When a friend gets engaged, it's a common question whether we should go along with the gift. In Chinese culture, Sui Li is a way of expressing blessings and festivity, usually as a gift or red envelope given on an important occasion or celebration. If you think that a friend's engagement is a big celebration to celebrate, then a casual gift is a way to express your blessings and joy to your friend.
First of all, the gift is not only a material gift, but also an expression of emotion. By giving gifts, you can express your blessings and good wishes to your friends and make them feel your care and warmth. At the same time, it is also a social etiquette that can strengthen the connection and affection between you and your friends.
Secondly, the method and amount of the gift vary from person to person. You can decide the amount of the gift according to your financial strength and relationship with your friends. If you have a close relationship with a friend or are financially well-off, you can give a relatively large amount of money to express your blessings and celebrations. If you are financially constrained, you can choose some small but delicate gifts or red envelopes to show your heart.
Finally, it's important to note that gifting is not a mandatory act. If you're confused or hesitant about whether or not to go with the gift, you can talk to a friend about their thoughts and opinions. If you don't think you're fit for the gift, or if you can't do it for another reason, you can explain the reason and express your blessing to a friend.
In conclusion, salute is a way to express blessings and festivity, but it is not a mandatory act. You can decide whether you want to give a gift or not according to your situation and relationship with your friends to express your blessings and good wishes to your friends.