is a younger brother who is in his second year of college, but last month his girlfriend's mother fell seriously ill.
I have been hospitalized in the hospital for a long time, and now I have spent hundreds of thousands, which is simply a hole that cannot be filled, and now the family's savings have all been dug up and spent, and I may still owe a lot of foreign debts.
Originally, the two were already going to get engaged, but after this incident, the nephew's family directly opposed this marriage, believing that if the two got married in the future, his girlfriend's family would definitely become a burden to their son, and they had a sick person at home, so the money would definitely not be spent.
I still need someone to take care of it, and it is estimated that the money I earn is not enough to see a doctor, so for the sake of my future, I finally chose to cut through the mess quickly and ended the relationship.
Nowadays, men are becoming more and more realistic, only thinking about their own interests and not considering the feelings of the other party, but if you think about it carefully, marriage is indeed a good match.