It is said that if you want to make a man die, you only need beauty.
No matter how amazing the beauty is, there will always be a time when you get tired of looking at it, and there will always be a time when you get old.
If you want to attract a man for a long time, it is not your appearance, but your excellent interior.
Therefore, a beautiful woman can only amaze a man at a glance, and what can really make a man appreciate is such a woman.
Independent woman
There is a sentence in the Memoirs of a Geisha:"The best way to attract someone is to be independent and not deliberately flattering. ”
An independent woman will never rely on a man financially and spiritually, and they know that it is better to rely on others than on themselves.
A financially independent woman, not to say that she is rich and rich, but at least she can support herself, not to say that she has a successful career, but at least she has a job that allows her to create value.
Whether they are in love or married, they have enough confidence to spend their own money and buy what they like, instead of asking men for money with their palms up.
The economic base determines the superstructure, which is practiced in every corner of life.
Independent-minded women, they have their own bottom line, their own principles, even if they love, they will not let their principles give way to love.
He will not give up his family and friends, and his self-esteem and pride because a man wants to live or die.
If the relationship is not worth it, they will not let themselves be compromised, but let it go generously.
Because in their world, love is very important, but their own life is more important, and there is no need to make a mess of their life for love.
is like what Tang Jing said in "The First Half of My Life":"The ring is beautiful, I can buy it myself. I can also take good care of myself. ”
A woman as weak as a silk flower will make a man pity, but a woman as independent as a flower will make a man appreciate.
Inclusive woman
I once saw a question on the Internet: How did you get to the end of your life?
Someone replied like this:
During a quarrel, I realized that if we continued to quarrel, it would be completely over between us, so I quickly relented, sincerely apologized to her, and coaxed her.
But the response is this:"You're wrong, I heard you right, right? How could you be wrong? You can't be wrong, you'll always be right! ”
After going back and forth a few times, we parted.
There's a good quote in The Simpsons:
"Honey, if you're too competitive, you'll never be happy. ”
Now many women are misled by some remarks and ** on the Internet, thinking that the most loving mode for couples to get along with each other is that men tolerate women without a bottom line, and women can bully men unscrupulously.
For example, a classic couple joke:
The woman was putting on her eyeliner and kept muttering: "Don't move, don't move, don't move!" ”Just have fun with this **, don't do it yourself, regardless of men and women, you need respect and tolerance for each other.The man didn't dare to move.
As a result, the eyeliner was still crooked, and the woman turned around and gave the man a slap.
It's said that you don't move, don't move, you still move! ”
The man said aggrievedly: "I'm sorry, I'm breathing!" ”
An aggressive woman will only polish a man's love a little bit, while a woman who is principled, but knows how to be tolerant, will be appreciated by men.
Optimistic woman
Lin Huiyin is a famous talented woman in the ** period, in addition to her outstanding literary talents, her optimism and strength also make her more attractive.
At the outbreak of the war, Lin Huiyin's family had to flee all the way from Beiping to Kunming, and then to Lizhuang, Sichuan.
Life was difficult, the houses were built improvisely, there was no electricity, running water, toilets, rats and snakes, and beds were littered with bed bugs.
In the midst of displacement, Lin Hui almost lost his life due to a high fever for several days.
But even in this life, she is still optimistic and strong, she takes on all the housework, changes the way to cook some delicious dishes for the children, patiently teaches the two children to learn, and still insists on her work.
She wrote in a letter to a friend:
"The sun here is always unusually bright, the sky is blue day and night, and the clouds are moving freely. ”
Her optimism has infected her husband, children, and friends, all of whom have admired her.
Writer Zhou Guoping said:No matter how short life is, we have to live with a smile, enjoy with a smile, suffer with a smile, and finally die with a smile, so that we can live a life in vain.
With a cheerful and optimistic woman, even if she encounters difficulties, she can be calm and move forward, she always inspires others and gives people positive motivation.
In their eyes, the cold will become warm, the pain will eventually pass, and happiness and joy will be in their own hands.
Such a woman, no matter whether the man succeeds or fails outside, can gain enterprising motivation in her and will never lose her yearning for life.
A short-term love can be a sight to behold, but a long-term relationship must be attracted by an excellent soul.
An independent, tolerant, and optimistic woman, no matter how ordinary her appearance is, can't block her light.