Recently, it was reported that a girl in Yanbian, Jilin Province, in order to avoid ineffective socialization, posted in the circle of friends not to participate in the gifts of ordinary classmates, and many netizens praised it:Well doneThis generation of young people has begun to tidy up their money!
Xiao Wang, the party concerned, said: "At that time, it was about to be a holiday, and there were many people I knew who got married, and some of them had not been in touch for ten years, and they only came to join me this year and my junior high school classmates invited to attend the wedding." I feel that this situation will occur in the future, and I myself am very disgusted with the Xi of gifting, so I directly sent it to the circle of friends to make it clear, people who agree with my ideas do not need to explain much, and people who disagree with my ideas will not become good friends with me, so that friends who are not familiar with me will not ask me to go to the ceremony in the future. After sending this circle of friends, Xiao Wang said that no one has let him follow the gift yet.
In this regard, many netizens expressed their deep sympathy, "I did what I wanted to do but didn't dare to do", and some netizens said that there was no need to post on Moments, and felt that there was no need to go with the courtesy, and some people sent invitations, not necessarily for money, just out of respect and funFollowWhy are young people reluctant to do so?It is not uncommon for people to encounter similar problems, according to ** previous reports, before the National Day holiday this year, Ms. Li's complaint in Jinan, Shandong Province has aroused widespread attention and heated discussions, Ms. Li said that since September, she has been attending weddings almost every weekend, and Ms. Li feels physically and mentally exhausted, and at the same time, she is more "worried" about her wallet, "My monthly salary is only about 5,000 yuan, and in September, I have gone out with the gift of nearly 3,000 yuan......."Finally, I had a small long vacation, almost all of which were set up on the banquet, and my travel and rest plans were forced to be canceled. ”** One issuedIt quickly resonated with netizens
Five. 1. Eleventh and the upcoming Spring Festival, for today's young people, they are most afraid of "sudden greetings" from friends who have not been in touch for "a hundred years", "How have you been doing lately?".Without saying a few words, he suddenly threw out an electronic invitation: "We sincerely invite you to our wedding", it is a Xi and etiquette for the newlyweds to hold a wedding, relatives and friends to send red envelopes, which can not only increase the festive atmosphere, but also express good wishes to the newlyweds, but I don't know when the gift was kidnapped by the utilitarian heart, the money is rising, and the originally beautiful money has become a "tight hoop" on the heads of young peopleRectify the "share money".It is not a rejection of the "human touch".Over the years, the discussion on the Internet about "not following the elements" and "returning the money to its original meaning" has been on the hot search, but it is really difficult to "beat" the money to achieve the two-way rush of gifts and friendship, in fact, what the public minds is not the Xi of following the elements itself, but the reality of following the people they feel is unnecessaryYoung people reorganize their moneyIt's not about rejecting the human touchRather, it is a refusal to monetize favorsFollowers are not bad Xi, the key is how we "follow".
Visual ChinaBack to basicsLet the "smell of money" be lighterWhen friends who are thousands of miles away come to attend the wedding, when classmates who have not seen each other for a long time go to a wedding banquet, the heavy friendship is the most expensive part of the money for the newlywedsPut some thought into itLet the "human touch" be strongerIn addition to the gift money, there are more carriers worth trying, carefully selected gifts will make the blessing longer, "work for gifts" can make the friendship stronger, can make a cake, can make a cake, can make up to help make up, run errands, and make some efforts, this form of gift can make the wedding more lively, but also make the relationship between people more intimate, in addition.
Some newlyweds also began to refuse to accept money, a couple in Hangzhou provided "gift money mutual exemption cards" to unmarried relatives and friends, and a couple in Maoming, Guangdong, tore a corner of the red envelope to say that they received blessings, and some young people began to hold simple weddings attended by only their parents or only a few relatives took the initiative to block most ......of the gift money from the door